u/iLoveCatsAndTech

28, from NCR, Hopeless romantic, homebody, mostly quiet, in essence a funny nerd but you can't stop me from talking once I get really comfortable.

Loves literature (fiction/non fiction/prose/poetry/hindi/english), cinema(from trashy bollywood to critically acclaimed regional films). I am what you call who loves novelty, creativity and honest efforts when it comes to art.

I root for the underdogs, jump on to try the latest tech, romanticise simplicity and yet aim for everything in life. I am ambitious but I am against the hustle culture.

Professionally- an engineer;

personally I like to believe I'm a polymath (but an average one at best 🤣)

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What am I looking for?

Yeah, well, if you are still reading this and finding me to be someone interesting then yeah I would love someone who gets me. Who is curious about the world but also have a sense of contentment with what tools they have to perceive it.

Come let's have a chat.... and see if we can vibe along and only if luck allows maybe build something really magical and long term 🌻

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Few questions that were asked to me before and the answers were quite upsetting. So I'm answering them here before so that I don't disappoint anyone.

I am 5'7", non vegetarian, earn above 25LPA, occasionally drink beer (nothing else), non-smoker (would prefer a non -smoker) and an atheist.

Note: if you are someone who plays mind games, not sure what they want, below 25, not in NCR or planning to be here in future, right-winger, or have shallow preferences- you can stop reading this & i wish you good luck.

For the rest of you-

Hi,

I'm 28 & have spent my fair share of time on dating apps and the dynamics are pretty f'ed up! More than that you are just a commodity being looked at until a better product comes along.

Currently I live in Gurgaon & plan to do so for the near future. I have a good job (AI was not able to take it- yet!). I earn well and maintain a decent lifestyle.

What I seek is a partner who is kind, loves comfortable silences, a little old school and be open to the new experiences and learning.

I am of the philosophy that ego can't live between two people who want to make a relationship together. You both have to understand each other and make a balance in a way it benefits both of you. Having a partner is a blessing especially when they are understanding and kind.

I know it's very weird to find someone here.... But I am just trying out my luck and hoping it works.

I am an atheist and a non vegetarian. I rarely consume alcohol (but 100% not a fan). I don't smoke. If you are not okay with any of the following it's better to not reach out. Because you should choose someone who aligns with your habits or way of lifestyle.

If you have any more questions, or feel like reaching out for something meaningful to happen I'd love that.

Thanks!

Note: if you are someone who plays mind games, not sure what they want, below 25, not in NCR or planning to be here in future, right-winger, or have shallow preferences- you can stop reading this & i wish you good luck.

For the rest of you-

Hi,

I'm 28 & have spent my fair share of time on dating apps and the dynamics are pretty f'ed up! More than that you are just a commodity being looked at until a better product comes along.

Currently I live in Gurgaon & plan to do so for the near future. I have a good job (AI was not able to take it- yet!). I earn well and maintain a decent lifestyle.

What I seek is a partner who is kind, loves comfortable silences, a little old school and be open to the new experiences and learning.

I am of the philosophy that ego can't live between two people who want to make a relationship together. You both have to understand each other and make a balance in a way it benefits both of you. Having a partner is a blessing especially when they are understanding and kind.

I know it's very weird to find someone here.... But I am just trying out my luck and hoping it works.

I am an atheist and a non vegetarian. I rarely consume alcohol (but 100% not a fan). I don't smoke. If you are not okay with any of the following it's better to not reach out. Because you should choose someone who aligns with your habits or way of lifestyle.

If you have any more questions, or feel like reaching out for something meaningful to happen I'd love that.

Thanks!

Personal Details:

* Initials: A.D.

* Age: 28

* Height: 5'7"

* Religion: Atheist

* Earnings (INR): 26 LPA

* Marital Status: Never Married

* Living with Parents: No (Currently living independently in Gurgaon)

Location:

* Region: North India (NCR)

* Mother Tongue: Hindi

* Country: India

* Plan to Settle Abroad: No immediate plans

Education and Profession:

* Education Level: MCA

* Occupation: Product Engineer

Diet Preferences:

* Diet: Non-Vegetarian

Family Details:

* Family Background: Middle-class North Indian family with traditional roots and progressive values. Family-oriented while maintaining individual independence and personal growth.

