Problems with my iPad upon reinstalling
▲ 2 r/ipad

Problems with my iPad upon reinstalling

Hello I need help with this iPad. I have had this iPad for 3 years now, but I lost the password and had to reset everything. Now when I try to do anything with it, I have to click on the object ( the field around Kritzeln) and click twice very fast to be able to use it. any idea what that might be and if you know do you know any solution?

u/monderkiller9999 — 1 day ago
▲ 0 r/CLAMP

I absolutely despise the Kamui x Subaru ship

Normally I would have posted this in r/ihatethissmug, but the fandom is so small that I wouldn’t find the right ears to listen to my complaint up there. So I’m just doing it here.

Kamui is a literal MINOR. He’s 16 and Subaru is 25! Subaru already has enough shit going on with having been groomed by an adult as a teenager, it literally ruined his life! it’s not because Clamp did it that you should follow the example.

Its also deliberately misinterpreting and overlooking the very sweet and very sad bond these two developed because of shared trauma. The fact that they are brothers in another universe says so much about them and I hate how that’s literally pushed aside by shippers

Also they already have their respective Gay love interests! Are you Fujoshi’s neve satisfie? When will your infinite greed finally be satisfied?

Anyways, I’m gonna get shit on so hard for this post I can already see it. I don’t care. Someone has to say it. Yes I know it’s just shipping and everybody does what they want. I’m a dedicated Fujoshi myself, I don’t despise shipping culture, simply this ship.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 1 day ago

Where are the Mason haters at?

I don’t see nearly enough hate on this sub for this man. How does it come that you are such a horrible person that even a cannibalistic serial killer has a better sense of morals than you do?💀
>!That scene with the infant in the sow was absolutely disgusting and heartbreaking and!< completely solidified my hatred for that character. I was honestly waiting for Mason to die so I shouldn’t have to see his ugly face anymore.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 1 day ago

Anybody has an Idea of what happened to Richard III son Edward?

Since i was 14 I’ve been a huge fan of the war of the roses and did a lot of research about that topic. One thing that bugs me though is that I can never seem to find anything concerning the death of Edward of Middleham, his son. I found out that he died in 1484, but that’s all I found. So I’m asking if anybody has found other sources that bring a bit more light on the subject.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 3 days ago
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I hate my family and what they have taken away from me.

when I was 8 my parents divorce. Seems like a normal thing to happen right? Half of children go through the process. People are people, they change. but not my parents. me and my siblings ( I am the youngest of three) had a wonderful and lovely childhood right until that moment. and then one day They announced their divorce and everything crashed down. Suddenly my dad wasn’t there at Christma. he wasn’t even there a lot anymore and it would get worse as the years went by. I got severely constipated ( sounds funny until you are literally developing a phobia of shitting), my brother failed at school and my sister developed an eating disorder on which the adults thought it was a great idea to constantly make remarks about The weight of a 10 year old girl! A few months later my mom got a new boyfriend, we collectively bullied him to leave her ( poor dude, but honestly he just came to soon).

I am 18 now. Throughout all the year my mom has absolutely hated my dad. She tells me she doesn’t, but in the way she speaks of him she clearly does. Everytime she brings up their married it’s always something negativ, like if never anything good came out of it. They were together for 13 years. Whenever there was anything to be discussed the kids were the canon food meant to be shot at the other partie.

Dad wasn’t much better. He got married in 2021 and he didn’t even invite his kids to the first ( civil) wedding. during the second (religious wedding) he went eating with the guests, his wife and his stepson in a restaurant and let his parents take care of his children so they could eat in an Italian restaurant. All that under the pretext of „not enough places“. It became a pattern of prioritising his new found family over his children, like if the last one was a remnant of a past he wanted to leave behind.

Two Years ago things started to fall apart again. My brother got his first girlfriend and my mom immediately hated her. She didn’t say hello and genuinely refused to meet us or to spend time with us. This negatively impacted my brother who spend less and less time at home. My mom got very angry and started making problems. She in return behaved very rudely towards his girlfriend, basically repelling her from our home. Things got worse, brother had a fall out with sister who supports mother and he eventually got kicked out of the house after he spend Christmas at his girlfriend’s home. But of course it’s always the other one’s fault. No one is taking the blame for this chaos. And my dad flying to Florida with his family and refusing to invite his kids because it was „to expensive“ added the cherry on top to this wonderful Christmas.

