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i wanted to apply to sait for Diagnostic Medical Sonography, in which you need a minimum grade of 75% in Physics 30, Biology 30, ELA 30-1 and Math 30-2. Unfortunately i didn’t meet that requirement in ELA 30-1 and my mark was a 72%. Does this mean I won’t be able to apply at all this October and will have to apply next year?

i wanted to apply to sait for Diagnostic Medical Sonography, in which you need a minimum grade of 75% in Physics 30, Biology 30, ELA 30-1 and Math 30-2. Unfortunately i didn’t meet that requirement in ELA 30-1 and my mark was a 72%. Does this mean I won’t be able to apply at all this October and will have to apply next year?

so i took math 30-2 in 2025 semester 1 and i ended with a score of 72%. that’s during the strike where i didnt have to write the diploma and it was exempted. now i have upgraded the class in summer school, except i made a stupid mistake and 2 of my tests were left un submitted, which make my grade 55%. id much rather maintain my previous grade of 72% than continue like this. if i skip the diploma, does that mean my math grade will stay as 72%? and the current math course im doing will just not count?

i’m F17 (18 in a month), he’s M18. so idk what i wanna say really i guess i just wanna get my feelings out. me and my ex broke up on june 5th after we dated for a year because he claimed he was gonna be too busy during the summer to have a girlfriend. but the month before we broke up he was being realllyy distant towards me and just not treating me like his gf honestly. then when i bring it up to him he wants to break up because “he won’t have the time for me that i need during summer” and “he wants to focus on himself” yes, i know it’s obvious that he probably just lost feelings for me. but it’s so confusing because when he wanted to break up, he wanted to stay friends and still be there for each other but also he had full intention intentions of getting back together again in the future. so now I’m thinking he probably just wanted to “f around” during summer ?? or just find someone else but keep me as a backup plan idk.

except recently, today infact a friend of mine told me that she was talking to a girl, and this girl claimed that my ex added her on Snapchat and they’re like talking talking to each other, and he even wanted to like meet with her.

i’m genuinely devastated because i thought he was better then that, we haven’t even been broken up for a month, and he’s talking to a new girl fresh out of a year long relationship? i genuinely feel so upset. i feel as though i just wasn’t enough, or i got boring. why would he lie about the reason to break up with me too? he should’ve just said he lost feelings.

to add on, all my friends are in relationships and talking stages all of a sudden after my break up and that genuinely just makes me feel twice as miserable.

i guess im just looking for words of advice maybe? or honestly anything because i have no idea how to feel rn.

my ex bf (18M) broke up with me (17F) recently, around 2-3 weeks ago. we would’ve been dating for a year this july 17th. we broke up because he said he couldn’t handle having a gf during the summer and that he personally just needs to work on himself. me personally i understand him, but i think he also just lost interest but im really confused. at the time i was really upset and genuinely kept telling him we don’t have to break up (i feel so stupid for that now). but he was stuck on the idea of breaking up with me, so he did.
for the past month BEFORE we broke up he hasn’t really been acting like my bf, being dry to me, not asking about me or how im doing, making no efforts to see me, or make me feel special bla bla.

he insisted that we stayed in contact and if we did end it’d be on good terms because he wants to get back together hopefully in the future. as of now we barely talk, as he just rarely texts me maybe 1-2 times a day. but we still have eachothers locations.

since we broke up he’s been going out everyday with his friends, and told me that he never got the chance to do that when dating me. which is odd because i never said no to him hanging out with friends, nor did we spend every single day together.

weird thing is his bsf called me last night on his phone, and while my ex was drunk passed out he told me about how my ex misses me and has been crying over me. he even woke my ex up while he was drunk and half asleep and asked my ex if he missed me and he said yes multiple times😭. he told me as well that my ex hasn’t been taking to anyone else, and he’s even seen him turn down 2 girls since we broke up. i MOSTLY believe him on that part because morally i know his bsf is a really good guy (he’s in a 5 year relationship) and he’d never lie about that. my bf too just never was the type to cheat, i never suspected or worried about it ever when we dated.

i just have no idea what he wants anymore, he hates the idea of cutting contact and so do i, but he rarely texts me and keeps sharing his location to me. although he told me he’d always be there for me and insists that i tell him about any problems or anything i feel i should tell him. as if we’re still dating.

i’m genuinely just confused and need advice tbh. does this man want me or not?? does he just hate the idea of being a relationship but like the idea of me?
+ to honest i’ve been doing okay without him, just often overthinking about how he feels about me and what he exactly wants. i’m not TOO upset about this anymore, but i still am.

Me (17F) and my bf (18M) have been dating for almost 1 year (on June 17), but for the past 3-4 weeks he’s been acting distant, not how he used too. He barely texts anymore, he doesn’t try to see me, and it just feels like i’m not getting the same love and affection he once gave me. Last week i talked to him about it, and he never gave me a reason as to why he started acting like this, and i even brought up breaking up and he surprisingly hated the idea of it and promised to be better for our relationship.
We also talked about how with summer starting, he’s gonna be working a 8-5, 6 days a week summer job, and how it won’t help with where we’re currently standing in our relationship. He said that he’s gonna do his best to make time for me, and that was enough for me.

Until last night, he actually talked about how he mentally doesn’t feel as though he can handle a relationship at the moment, considering he has final exams, summer school, and then going to the gym daily. Which I guess i understand with the busy schedule he’s gonna have this summer, but I told him i’m willing to give it a shot and see how it’ll go. Except he refuses to try, he claims that our relationship is gonna end on bad terms as he just won’t be a good boyfriend to me during that time.

Instead, he comes up with this idea of a “temporary” break up. Where we no longer date until August 31st, where we both start college. He says this way we’ll end on good terms, so we can always get back together in the future. And this way he says he doesn’t have to feel the obligation of being there for me, and he can really focus on himself and work. He still says he wants to remain in contact and talk to each other whenever we can, especially when we have a bad day or even a good day. He still wants to be able to call at night whenever he can. He even said it’s okay if I talk to other guys, as long as it’s none of my exes and I don’t take any of the guys I talk to seriously.

This idea is just so confusing and i have no idea what to think of this. He’s basically implying we stay friends for the summer, and I could never see him as my friend, he’s always been a lover to me. I wanted to spend summer with him, and even if we barely talked I felt more secure knowing he’s my bf and that I have him there for me. It seems he’s stuck on the idea of breaking up, but he refuses to go no contact, and he’s guaranteeing that we’ll get back together in August. I told him too it’s not guaranteed we’ll get back together, if maybe we’re still not in the right place to date again, we find someone else, etc. He said he’d rather risk our relationship and go through his plan than give summer together a shot. If i’m being I have a very strong emotional attachment to my bf, and I really always just want to talk to him, but I know it can’t happen and I’ve been slowly adjusting to that. But I don’t know if I can go 3 months like that, especially when with our anniversary this June and my birthday is in July. I just wish he’d actually try and give our a relationship a shot in the summer, but I understand what he needs to do for himself too.

But I genuinely have no idea what to do, part of me wants to just break up, 0 contact, and knowing that’s the best way we’ll get over eachother. Part of me doesn’t wanna break up at all and wishes I never called out his distant behavior, but the last thing I wanna do is go on with his “temporary” break up. The idea of it just makes me nauseous.

I genuinely have no idea what to do and I seriously need help/advice. I know i’m young and stuff, but I love him a lot and I want us to work out. How can I become more open to his idea?