u/fitic_

I need a room from September 18th, but I'm out of the country until the 16th. What can I do? I would be able to digitally sign everything.

Before someone asks me if I'm sure and an ex is an ex for something, bla, bla bla... I've already made my decision.

We broke up 2 years ago, but we have been hanging out. Now he's on holidays and I asked him for a souvenir. Idk if I should wait until he gets back to use that as an excuse to see him or wait to see if he bought me that.

There's a huge possibility that he says that he doesn't want to get back together, but idc. In that case I will just unfollow him everywhere and keep doing what I've been doing.

The issue is that idk how to approach the situation.

Before someone asks me if I'm sure and an ex is an ex for something, bla, bla bla... I've already made my decision.

We broke up 2 years ago, but we have been hanging out. Now he's on holidays and I asked him for a souvenir. Idk if I should wait until he gets back to use that as an excuse to see him or wait to see if he bought me that.

There's a huge possibility that he says that he doesn't want to get back together, but idc. In that case I will just unfollow him everywhere and keep doing what I've been doing.

The issue is that idk how to approach the situation.

Like, you put some tasks you want to do, and before opening the apps you selected asks you if you did the task, if not you cannot open it

The other day I saw a video of a girl who was using massage balls at home and it rewired her nervous system. I was wondering if you cou recommend me some videos or movements on how to do it.

Also, I've lost the video.

Idk if this would be considered a vent since it's not negative and English isn't my first language, but I wanted to talk about having a partner.

I've tried to share my opinion with other friends, some of whom have adhd, but I've not felt understood and I was wondering if there's someone here who feels the same ways, or to at least be able to explain how I feel without the need of someone explaining me how do they feel about their wonderful partner and how do they manage to have one.

First of all, I want to say that I've had a partner before and we were together for some years. I do not hate him and I have wonderful memories about our time together, however it is true that he has done some things that I cannot forgive nor forget even if I would like to.

I had suspected about being adhd for a long time but I did'nt have the need, the strenght or the money to look into it. I was finally and easily diagnosed 3 months ago. However I had been unmasking since before.

When I broke up with my ex I felt empty and I was also having difficulties with other aspects of my life, so it didn't help much. I was clinically depressed and decided that I wanted to make a change in my life. I started knitting, watching movies and tv shows, getting new interests and trying new things. The last year my life has improved a lot and there are moment where I feel genuinely happy, sometimes maybe a little bit euphoric.

It is also true that I still strugle to do certain things and that it seems that my brain has become a blob with the years. So it is really important for me to find this time for me to do my little hobbies.

All of what I've writen before is context to say that I want to do so many things but I'm unable to organise and do all of them. I barely have time for my friends so adding a partner would spoil everything.

Also, now that I'm happy I know what I deserve and my standards are higher than ever, and I'm just talking about personality. I don't thing that I'll like anyone ever again as much as I liked my ex. And that would be because:

• When I met him I was a teenager and all the hormones where around. It won't happen again.
• I spent a lot of time with him and I didn't even love him until 6 months into the relationship. I don't have the strengh to do dedicate that much time to someone
• I don't know how to meet new people and dating apps where not a nice experience.
• I like my free time.

It is not that I wouldn't like to have a partner ever again, because I love to be loved and I have a lot of love to give. But to find someone up to my standards, who likes me as much back and that I can organise to have my hobbies and also spend time with them... Let's just say that the odds are pretty low.

People around my age are getting married and having children so I cannot avoid to feel a little bit lonely.

As I said, I would love to fall in love but there's only and utopic idea of this possibility on my head.

That's all,

Goodnight

A classmate told me that it is free for students but I've been unable to find it.

I have 5 mornings to write a 15 pages paper. I know it's not impossible, but I cannot put my mind into starting to write.

Do you have any technique to concentrate and start?

Thank you very much

A month and a half ago I got my diagnosis for adhd and autism. Since my adhd is limiting my life I went to my doctor to get medication. They gave me an appointment for a month after and the only thing the doctor did when I went was to tell me that they would give me an appointment with the psychiatrist. Today I got a letter telling me that the appointment with the psychiatrist is December's 1st. That's more than 6 months from now and idk what ot do.