u/kolmesopofrettis

Since July last year I had found out my husband has cheated on me in multiple ways. Several online emotional sexual affairs. He had inappropriate friendship with a school friend telling her she’s beautiful and deserves to be treated better because supposedly her husband was treating her like shit while he was treating me like shit at the time. He claims there is nothing wrong with that because it was a friend and he was giving her support. He even went on to say to her he could never imagine his life without me. He would probably be single for the rest of his life and instant lyrics to some DEATHMETAL song, but she refused to let me read when they grabbed the phone out of my hand . He, he even gave her his phone number claims she never called him. He has a history of looking at porn on and off wherever he can I didn’t even know you can look at porn on Reddit until I discovered that . While we are on vacation together 2024 he took pictures of other women while we were together. He took the pictures of backsides of women walking in front of us a grocery store and pictures of women sunbathing at the pool. He claims he doesn’t know why he did it. He claims he doesn’t remember doing it.that. He took these pictures right next to me. I found them on his phone. He has no explanation for any of this and has said many degrading things to me. One day I like boobs and I like looking at different types of boobs and there’s nothing wrong with that. Another is there’s nothing wrong with being attracted to different types of bodies and body parts. He posted a picture of a naked vagina and wrote it was so sexy when it’s tight like that unlike meat flaps. Basically the vagina looked like a vagina of a child. He said that post was in a meme group and a joke. I don’t have the most perfect vagina, but not the most disgusting looking one and he stopped touching me down there a long time ago. There’s only went down on me once in the past 18 years we’ve been together. He said other cruel things to me.
We will be a marriage counseling for the third time. Each time he just learned what my triggers are and triggers me even more on purpose. He’s admitted to doing it to me on purpose when he gets mad when I bring up the cheating when all I want is reassurance and comfort. He thinks this marriage is gonna work out. I don’t know if it will if he doesn’t change his mindset in ways of thinking.. I feel like I will never get over this, especially after the last couple of things he said to my face. When he would get high on his Xanax l every time he told me he wanted to be able to have sex with other women several times he told me he wanted me to Watch. He said that’s not how he really feels. He said it because he was high. I don’t know what to believe from him One marriage counselor gave us an assignment to give each other compliments. I got my haircut and he told me it looks great. Now I can go prostitute myself and help make us some money. He says everything is a joke and I can’t take a joke or he’ll say he never said those things from the beginning I’ve been writing down everything he says to me because he gaslight me. I don’t know if there’s any hope in this relationship he lies to his own therapist about his addiction and the things that he says to me it’s almost he’s trying to triangulate me with his own therapist. We had our first marriage session with our new counselor who seems to be a little bit more of a pitbull and will be honest the marriage counselor himself so there’s no guarantees because it will take both of us to be honest and vulnerable in session. I have no problem being honest and vulnerable. That’s gonna be up to him. He’s never fessed up to anything on his own. It’s only what I have found on my own, he claims he’s never physically cheated on me when he’s abandoned me on 2 holidays. One was the Fourth of July. He hung out with an old female friend. He knew from school to go searching for Xanax and get high flames. Nothing happened. I’m heartbroken. My self-worth and self-esteem is nonexistent after what I’ve seen and read, especially what he wrote to other women. He complemented other women’s bodies that are different than mine however, he claims I’m his number one. He claims he’s been loyal the whole time I told him he’s been acting like a single man online. He’s one as far as to make a social media page and block me from it. That’s the one where he had the online affairs and there was another social media page he had online affairs. He claims that’s not cheating that it’s just role-play. I don’t know what I’m looking for even posting in here. Just hopefully I don’t get any mean or nasty comments, cause I already get enough from him and become an inconvenience and burden to him because he doesn’t wanna listen to me expressed my hurt.

He claims he wants us to work and I’m the love of his life however, I don’t feel like the love of this life is actions and behaviors, and what he says to me is not what someone says to the love of their life. Thanks for making it this far. Any women who healed from cheating whether you stayed with your partner or not, please share some help with me.

