u/imnotgayisellpropane

I'm trying to figure out of its a chart thing or a personality/mental disorder. I get very dysregulated every June and like to throw a wrench in my life. I get severely depressed. I'm more combative and impulsive. Sun in Taurus / Leo moon.

I want more of that! Come back!

I'll be in Chicago next week. I love visiting consignment stores wherever I go! I'm looking for mid to high end consignment stores. So, a step above Buffalo Exchange. I'm in River North and using public transportation.

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Thank you!

I'll start by saying the only reason we own our home is because of my mother's financial assistance. I am blessed to own my home, and knew taking this very large gift would come with baggage. She is staying with us while her new home is renovated and all of her stuff is being stored here. I spent a lot of time making my house into a home and making our guest room comfortable for her. I hear nothing but complaints about how small and awful my home is on a daily basis. We keep a nice home. No shoes inside, cleaner comes biweekly. We just spent a good chunk of change on some beautiful landscaping. Yet at every turn she destroys our home. We literally have to mom proof the house before she arrives. We have to hide and lock up anything we don't want her to ruin. She has no respect for our space and then shames us for it. She doesn't wash her hands and spends 80% of her time cooking in our kitchen. She's left the gas stove on high, burned my new farberware pots and told me to go to good will to replace them. She doesn't use utensils. Like she'll eat soup with her hands. She literally stuck her finger in our peanut butter jar and we are still finding fingerprints all over the house. She also stuck her fingers into our jar of better than boullion. She claims that she's a victim to our outrageously unreasonable house rules like "wash your hands, no shoes inside". I could deal with all her hygiene "quirks". But I've just found out she's been bad mouthing us to our neighbors, seemingly to turn them against us? My neighbors are my friends and they told me what she said and that she's making them uncomfortable! I can't say anything until she's moved out because she's stressed and she'll be even worse if we confront her now. My home is my sanctuary and as long as she's here I do not feel safe in it. I'm going to lose my shit any second now because I'm entering my luteal phase and my tolerance for this shit goes out the window. There isn't enough weed in the world to take the edge off of this one. End rant.