u/lifeofpiranhas

Please be completely honest, would you say it's selfish to spend time with someone whilst you have visible scars on your skin from SH(for example wearing a short sleeved shirt) especially if the other person also has mental health difficulties or has SHed in the past

It feels like a line between not wanting to feel ashamed of myself but also not wanting to be insensitive. I kind of feel like often people who have also experienced SH will just be able to know that especially in warmer weather, if someone is obviously wearing a long sleeved shirt in otherwise 23© heat, its more likely that they will instinctively be able to make the difficult/awkward connection that the person may well be trying to cover their skin

It's honestly confusing. I feel that on one hand, SH is still very highly stigmatized because a lot of people unless they have directly self harmed themselves, will find it difficult and confusing to understand how someone would be able to do something so sudden and abrupt to themselves. However, on the other hand I feel like in many ways SH has been normalized or romanticised , and I think we need to be careful that moving towards a more mutual acceptance of some people having visible marks from SH on their skin, does not intertwine with glorifying it. Because I often feel like I can't be a good role model,

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u/lifeofpiranhas — 1 day ago

(Virgo rising) Do any other Virgos cycle between wanting to impress absolutely everyone in all areas whilst at the same time/at other times being incredibly stubborn about not caring about being approved by other people

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u/lifeofpiranhas — 1 day ago

Do you think Scorpio suns and moons are the sign most likely to sexualize anything to do with how a person's body looks ?

I get intimidated by Scorpio suns and moons because I feel like from an intimacy perspective, many people who have their sun or moon in Scorpio know that they are physically hot/alluring/sexy, and I always feel pressured to live up to some expectation

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u/lifeofpiranhas — 1 day ago

Any other pisces sun Scorpio moons in this subreddit?

Welcome to my reality-over emotional, hyper-empathic, resentful, moody, sarcastic, overly sensual

Oh and throw in a Virgo rising to ruin me even more lmao

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u/lifeofpiranhas — 2 days ago

How can I look after my own mental health whilst also providing instant support for the other people living in the mental health supported living house Im staying in?

Obviously if one person is upset or stressed in the house, other people will have an emotional response to seeing someone in the house who is distressed or upset.

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u/lifeofpiranhas — 5 days ago