u/fufugod

I apologize if this is a dumb question. I recently did an invoice and buyer paid pretty quickly. He did mention that he paid with his bank and not card which could cause a delay. That happened this past friday. I did let him know it was pending and he said it was fine if I waited a few days for shipment. My thing is activity it shows payment received, is this a glitch by chance? It still says pending below. I just want to get this shipped out for the buyer asap and not have him waiting if it’s something on my end

Unfortunately I completely destroyed my phone the other day. Decided to try out the air so I can experience the lightweight factor but if rumors are true and some drawbacks from the first gen ultra. Which phone do you think would be a good pairing to have a balance with it possibly? Maybe a pro max? Or just a base 18? Thoughts?

I just purchased the Air yesterday because unfortunately my phone completely shattered. I had the 16 pro max but I really was drawn to the air because of how thin the phone is. Initially I was waiting for the ultra in a few weeks, and even though I probably will still get one, I think I might daily this until the first few batches of the new model is out.

I’m just curious if anyone else went with the air who had a pro max before? How is it holding up? Battery wise, does it over heat much? Does the one camera lens bother you?

Initial thoughts, I love how light this unit is, and I don’t mind having this as a secondary phone for the long haul.

I’m trying to find a way to remove the ego and be positive about something that is a hard pill to swallow for me.

Very brief I met my ex wife when I was 15 in French class. I know it sounds silly but I only signed up for that was because my favorite movie is Ratatouille. I know it’s a kid movie but my home life was chaotic and unbalanced tbh. So that film was my escape, that maybe Paris was a whole different life I could experience one day.

Anyways years down the line we are married, I can afford for us to go but my ex just kept shutting it down, that it was a dumb idea, waste of money etc. even with the urge to go, I just left it in the back burner.

Fast forward we divorce, she remarries about 6 months after the divorce and guess where there honeymoon is..yup Paris.

I realized that it’s not that she didn’t want to go to Paris, it’s just that she didn’t want to go with me.

Happy for her though, I actually have a trip to head out there next spring, so I’m excited, it just hurts and makes me remember that if someone wants to do it, they will.

I’ve always wondered how others approached the situation. I kept mine very private outside of our parents. I was embarrassed tbh but also didnt want to ruin her reputation at church.

At the end during our separation I did let some people in our lives know but only because they wouldn’t stop nagging me to fight for the marriage. So I let the cat out the bag, to let them know they don’t know the whole story and there is a ton of reasons it was time to let go our marriage. I did feel a bit better letting it out.

I just wanted to share when I found out at the time my wife had cheated and I wanted to talk through it, she told me to get over it. Mind you, it was super fresh. That always stuck with me.

Those words broke me, I hate it happened, it made me a very cold person. I did a 180 and my life changed. Physically, financially, I was just motivated in so many ways that it helped me for a lifestyle I wanted but I almost hated who I became if that makes sense.

It’s funny we stayed married for 7 years after the fact and the coldness seemed to make my wife super close to me. I mean she did anything and everything I asked. In some ways I feel that I took advantage of it. I feel like I should have been a man and cut it off way before.

In the end we divorced but even if she continued to offer the world to me, I didn’t want it from her. I didn’t care.

I hate myself because I feel it bleeds into my relationships now, I get with women and I’m very honest that I don’t want commitment, mostly physical thing and I feel like not allowing myself to be in love again maybe? Idk anyone ever deal with this?

32 M . I’m not sure what’s wrong with me anymore. Im so lost that idk what sub to even post this at. Have you ever felt just lost or even numb. Nothing excites me or motivates me anymore. I grew up loving music but even that has lost its appeal. Music was my safe space.

I did go through a divorce a few years back but it’s not like I miss the relationship, more so the stability and routine I had with a marriage I guess. She happily married not long after the divorce which is awesome. I don’t crave romantics relationships anymore though. I talk with way more women now that are out my league but I don’t care about taking it serious. I like booking up , that’s it right now. Just physical.

Am I just getting old? I lost a lot of ambition to keep striving for more. In the past if things didn’t work out, I got back up and tried again. During my marriage I enjoyed the fruits of my labor but I don’t care about that anymore. I had really big goals and now that is nowhere near my mind. That use to motivate me to keep going.

I lost mostly everything in the divorce. I quit my job, and moved to a different state that I knew no one. Cut off everybody. I wanted to start new but that didn’t do much for me, I just stay to myself outside the women I go on dates with on occasion. Im just rambling I guess.

Maybe I’m depressed? Is this just a season in my life? Has anyone dealt with this? I just don’t want my world to be grey forever because that’s how it feels right now.

32 M . I’m not sure what’s wrong with me anymore. Im so lost that idk what sub to even post this at. Have you ever felt just lost or even numb. Nothing excites me or motivates me anymore. I grew up loving music but even that has lost its appeal. Music was my safe space.

I did go through a divorce a few years back but it’s not like I miss the relationship, more so the stability and routine I had with a marriage I guess. She happily married not long after the divorce which is awesome. I don’t crave romantics relationships anymore though. I talk with way more women now that are out my league but I don’t care about taking it serious. I like booking up , that’s it right now. Just physical.

Am I just getting old? I lost a lot of ambition to keep striving for more. In the past if things didn’t work out, I got back up and tried again. During my marriage I enjoyed the fruits of my labor but I don’t care about that anymore. I had really big goals and now that is nowhere near my mind. That use to motivate me to keep going.

I lost mostly everything in the divorce. I quit my job, and moved to a different state that I knew no one. Cut off everybody. I wanted to start new but that didn’t do much for me, I just stay to myself outside the women I go on dates with on occasion. Im just rambling I guess.

Maybe I’m depressed? Is this just a season in my life? Has anyone dealt with this? I just don’t want my world to be grey forever because that’s how it feels right now.