u/liveandletlive1818

so im a girl on my summer vacation and i have been thinking about joining a gym.
i am not overweight nd i think im more in the middle/average. Most of my weight seems to be in my face, and I have a little extra fat on my arms and thighs, but nothing major.
The main reason I want to join a gym isn't just to lose fat. I don't really have a routine right now, and i feel like going to the gym would help me build discipline, improve my stamina, get stronger, and just be healthier overall. I also want to start eating healthier and take better care of myself.
Do you think joining a gym is worth it in my situation? Also, would you recommend getting a trainer for the first month or two as a complete beginner, or is it okay to learn on my own from like chatgpt or stuff?
I'd really appreciate any advice or experiences. Thanks! :)

I don't know what's happening to me.
The last time I genuinely had feelings for someone was in 10th grade. I liked a boy, but things never worked out. About a year later, I found out he liked someone else and was probably going to get into a relationship with her. After that, I kind of shut down. I wasn't in a good place mentally and just wanted a break from everything.
Now I'm about to enter my second year of college, and I've never been in a relationship. I've always wanted one, but only with the right person. The problem is that ever since that experience, I can't seem to develop real feelings for anyone.
I can find people attractive and think they're nice, but I never get attached or excited about them. Most of the guys I meet seem to want something casual, which I don't want. And when someone actually likes me, I usually can't like them back.
What bothers me most is that even if I'm slightly interested in someone, one small turn-off is enough for me to completely lose interest. It's like my feelings never get the chance to grow.
Has anyone else experienced this? Why can't I consistently like someone, and why do I lose interest so quickly?

I don't know what's happening to me.
The last time I genuinely had feelings for someone was in 10th grade. I liked a boy, but things never worked out. About a year later, I found out he liked someone else and was probably going to get into a relationship with her. After that, I kind of shut down. I wasn't in a good place mentally and just wanted a break from everything.
Now I'm about to enter my second year of college, and I've never been in a relationship. I've always wanted one, but only with the right person. The problem is that ever since that experience, I can't seem to develop real feelings for anyone.
I can find people attractive and think they're nice, but I never get attached or excited about them. Most of the guys I meet seem to want something casual, which I don't want. And when someone actually likes me, I usually can't like them back.
What bothers me most is that even if I'm slightly interested in someone, one small turn-off is enough for me to completely lose interest. It's like my feelings never get the chance to grow.
Has anyone else experienced this? Why can't I consistently like someone, and why do I lose interest so quickly?

I don't know what's happening to me.
The last time I genuinely had feelings for someone was in 10th grade. I liked a boy, but things never worked out. About a year later, I found out he liked someone else and was probably going to get into a relationship with her. After that, I kind of shut down. I wasn't in a good place mentally and just wanted a break from everything.
Now I'm about to enter my second year of college, and I've never been in a relationship. I've always wanted one, but only with the right person. The problem is that ever since that experience, I can't seem to develop real feelings for anyone.
I can find people attractive and think they're nice, but I never get attached or excited about them. Most of the guys I meet seem to want something casual, which I don't want. And when someone actually likes me, I usually can't like them back.
What bothers me most is that even if I'm slightly interested in someone, one small turn-off is enough for me to completely lose interest. It's like my feelings never get the chance to grow.
Has anyone else experienced this? Why can't I consistently like someone, and why do I lose interest so quickly?

anyone wanna play together? i m iron 2 currently and my gameplay is shit..

hi guys i wanted to buy shoes but i dont have any partner to go with pref any girl?

Can’t sleep and I’m bored af. Tell me something random about your day, your current obsession, a funny story, literally anything. Let’s see how many night owls are still alive here 😭🙏🏻

I just wanted to ask people honestly how’s your single life going these days?
Like are you genuinely enjoying your own company, focusing on yourself, or do you sometimes feel lonely too?For me it changes every week 😭 sometimes being single feels peaceful and sometimes it feels so empty seeing everyone around committed Also what do you guys do to enjoy your own company more?

It’s been almost a year in my college and I’m getting more frustrated day by day.

I’m in a low-tier du college and honestly my attendance has been terrible for the last 8 months. Thank god there’s no strict attendance criteria because I barely feel like going there anymore.

The way I imagined college life was completely different. Everything turned out opposite. The crowd in my college is so bad constant fights, people staring, smoking everywhere, abusive language all the time, and overall the environment just feels suffocating to me. I tried adjusting a lot, but I genuinely can’t connect with this place.

The worst part is that I actually had the option to choose a top ipu private college, but I picked this because of the “DU degree” and because it was closer to my home while the IPU college was far away. Now I regret this decision so much.

Even my course feels shitty and I feel stuck. And before people say “all DU colleges are like this,” yeah maybe most of the crowd is similar, but it still sucks when you experience it daily yourself.

What hurts more is that I already hated my school life too. School was never enjoyable for me, but at least the people there were bearable. I genuinely thought college would finally feel like freedom, better friends, better experiences, and a fresh start. Instead it somehow feels even worse and more draining.

I honestly don’t know how I’m supposed to survive two more years here. I feel mentally exhausted and disconnected from college life completely.

My exam is on 28th and I’ve literally studied nothing till now. I’m stressed and feeling guilty but I still wanna score good somehow.

Please give me some motivation/tips and tell me if anyone has ever pulled off decent marks starting this late 😭(du~ba program)🙏🏻

Stuck in Iron since 8 months now 💀

Anyone else hardstuck like this or is it just me? Need people to queue with who understand the struggle fr

it just me, or does anyone else feel like after equipping a skin in Valorant, they suddenly start getting more kills and their gameplay becomes better? 😭

Like, is the skin actually giving confidence and making us play better, or is it just our mind thinking “omg I have a skin now, I need to play good”? Curious if other people feel the same lol

I’m so bored lately either doomscrolling or just lying around doing nothing. I have exams in one month, but I have zero motivation to study. Anyone else dealing with this? What actually helped you get out of it?

Hi! I’m obsessed with enemies-to-lovers trope and that’s basically all I enjoy watching 😭

Can you recommend me good movies, series, dramas, or any shows with this trope?

Language doesn’t matter as long as English subtitles are available.

I like slow burn, tension, and strong chemistry.

Please drop your best recommendations!!………………

These are genuine tickets. Not a scam.

I originally bought them through someone,but ended up with 2 extra, so selling.

Interested dm