My(20M) Past girlfriend(19F) doesn't let me move away (please help I'm confused)

We started when when we were 16 and 15.

Quick context is that because of her family problems she didn't message me for about 1 year without me knowing that she had suffered in the meantime about her mental health and some other things which actually are very serious but in that 1 year i had tried to move on very hard because to me it was a sudden shock (nothing compared to what she went through, her was worse)

I want to be with her till the date but I can't because she looks future as us partners and married in future but you all know in india marriage means connecting with two families, an I'm not very comfortable with her family members because they hate me also my family members are super strict about caste system (I'm against but I'm tied up).

In that one year i decided to focus on becoming who i always wanted to.. grow in combat sports and it requires actual dedication, not 2-3 hours training but everyday 10-12 hours of hardwork while managing college.. i can manage her aswell but the only thing is it'll maybe slow down my progess and her's too.

I want to stay single and away but she messages me every time and i have to reply because I'm in somewhat fear that she might take a wrong step because of what happened to her earlier and cherry on top a guy hanged himself because of love. I'm scared to hell and confused at the same time.

In simple words: I can't love her and keep her hanging because of her family background and their nature towards me, also because of my goal.

HELP ME!!!

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u/dinosaur_picker — 19 hours ago

19M How do i initiate conversation with this girl

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Hey everybody I'm 19M, i have a near less interaction with women from past 1.5 years since my breakup and I thought to just leave this shit. But now i feel i should make some progress..

Every evening i walk my dog and there's a girl who actually go for walk at the same time bracket and we've crossed path almost everyday but zero eye contact. I'm not that handsome.. i don't even think i come in handsome category but i really wanna start a conversation. I need y'all to guide mehow to do it.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 18 days ago

How do i initiate conversation

Hey everybody I'm 19M, i have a near less interaction with women from past 1.5 years since my breakup and I thought to just leave this shit. But now i feel i should make some progress..

Every evening i walk my dog and there's a girl who actually go for walk at the same time bracket and we've crossed path almost everyday but zero eye contact. I'm not that handsome.. i don't even think i come in handsome category but i really wanna start a conversation. I need y'all to guide mehow to do it. (Preferably indians, cuz India has a very different culture from the west. I won't mind other people either)

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u/dinosaur_picker — 24 days ago

Uttarakhand needs to fix

Hey uttarakhandis!

The protest maybe over for CJP but not for us.

We have to ask for better surroundings and infra. Garbage, roads, trees, cows on roads,etc

This is what i have seen from my eyes

The dump near kargi chowk smells a lot, which was supposed to be a river became a sewage.

People drive very casually even on narrow roads

Turner road is fuvked up, they'll construct one then just dig it up.

Haridwar, roorkee, laksar side of uttarakhand is so ignored that there are very less development.

A lot of garbage at ghats, and the problem is not only people but also the trash facility.

Dhurandhar dhami isey bhi theek krde 🥺

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u/dinosaur_picker — 25 days ago

Thrift store in dehradun

I wanna buy some jeans and t shirts for myself at affordable prices. I don't know any thrift stores in dehradun that actually gives better clothes at less price. If you know any, might share with me. Other than sunday market.

I live in clement town.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 25 days ago
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Hello everybody

I'm 19M 6ft tall, I'm looking if anyone would like to have a chat

I'm from india and I've noticed as soon as i say I'm indian people would just stop texting.

6ft tall

I like to draw, to run and train but I'm a beginner yet.

If you see this you can text me, I'm up.

6ft btw.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 26 days ago

How much should i weight train?

I'm 19 year old beginner boxer, I've recently joined a regular gym beside a boxing gym. I want to get maximum performance so what should i do in the gym because the traditional or regular split doesn't help much at combat sports. I'm new to weightlifting.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

Hoping to Meet the Right Person (Resume attached hai ji)

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Hi, I'm Tanishq 19M, and an extrovert type personality. I'm here because I'm hoping to meet someone genuine.

Im not looking for hookups, casual flings, or timepass. I believe in loyalty, honesty, and building a relationship based on trust and respect. My goal is simple: a peaceful, happy future with the right person.

Talking about myself i can cook whatever she want from YouTube 👉🏻👈🏻, i can draw her portrait and i can box for her too 🗿🔥. I may not have a very great physique but I'm trying build aesthetic too.

I'm more of a gaon person, khet, bhains, tractor and stuff. My dream is to build a house near our khet where we have 2 buffalos, some hens 5-6 desi dogs (i don't like foreign breeds) a beautiful garden and shit.

Tbh ik reddit is not a place for this, but IF, IF If you're interested, let's start by talking and getting to know each other. If we connect, we can see where it goes naturally. Other wise I'd love to know where my chances stand with these expectations. Maybe I'll bore you at start but, with time you won't sit with peace if I'm with you 😝.

Thank you.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

Wassup ladiess! how is y'all, Up for a conversation?

