u/forme56

23F The other day I casually mentioned to a friend that I'm a little confused about my sexuality, but next time I want to tell her that I like women.

The problem is that I question everything, I question whether I like men or women, but I know I'm not straigh because some thoughts, but this same thoughts make me question everything.

I was talking to a friend on WhatsApp about sexualities and I ended up saying that I don't know what I am, and that people should leave me alone because so many people asked me if I'm lesbian.

Next time I'll try to be more specific, but I don't know if I'll be able to because just saying what I said made my hands tremble and I could feel my heartbeat.

But yay I was kinda brave for saying that.

* I've never kissed anyone or had any sexual experiences. Lately, I've noticed that:

* In a neutral state (not in a sexual state or watching porn), I don't feel any desire towards men.

* I can only imagine sex with a man if I'm in a "sexual state," but in real life, I don't feel like approaching him, kissing him, or initiating anything.

* I don't imagine myself romantically with men; I only see them as friends, or maybe until I found the one.

* I tried forcing myself to imagine romantic relationships with men, and I didn't feel anything real.

* With women, sometimes I don't "let" myself imagine it at all, as if there's a block, but I feel more confusion or something different.

Right now, I'm trying to understand if this could be real attraction to women, a lack of attraction to men, or simply that I'm still figuring myself out. Thanks.

(23F sexual orientation) I have two girl friends and I have some questions for a game prepared, like this: "who would kiss someone of their same sex" or "would you rather have a threesome with 2 men or a men a a woman" and from there they'll be surprised and reach their own conclusions blah blah blah.

I'm incapable of coming out in a traditional way. So what do y'all think?

• I've never kissed anyone or had any sexual experiences. Lately, I've noticed that:
• In a neutral state (not in a sexual state or watching porn), I don't feel any desire towards men.
• I can only imagine sex with a man if I'm in a "sexual state," but in real life, I don't feel like approaching him, kissing him, or initiating anything.
• I don't imagine myself romantically with men; I only see them as friends, or maybe until I found the one.
• I tried forcing myself to imagine romantic relationships with men, and I didn't feel anything real.
• With women, sometimes I don't "let" myself imagine it at all, as if there's a block, but I feel more confusion or something different.

Right now, I'm trying to understand if this could be real attraction to women, a lack of attraction to men, or simply that I'm still figuring myself out. Thanks.

23F I'm trying to understand my orientation and I'm getting a little confused.

• I've never kissed anyone or had any sexual experiences. Lately, I've noticed that:
• In a neutral state (not in a sexual state or watching porn), I don't feel any desire towards men.
• I can only imagine sex with a man if I'm in a "sexual state," but in real life, I don't feel like approaching him, kissing him, or initiating anything.
• I don't imagine myself romantically with men; I only see them as friends, or maybe until I found the one.
• I tried forcing myself to imagine romantic relationships with men, and I didn't feel anything real.
• With women, sometimes I don't "let" myself imagine it at all, as if there's a block, but I feel more confusion or something different.

Right now, I'm trying to understand if this could be real attraction to women, a lack of attraction to men, or simply that I'm still figuring myself out. Thanks.