Partner Preferences:

* Desired Religion: Preferably atheist, agnostic, or non-religious. Open to others if religion is not a major part of their identity.

* Desired Caste (if applicable): No preference

* Location Preferences: Preferably NCR, but open to nearby cities if there's a genuine connection.

* Diet Preferences: No strict preference

* Education Level: Educated and intellectually curious

* Occupation: Open to all professions

* Desired Earnings (INR): Any

* Living with Parents: No issues

* Marital Status: Never Married preferred

* Want Kids After Marriage: Open to discussion

Additional Information:

* About Me: 28, Product Engineer, currently based in Gurgaon.

* Personality & Interests: Atheist, feminist ally, curious by nature, and not particularly fond of blindly following the status quo. I'm a trivia enthusiast who can happily drag you to quiz nights, share obscure facts, and tell you about the random rabbit hole I fell into at 3 AM. I love meaningful conversations, nerdy interests, philosophy, technology, and exploring new ideas.

* Current Struggles: Trying (and mostly failing) to get better at cooking, public speaking, watching a new show instead of rewatching old favorites, and ensuring AI doesn't completely replace me at work.

* Hobbies/Interests: Quiz nights, technology, philosophy, random internet deep dives, hidden cafés, music, long conversations, exploring the city, and spending time with my cat.

* Looking For: A kind, self-aware, creative woman who enjoys genuine conversations and has a curious mind. Someone who can laugh easily, exchange playlists, explore new cafés, and build a meaningful connection. Bonus points if you're nerdy, intellectually curious, and not a hardcore religious person.

Contact Information:

* Preferred Contact Method: Reddit DM

Hashtags:

#NCR #Haryana #Atheist #ProductEngineer #MCA #FeministAlly #Nerdy #TriviaLover #CatDad #SeriousRelationship #NorthIndia #CuriousMind #MeaningfulConversations

Hii!

Things about me that may not matter:

28, Product Engineer, currently living in Gurgaon.

Things that might:

atheist, feminist ally, NOT a fan of status quo, will be kind to you unless you hurt my cat (then I'm not so kind). trivia buff (will take you to random quiz shows, tell you about the rabbit hole i went in last night at 3am...).

Things I'm trying to be good at:

(Spoiler alert: failing miserably) Cooking, watching the same show again, public speaking, not letting AI take away my job.

What I’m looking for:

A woman who is self-aware, creative, NOT a hardcore religious person, preferably in NCR, and loves holding a good conversation. Someone who enjoys exploring hidden cafes in the city, sharing music playlists, or just having a genuine, unfiltered laugh over a cup of chai (from masala to matcha - I prefer all)

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop a slide into my DMs!

Hii!

Things about me that may not matter:

28, Product Engineer, currently living in Gurgaon.

Things that might:

atheist, feminist ally, NOT a fan of status quo, will be kind to you unless you hurt my cat (then I'm not so kind). trivia buff (will take you to random quiz shows, tell you about the rabbit hole i went in last night at 3am...).

Things I'm trying to be good at:

(Spoiler alert: failing miserably) Cooking, watching the same show again, public speaking, not letting AI take away my job.

What I’m looking for:

A woman who is self-aware, creative, NOT a hardcore religious person, preferably in NCR, and loves holding a good conversation. Someone who enjoys exploring hidden cafes in the city, sharing music playlists, or just having a genuine, unfiltered laugh over a cup of chai (from masala to matcha - I prefer all)

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop a slide into my DMs!

In The Office, I hated what Jim did to Karen. It's something I see happening around me all the time. People with unresolved trauma or who still aren't over their exes jump into new relationships, only to end up hurting their partners.

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Hi there! I'm 28 and living in Gurgaon. I earn a decent living and like to keep things simple and grounded. I'm the kind of person who was a backbencher in class but still loved all the nerdy stuff. I enjoy good conversations, learning random things, and finding the fun in everyday life.

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If you are down for something serious and fun my DMs are open!

In The Office, I hated what Jim did to Karen. It's something I see happening around me all the time. People with unresolved trauma or who still aren't over their exes jump into new relationships, only to end up hurting their partners.