Heyy everybody, I'm 19M a not very good looking guy but i may be someone you'd love to talk to. I draw, i box also i run once a week. I'm a college student right now. I'd appreciate your DMs. I don't have a great physique but I'm working on it. (I'm great at giving compliments too)

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

Wassup ladiess! how is y'all, Up for a conversation?

Heyy everybody, I'm 19M a not very good looking guy but i may be someone you'd love to talk to. I draw, i box also i run once a week. I'm a college student right now. I'd appreciate your DMs. I don't have a great physique but I'm working on it. Based in uttarakhand rn.

(I just wanted to grab attention so i wrote "Wassup ladiess". Apologise.. but ladies are welcome. 🗿🔥

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago
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Hey how you doing? I'd love to know you.

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I'm 19M indian, in my college i have international students and they're so Friendly i was wondering if anyone wanna be friends just to chat around, only need to be consistent if you like my vibe, cuz WHY NOT? Any gender would be okay, straight 🙏🏻. (Had a lot of dm's from gay guys, JESUS!)

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

Hey how you doing? I'd love to know you.

I'm 19M indian, in my college i have international students and they're so Friendly i was wondering if anyone wanna be friends just to chat around, no need to be consistent if you like my vibe, cuz WHY NOT? Any gender would be okay, straight 🙏🏻. (Had a lot of dm's from gay guys, JESUS!)

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

19M Looking for some online friends. International preferred.

I've heard everywhere about online friends this and that, reels about tgem but i never had one. I was curious if anyone wants to be friends? Btw I'm 19M from india, I'm not very into fitness but i box🥊 and draw.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

Is this true?

I'm 19M i have male pattern baldness, i can see M shape forming on my hairline and hair thinning. I asked gemini and there is no other option than a hair transplant to get my hairline back but the hair thickness and volume is achievable. I wanna know what I should do to get dense hair back.

(I have a buzz and looking from far, people can see my scalp very clearly)

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago
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Is AVIKA RETAILS TRUSTED FOR ONLINE

Well i was thinking to buy my first pc and cane accross to avika retails as their deals actually attracted my attention. I live jn dehradun and was wondering is placing an order from them worth it or should i try local?

Ik these are bs specs but budget.

5500gt

8×2 3200mhz samsung ram

512gb consistent sata sad

Msi A520m A pro mobo

Pk450 deepcool psu

Or ek 2500 ka cabinet

Total around 34300 with shipping aa rha hai.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

Is AVIKA RETAILS TRUSTED FOR ONLINE

Well i was thinking to buy my first pc and cane accross to avika retails as their deals actually attracted my attention. I live jn dehradun and was wondering is placing an order from them worth it or should i try local?

Ik these are bs specs but budget.

5500gt

8×2 3200mhz samsung ram

512gb consistent sata sad

Pk450 deepcool psu

Or ek 2500 ka cabinet

Total around 34300 with shipping aa rha hai.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

Real reason of chaos? (please read if you're a student, even if you're not just do)

Since few months/years Dehradun has been cooked, y'all agree, now I'm from uttarakhand but not Garhwali or Kumaoni. I'm from haridwar district where people actually have a different culture the same as western UP.

People often talk about haryana tourists, and delhi but very few actually talk about Western UP. Since I'm from that area i can say, majority of these guys have spent their entire childhood in villages and it works like a lottery, when they come to cities they either bring their actual etiquette or being respectful but some think that there is no superior to them. Simple words "garam khoon". Aur inhe ye "vehem" hai ki unka koi kuch nahi ukhaad skta.

Also I've lived here from 2019 to 2022 before too, I've seen a great increase in the population of "desi" people in dehradun, although i am one(I'm a student).

And if this continued i can guarantee, dehradun will no longer be a peaceful city EVER. Me myself and other desis who genuinely are against this shit, feel ashamed of being counted with them. So if you can, please start treating these guys the exact way they do to you. Call police whenever needed.

And my final take is, TRUE HARYANA, WEST UP CULTURE DOES NOT TEACH THEIR KIDS TO TURN OUT TO LIKE THIS. it's like these guys have sniffed a bit of freedom in here and they have no one to be afraid of. Or ye bhi jante hai inka baap inki kaisi dhulai karta agar vo ye sab jante to.

And you're true about Delhi ones, I was just here to tell y'all about haryana and up.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 1 month ago

Pc shops in dehradun, who to choose?

Now i am kind of confused between two shops, one is "Best computers" and the other is "computer world" both are in raj plaza. If you guys have any experience with any Shop, what should i prefer to build my first PC.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 2 months ago

How did you lose your p*rn addiction

I'm 19M and I'm suffering from addiction. I've tried a lot to let go of my addiction of adult content and masturbation but i fail miserably every time. Although i do it only once or twice a week but it still affects me.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 3 months ago

DOG OWNERS HELP ME!

So i have an Indian spitz and i want to find a mate for him cuz he's 4 years old now and i want his pup. Now I'm in dehradun, i wanna know you pet owners what should i do to get a mate for him cuz it's hella difficult.

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u/dinosaur_picker — 3 months ago