u/louielou8484

I'm not looking for advice here, just venting. A customer placed an order on April 6th, which was delivered. She then placed another order on April 23rd for a different item, which shipped yesterday. She messaged me a few hours after the shipping notification and after I already dropped it at the lost office.These are very expensive custom pieces that take me hours to make and I don't issue refunds or returns for this very reason.

The email screenshot is all notifications from her orders. I even sent her both order numbers. Yesterday, she said she only placed the April 23rd order. Now today it's, "I only ordered on the 6th. I only ordered once. I guess I'm screwed."

Has this happened to anyone else? I don't know if it's buyer's remorse or what.. I've shopped on Etsy many times myself, and I've never just accidentally ordered something even if I have stuff sitting in my cart. Seems quite ridiculous to me to say you didn't place an order you obviously did. Etsy didn't just make it up.

Hi there. I feel absolutely awful posting here. I spent the last hour reading so many stories and I just feel so bad as a person who is just here unable to sleep, and it could be just nothing. I am so sorry to every single one of you going through this or has a loved one going through this or who went through this.

I am very worried and am wondering if anyone had similar signs and if it looked the same.

I can't even recall when this started, at least 6 months ago - a year, but I had what felt like a small tear or cut at the bottom end of my vulva, kind of slightly below my vaginal opening but closer to the crease between my vulva and inner thigh.

It's hard to explain, but over the last few months it's become extremely noticeable, hard, raised, and so painful to where it burns to pee and every time I'm just sitting on the toilet.

Wiping has become something I absolutely dread, because I'm unable to do so without touching it and when I do it hurts so much. It's like in winter when your skin gets so dry and sometimes your fingers get cracks in them and you do everything to heal them, but then you accidentally hit your thumb opening the fridge and undo all of your healing instantly.

Tonight I finally decided to just take a mirror to it and I was extremely alarmed. It did not look like what I thought it would. It is like a slight raised skin colored bump, with a hole or a small cut in the middle of it? But then when I stretch it, it looks torn? I assumed it would look like a scabbed over paper cut that is unhealed, so I am extremely alarmed. The bump is only surface level and does not feel deep at all.

I'm worried it could be a vulvar lesion or ulcer.. or I've just been nonstop irritating it for months now due to where it is. It is impossible to wipe or clean myself without touching it. It also feels itchy at times if I do touch it and it becomes like a mosquito bite where it's that good painful scratch, but then you are suffering minutes later and made it worse.

I also have a small lump, maybe 1/2 pea size in my right labia. No pain or anything and has not changed in size. I actually forgot about it until tonight.

I know I should be booking an appointment with a doctor, but I currently do not have one, nor insurance. Small business owner and I just can't swing it right now.

35 with endometriosis. History of ovarian cysts. I have never had an STI. I am not sexually active and was not during the time I first noticed this.

Thanks you so, so much ahead of time.

I am posting pictures in the comments because I don't know what is allowed here. It is NSFW 🔞.. I appreciate anyone who has read this. I'm just so worried with both this not healing for so many months and then the small lump in my labia.

Customer claims she only placed one order after second one shipped

Wound of 6+ months getting worse and a lump..