Since July last year I had found out my husband has cheated on me in multiple ways. Several online emotional sexual affairs. He had inappropriate friendship with a school friend telling her she’s beautiful and deserves to be treated better because supposedly her husband was treating her like shit while he was treating me like shit at the time. He claims there is nothing wrong with that because it was a friend and he was giving her support. He even went on to say to her he could never imagine his life without me. He would probably be single for the rest of his life and instant lyrics to some DEATHMETAL song, but she refused to let me read when they grabbed the phone out of my hand . He, he even gave her his phone number claims she never called him. He has a history of looking at porn on and off wherever he can I didn’t even know you can look at porn on Reddit until I discovered that . While we are on vacation together 2024 he took pictures of other women while we were together. He took the pictures of backsides of women walking in front of us a grocery store and pictures of women sunbathing at the pool. He claims he doesn’t know why he did it. He claims he doesn’t remember doing it.that. He took these pictures right next to me. I found them on his phone. He has no explanation for any of this and has said many degrading things to me. One day I like boobs and I like looking at different types of boobs and there’s nothing wrong with that. Another is there’s nothing wrong with being attracted to different types of bodies and body parts. He posted a picture of a naked vagina and wrote it was so sexy when it’s tight like that unlike meat flaps. Basically the vagina looked like a vagina of a child. He said that post was in a meme group and a joke. I don’t have the most perfect vagina, but not the most disgusting looking one and he stopped touching me down there a long time ago. There’s only went down on me once in the past 18 years we’ve been together. He said other cruel things to me.
We will be a marriage counseling for the third time. Each time he just learned what my triggers are and triggers me even more on purpose. He’s admitted to doing it to me on purpose when he gets mad when I bring up the cheating when all I want is reassurance and comfort. He thinks this marriage is gonna work out. I don’t know if it will if he doesn’t change his mindset in ways of thinking.. I feel like I will never get over this, especially after the last couple of things he said to my face. When he would get high on his Xanax l every time he told me he wanted to be able to have sex with other women several times he told me he wanted me to Watch. He said that’s not how he really feels. He said it because he was high. I don’t know what to believe from him One marriage counselor gave us an assignment to give each other compliments. I got my haircut and he told me it looks great. Now I can go prostitute myself and help make us some money. He says everything is a joke and I can’t take a joke or he’ll say he never said those things from the beginning I’ve been writing down everything he says to me because he gaslight me. I don’t know if there’s any hope in this relationship he lies to his own therapist about his addiction and the things that he says to me it’s almost he’s trying to triangulate me with his own therapist. We had our first marriage session with our new counselor who seems to be a little bit more of a pitbull and will be honest the marriage counselor himself so there’s no guarantees because it will take both of us to be honest and vulnerable in session. I have no problem being honest and vulnerable. That’s gonna be up to him. He’s never fessed up to anything on his own. It’s only what I have found on my own, he claims he’s never physically cheated on me when he’s abandoned me on 2 holidays. One was the Fourth of July. He hung out with an old female friend. He knew from school to go searching for Xanax and get high flames. Nothing happened. I’m heartbroken. My self-worth and self-esteem is nonexistent after what I’ve seen and read, especially what he wrote to other women. He complemented other women’s bodies that are different than mine however, he claims I’m his number one. He claims he’s been loyal the whole time I told him he’s been acting like a single man online. He’s one as far as to make a social media page and block me from it. That’s the one where he had the online affairs and there was another social media page he had online affairs. He claims that’s not cheating that it’s just role-play. I don’t know what I’m looking for even posting in here. Just hopefully I don’t get any mean or nasty comments, cause I already get enough from him and become an inconvenience and burden to him because he doesn’t wanna listen to me expressed my hurt.

He claims he wants us to work and I’m the love of his life however, I don’t feel like the love of this life is actions and behaviors, and what he says to me is not what someone says to the love of their life. Thanks for making it this far. Any women who healed from cheating whether you stayed with your partner or not, please share some help with me.

