Why do men deflect blame onto women for their failures?

I learnt of the concept of "iron leg" several years ago. I was flabbergasted when I learnt of what it entailed.

This concept feels very stupid in the context of Telugu Film Industry. You mean to tell me, the actress, who barely has any presence in the film, and is cast to only cater to a particular section of the audience is the true cause for the failure of the film?

I knew of this one guy who was a massive Mahesh Babu fan, he used to spend his entire day on Twitter fighting wars. (Apparently) Since MB's films with Pooja Hegde flopped, he used to comment on posts made by her fan accounts calling her 'panimanishi mokham dana'. (Also don't forget how this reeks of casteism and classism, wtf is panimanishi mokham?)

Another curious case of this phenomenon is the hate Shreyas Iyer's sister has been receiving on her social media platforms, I am a massive cricket fan and have been seeing this drama unfold from day 1. You cannot blame the cricketer's sister for his abysmal performance. Your criticism cannot go beyond 'this video was kinda arrogant' into 'she is so ugly' territory.

The fact that men find it so comfortable to criticize and blame women than take accountability for their own mediocrity is baffling. Maybe, be better and do better?

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u/madhurima5 — 3 days ago

DO NOT ORDER FROM - @DIPITREATS

EDIT - I WAS GIVING THEM SOME SLACK TILL NOW. NOT ANYMORE. NOT ONLY DID THEY NOT GIVE TIMELY UPDATES, BAD QUALITY PRODUCT, BUT ALSO ENDED UP SHIPPING AT WRONG ADDRESS DESPITE CONFIRMING THE CORRECT ONE. UN-FUCKING-BELIEVABLE.

Talking to customer service executive of this company feels like talking to an irritating boyfriend.

I have a lot of sympathy and understanding for small businesses with small operations.

I know its usually very less people operating a large volume of orders and queries. But it is unacceptable to keep someone hanging for so long.

I explained my time constraints and that I am willing to let go of my product, just need on time pick-up.

The chat on WhatsApp is no different, barely any updates.

Its best not to order to avoid any hassle. PS - the stitching on my product was so horrible, it looked very bad. Unfortunately this looked like a product that was hyped more than what it was in actuality.

u/madhurima5 — 17 days ago

Bad experience, do not buy from @elenthelabel

This store has a lot of trendy, beachy outfits but has horrible service.

I had ordered some pieces well in advance for an upcoming trip. I had almost a week buffer from the expected arrival of products to my date of travel.

I was given confirmation for all respective dates and such by the customer service team via WhatsApp.

However, when I checked in 1 week later, they mentioned very casually that they hadn't shipped yet and would be shipping later. I also make all orders COD out of fear of getting scammed.

I agreed to make payment immediately in exchange for them to promise that they will do express shipping.

Cut to today, I find out they casually canceled my order. No communication, no refund information, no intimation as to why this was done.

And on top of everything, they refuse to talk and provide clarification.

Honestly a lot of companies are selling cute clothes these days, save yourself some hassle and avoid buying from this brand.

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u/madhurima5 — 19 days ago

Have the app developers all gone on vacation 😂😂

I was checking my orders section to check the date on something. Tell me why I see that godforsaken prompt which has given so many people here so much headache 😂

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ReTrY PaTiEnTlY GiRlIeS 🤡

u/madhurima5 — 1 month ago

1rs. Bag is comically small

It is cute, although I don't know how to use it. 😅 I expected something else, lol. It looks like a mylar balloon so I guess that detail is cool.

PS - My hand for scale

u/madhurima5 — 2 months ago

Recs for Jasmine based fragrances

Hi guys! I am in the market for a Jasmine based fragrance.

I am afraid of it being very overpowering and sickly sweet. Do you also recommend I pair it with anything to make it more neutral?

Thanks ♥️

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u/madhurima5 — 2 months ago

Recommendations for a polish brand?

Hi! I am looking for brand recommendations for a polish! I am an absolute beginner and want to try out painting my nails at home.

Also any tips on how to ensure best application? Thanks ♥️

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u/madhurima5 — 2 months ago

Looking for artists' references

Hi all. I wish to commission a personalized painting/portrait thing for my friend who got married.

Do you have any references for artists who can do the same for me? Price is not an issue, I want the piece to be good.

Thanks ♥️ 😊

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u/madhurima5 — 2 months ago

Request for subreddit name change.

Hi. I am a moderator (not the head mod) of r/SexLivesCollegeGirls, the HBO show subreddit.

Due to the unfortunate naming, we get a ton of NSFW users. We’ve already made it so users can only post after getting approved, but we still receive a barrage of explicit approval requests, which honestly isn’t very fun to deal with. 😅

Is there any possibility of getting the subreddit name changed? Thanks.

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u/madhurima5 — 2 months ago

He looks so ... hot. Right after the tornado episode level hot.

Ben has his kids faces visible, I hid them to protect their privacy.

u/madhurima5 — 3 months ago