u/heartstopper10

Have you ever had a crush on a man?

It is weird because I don’t know what I am, but I saw a guy friend I never felt anything for again after 1 year apart, and he had got a beard and I got so shy in a good way, giggles , fast heart beat , the air felt light and it was very intense having eye contact. I had thoughts about what if we kissed or were cuddling etc and I was open for it.

I am unsure if it is a crush, but I giggled after our talk.

I was so sure on lesbian and then this happened. I don’t know if it comphet or.

It is weird because I don’t know what I am, but I saw a guy friend I never felt anything for again after 1 year apart, and he had got a beard and I got so shy in a good way, giggles , fast heart beat , the air felt light and it was very intense having eye contact. I had thoughts about what if we kissed or were cuddling etc and I was open for it.

I am unsure if it is a crush, but I giggled after our talk.

I was so sure on lesbian and then this happened. I don’t know if it comphet or.

I don’t know why I sometimes like seeing guys penetrate women in porn, like it isn’t because of the women’s reactions. First I thought it was the penetration part, but I definitely like seeing the dick move and contracts etc during which a strapon doesn’t? And I feel like when women penetrate with a strapon they aren’t doing the thing men’s butt do while penetrating. I also get turned on by the moans and face of the guy in pleasure and the body hair?
And I masturbate to him doing it idk.

But boobs is just instant to me and how a woman looks.

I am unsure if I am a homosexual or not. I know I get romantic crushes on guys and not women

Ps. Only reason why this is graphic is because I don’t see naked man = aroused , it is like in movement like I wrote earlier , while with women it is different

I don’t know why I sometimes like seeing guys penetrate women in porn, like it isn’t because of the women’s reactions. First I thought it was the penetration part, but I definitely like seeing the dick move and contracts etc during which a strapon doesn’t? And I feel like when women penetrate with a strapon they aren’t doing the thing men’s butt do while penetrating. I also get turned on by the moans and face of the guy in pleasure and the body hair?
And I masturbate to him doing it idk.

But boobs is just instant to me and how a woman looks.

I am unsure if I am a homosexual or not. I know I get romantic crushes on guys.

I have never felt giggles, heart racing, in love , shy around a woman or felt like I needed to kiss her. When I watch wlw romance I don’t feel butterflies or giggly like watching straight romance.
However I know I am turned on by women beside the vagina I am not that fan of .

With men I feel the giggles, shy, etc and get thoughts about what if we kissed or was laying close now. Sexual it is a puzzle.
Sometimes men turns me on in porn? First I thought it was just penetration, but seeing women penetrate doesn’t do the same as a man for me in those videos, I need to see a real penis, stubbles, male energy, male moans, and the muscles working while doing it and I fantasize about being with the man in that moment.
But nudes of men don’t turn me on standing on their own?

But women does?

I know there are some men I am curious about when I am out, but maybe just homosexual?

I have never felt giggles, heart racing, in love , shy around a woman or felt like I needed to kiss her. When I watch wlw romance I don’t feel butterflies or giggly like watching straight romance.
However I know I am turned on by women beside the vagina I am not that fan of .

With men I feel the giggles, shy, etc and get thoughts about what if we kissed or was laying close now. Sexual it is a puzzle.
Sometimes men turns me on in porn? First I thought it was just penetration, but seeing women penetrate doesn’t do the same as a man for me in those videos, I need to see a real penis, stubbles, male energy, male moans, and the muscles working while doing it and I fantasize about being with the man in that moment.
But nudes of men don’t turn me on standing on their own?

But women does?

I know there are some men I am curious about when I am out, but maybe just homosexual?

I have noticed boobs visually turns me on, but I am not into butt or vagina on a woman?
Like it doesn’t do anything for me visually, nor even watching oral or fingering.

But penis do?

The thing that confuses me it is mostly after I went into my start 20s that I started to feel sexual feelings around men. The crushes / romantic daydreaming have been there on/off since I was a kid.

Makes me think I am maybe is faking it.

Have any one else experienced their attractions broaden?

I am really confused if I am feeling bisexual feelings or if it is more lesbian.