Since July last year I had found out my husband has cheated on me in multiple ways. Several online emotional sexual affairs. He had inappropriate friendship with a school friend telling her she’s beautiful and deserves to be treated better because supposedly her husband was treating her like shit while he was treating me like shit at the time. He claims there is nothing wrong with that because it was a friend and he was giving her support. He even went on to say to her he could never imagine his life without me. He would probably be single for the rest of his life and instant lyrics to some DEATHMETAL song, but she refused to let me read when they grabbed the phone out of my hand . He, he even gave her his phone number claims she never called him. He has a history of looking at porn on and off wherever he can I didn’t even know you can look at porn on Reddit until I discovered that . While we are on vacation together 2024 he took pictures of other women while we were together. He took the pictures of backsides of women walking in front of us a grocery store and pictures of women sunbathing at the pool. He claims he doesn’t know why he did it. He claims he doesn’t remember doing it.that. He took these pictures right next to me. I found them on his phone. He has no explanation for any of this and has said many degrading things to me. One day I like boobs and I like looking at different types of boobs and there’s nothing wrong with that. Another is there’s nothing wrong with being attracted to different types of bodies and body parts. He posted a picture of a naked vagina and wrote it was so sexy when it’s tight like that unlike meat flaps. Basically the vagina looked like a vagina of a child. He said that post was in a meme group and a joke. I don’t have the most perfect vagina, but not the most disgusting looking one and he stopped touching me down there a long time ago. There’s only went down on me once in the past 18 years we’ve been together. He said other cruel things to me.
We will be a marriage counseling for the third time. Each time he just learned what my triggers are and triggers me even more on purpose. He’s admitted to doing it to me on purpose when he gets mad when I bring up the cheating when all I want is reassurance and comfort. He thinks this marriage is gonna work out. I don’t know if it will if he doesn’t change his mindset in ways of thinking.. I feel like I will never get over this, especially after the last couple of things he said to my face. When he would get high on his Xanax l every time he told me he wanted to be able to have sex with other women several times he told me he wanted me to Watch. He said that’s not how he really feels. He said it because he was high. I don’t know what to believe from him One marriage counselor gave us an assignment to give each other compliments. I got my haircut and he told me it looks great. Now I can go prostitute myself and help make us some money. He says everything is a joke and I can’t take a joke or he’ll say he never said those things from the beginning I’ve been writing down everything he says to me because he gaslight me. I don’t know if there’s any hope in this relationship he lies to his own therapist about his addiction and the things that he says to me it’s almost he’s trying to triangulate me with his own therapist. We had our first marriage session with our new counselor who seems to be a little bit more of a pitbull and will be honest the marriage counselor himself so there’s no guarantees because it will take both of us to be honest and vulnerable in session. I have no problem being honest and vulnerable. That’s gonna be up to him. He’s never fessed up to anything on his own. It’s only what I have found on my own, he claims he’s never physically cheated on me when he’s abandoned me on 2 holidays. One was the Fourth of July. He hung out with an old female friend. He knew from school to go searching for Xanax and get high flames. Nothing happened. I’m heartbroken. My self-worth and self-esteem is nonexistent after what I’ve seen and read, especially what he wrote to other women. He complemented other women’s bodies that are different than mine however, he claims I’m his number one. He claims he’s been loyal the whole time I told him he’s been acting like a single man online. He’s one as far as to make a social media page and block me from it. That’s the one where he had the online affairs and there was another social media page he had online affairs. He claims that’s not cheating that it’s just role-play. I don’t know what I’m looking for even posting in here. Just hopefully I don’t get any mean or nasty comments, cause I already get enough from him and become an inconvenience and burden to him because he doesn’t wanna listen to me expressed my hurt.

He claims he wants us to work and I’m the love of his life however, I don’t feel like the love of this life is actions and behaviors, and what he says to me is not what someone says to the love of their life. Thanks for making it this far. Any women who healed from cheating whether you stayed with your partner or not, please share some help with me.

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