​

Hi there! I'm 28 and living in Gurgaon. I earn a decent living and like to keep things simple and grounded. I'm the kind of person who was a backbencher in class but still loved all the nerdy stuff. I enjoy good conversations, learning random things, and finding the fun in everyday life.

​

If you are down for something serious and fun my DMs are open!

Hi, It's hard to find the right words to describe yourself but I will try:

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I am a product engineer, decent looks, living with my cat, and fed up with dating apps. So trying my luck over here.

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To put it simply I am 2 persons living in one- I love going out but I also love staying in. I love street food but then I also adore cooking on my own. I love tech but then I travel to mountains/beaches to stay tf away from that. I love having a balance between the two. And this duality will show up in my taste in movies, music, art, dressing sense, and in life in general.

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What I am looking for:

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Idk if I have a type?... but I would definitely like someone who is opinionated, kind & wholesome. We can figure out the trivial things later.

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See you stranger!

Hi, It's hard to find the right words to describe yourself but I will try:

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I am a product engineer, decent looks, living with my cat, and fed up with dating apps. So trying my luck over here.

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To put it simply I am 2 persons living in one- I love going out but I also love staying in. I love street food but then I also adore cooking on my own. I love tech but then I travel to mountains/beaches to stay tf away from that. I love having a balance between the two. And this duality will show up in my taste in movies, music, art, dressing sense, and in life in general.

​

What I am looking for:

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Idk if I have a type?... but I would definitely like someone who is opinionated, kind & wholesome. We can figure out the trivial things later.

​

See you stranger!

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Hii!

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Putting myself out there to see if the Reddit algorithm can work some magic. I’m a 28-year-old software engineer living in Gurgaon, but don't worry... I promise my entire personality isn't just writing code and drinking coffee (though I do a fair bit of both).

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Something about me:

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I love being creative - be it in my job or personal life.

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Massive fan of streetwear and comfortable, baggy silhouettes.

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I balance city life with a deep appreciation for the simpler things... like spending time around nature, cooking, & sometimes working out.

​

What I’m looking for:

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A woman who is self-aware, creative, and loves holding a good conversation. Someone who enjoys exploring hidden cafes in the city, sharing music playlists, or just having a genuine, unfiltered laugh over a cup of chai (from masala to matcha - I prefer all)

​

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop a slide into my DMs! Tell me your current favorite track or your go-to comfort food to break the ice. Let's see where a good conversation takes us.

Hii!

Putting myself out there to see if the Reddit algorithm can work some magic. I’m a 28-year-old software engineer living in Gurgaon, but don't worry... I promise my entire personality isn't just writing code and drinking coffee (though I do a fair bit of both).

Something about me:

I love being creative - be it in my job or personal life.

Massive fan of streetwear and comfortable, baggy silhouettes.

I balance city life with a deep appreciation for the simpler things... like spending time around nature, cooking, & sometimes working out.

What I’m looking for:

A woman who is self-aware, creative, and loves holding a good conversation. Someone who enjoys exploring hidden cafes in the city, sharing music playlists, or just having a genuine, unfiltered laugh over a cup of chai (from masala to matcha - I prefer all)

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop a slide into my DMs! Tell me your current favorite track or your go-to comfort food to break the ice. Let's see where a good conversation takes us.

New to the place here... looking for someone who is into exploring food, cafes, & a good conversation over food and drives.

I am respectful, politically aware, and I'd like to believe my jokes are fun (sorry for humble bragging).

I am not looking for any kind of commitment/relationship just more of a casual hangout but I'm open to have a serious commitment if it comes organically. But that's not my agenda to start with. I believe being friends first is important.

What I love - music, storytelling, cinema, some nerdy stuff... listening to people.

Let me know if it clicks with you? DMs are open 🩷🌻

Hey,

I think being knowledgeable is cool... it could be anything. You can be passionate about anything from your current job to an absolute niche topic that only 3 people care about in the world.

If you care about people you love and you value common sense.

If you can stand against the wrong and are of the ideology that change is important for good intellectual growth.

If you are ethically concerned about things around you.

If you are looking for someone to give you company (for the rest of your life) and hopefully fall in love unconditionally.

I am just a DM away ❤️

What I need:

- gated society

- reserved parking

- near rapid metro

- newly made