Women I am not unsure of ,

But men?
I know that sometimes it is the man in porn that catches my eye, like his face, moans, penis, movements during sex how his chest looks during it so the woman becomes boring to me and I just imagine me and him and the more his sounds are the more horny I get idk.

Other times I don’t care about men, and I am only turned on by the woman. It depends .

Irl: I know that I can get butterflies, be giggly, shy in a good way , blush when we get eye contact, liek I want to come closer . Thoughts pop up what if we were kissing or laying in bed close right now.

But Idk if lesbians feel this? Can you relate??

Confused if I am turned on by the men or not,
I read some lesbians can get turned on by gay porn? If so what is it?

Because I think I get turned on by their faces , moans, penis, energy and movements so and masturbate to that with me

Confused if I am turned on by the men or not,
I read some lesbians can get turned on by gay porn? If so what is it?

Because I think I get turned on by their faces , moans, penis, energy and movements so and masturbate to that.

Confused if I am turned on by the men or not,
I read some lesbians can get turned on by gay porn? If so what is it?

Because I think I get turned on by their faces , moans, penis, energy and movements so and masturbate to that.

I am confused if that is a sign of being into men, like when I watch porn I sometimes fantasize of sleeping with the guy like in some of the positions I get turned on by how the guy is being sexual , his moans, movements, face , penis and imagine I receive it or make him feel like that. Like I look at him getting pleasure and using those visuals for you know.
I often find myself fantasizing about dating and kissing some men I see in series .

But I am unsure. I have no doubt about women. With women it is intense and constant.

Irl/ I am unsure what this is?
Like I sometimes get really shy / blush having eye contact with some guys, feel very giggly inside, fluttery in my chest, hyper aware and get some thoughts about what if we were cuddling or making out now and it feels good. And I spend the rest of the day after talking with them in a high mood /giggly .

I am confused if that is a sign of being into men, like when I watch porn I sometimes fantasize of sleeping with the guy like in some of the positions I get turned on by how the guy is being sexual , his moans, movements, face , penis and imagine I receive it or make him feel like that. Like I look at him getting pleasure and using those visuals for you know.
I often find myself fantasizing about dating and kissing some men I see in series .

But I am unsure. I have no doubt about women. With women it is intense and constant.

Irl/ I am unsure what this is?
Like I sometimes get really shy / blush having eye contact with some guys, feel very giggly inside, fluttery in my chest, hyper aware and get some thoughts about what if we were cuddling or making out now and it feels good. And I spend the rest of the day after talking with them in a high mood /giggly .

I am confused if that is a sign of being into men, like when I watch porn I sometimes fantasize of sleeping with the guy like in some of the positions I get turned on by how the guy is being sexual , his moans, movements, face , penis and imagine I receive it or make him feel like that. Like I look at him getting pleasure and using those visuals for you know.

But I am unsure. I have no doubt about women.

Irl/ I am unsure what this is?
Like I sometimes get really shy / blush having eye contact with some guys, feel very giggly inside, fluttery in my chest, hyper aware and get some thoughts about what if we were cuddling or making out now and it feels good. And I spend the rest of the day after talking with them in a high mood /giggly .

I am confused if that is a sign of being into men, like when I watch porn I sometimes fantasize of sleeping with the guy like in some of the positions I get turned on by how the guy is sexual and enjoys it and imagine I receive it or make him feel like that.

I also get sometimes romantic crushes on guys irl.

I am confused if that is a sign of being into men, like when I watch porn I sometimes fantasize of sleeping with the guy.

I also get sometimes romantic crushes on guys irl.

I am confused if that is a sign of being into men, like when I watch porn I sometimes fantasize of sleeping with the guy.

I also get sometimes romantic crushes on guys irl.

Or did you also look at the guy and got turned on or fantasized about him? Or was it more the scenario?
Or just the woman and her reactions?
I look back at so many signs.

There is so much discourse about comphet, but how do you know what you feel for a guy is actually attraction and not comphet? I feel like the masterdoc make it seems like everything you feel for guys is comphet, which doesn’t really make sense for example like if you like masculine men it is comphet and if you like feminine men it is also comphet? Then no answer can be attraction to men according to it? . So I just wanted to hear how do you know if what you feel is real attraction?