Today my brother announced that he would be getting our great grandfathers table from my dad, something That was originally promised to my sister ( forgott to mention that she had also a fallout with my dad because of his behavior). I was absolutely disgusted. Right when I thought things would get better again everything got worse.

i sometimes feel like I am the only one still holding onto the crumbling threads of what should have been my family. A mother who doesn’t speak to her son and who hates the father of her children, a father who prefers his new family over his old one, a sister who doesn’t speak to the men in her family and who hates coming home for more then a few days, a brother who only thinks of himself and has little contact to his mother and sister.

I see my cousins and other familie where they all have such healthy relationships with each other to the point where it makes me jealous. Why couldn’t I have that? I feel like I don’t have a family anymore. I have relationshi, but nothing that could be called a family. I’m so afraid to get caught up in all this mess against my will and to serve as ammunition in this senseless war that threatens to ruin my relationship with either family membe.

i’m moving out in a month and I’m not sure that it will solve all Problems. I just want to get away from these people. They ruin me as much as they ruin each other.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 13 days ago

Can someone please explain who Ishmael and Quequeeg are?

I’m gonna be very honest, until not even two minutes ago I didn‘t knew about project moon. all I know is I was searching for fanart from the two characters in Herman Melvilles novel and instead I stumbled upon this couple. Who is that?

u/monderkiller9999 — 13 days ago

Need advice to coming out as Aro/Ace

Well, the title says it. The people in my family are very supportive of gay people, but I’m not sure how they are towards Asexual or even Aromantic people. They also don’t talk alot about sex and that stuff so I’m not sure how to start talking about the subject. If I ever come out it should be to my mom or my sister, but I really need advice on how to do it without risking to be seen as immature or having to explain myself.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 18 days ago

What is a pro shot?

I’ve seen this mentioned multiple times on this subreddit but I have absolutely no idea what it is, so can somebody please explain to me what a pro shot is?

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u/monderkiller9999 — 24 days ago
▲ 134 r/buecher

Wie kann ich effektiv ein Buch vor meiner Familie verstecken?

Ich les grad ein Buch von dem ich nicht möchte das es meine Familie (vor allem Mutter und Schwester bei denen das Risiko besteht das sie in mein Zimmer kommen) sieht. Ich hab keine Schubladen wo ich es reinschieben kann und im Regal hab ich Angst dass es auffällt.
Es ist nichts schmutziges, aber behandelt ein paar sehr persönliche Themen die ich gerne selbst, zu meiner eigenen Zeit mit meiner Familie ansprechen möchte als das ich von einem Buch geoutet werde.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 30 days ago

Recommendations for songs like « dancing bear » by the mamas and papas

I’m searching for song recommendations that have this kind of ethereal, dteaming of another world vibe. Something like the vibes of the Narnia series ( the books, not the movies), or a romanticized version of a medieval town fair. i know its very specifi, but I really love this song and I hope to find songs similar to that.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 1 month ago

This beautiful edition of the Hunchback of Notre Dame

This book weighs over 2 kilogram ( 5 pounds) and my back and hands hurt when I read it for to long 🥲

u/monderkiller9999 — 1 month ago

I hate being Aromantic

You‘ve seen the title. I hate being Aro. I was fine with being Ace, but being Aro is a whole other level. I feel like I have been standing in front of the gates of heaven this entire time and only now I realize that they are never gonna open. One of the seemingly most great and beautiful experiences of human nature has been taken away from me and now I’m damned to spend my entire life watching people get what I want and them never understanding why I can’t have it. Everytime somebody in my family asks about when I will have a boyfriend I just start to feel depressed. Look, I don’t have anything against aromantic people because they are how they are and I understand that they don’t need romance to feel happy. I’m just not fine with me being Aromantic. I already have troubles forming friendships because of past trauma, what am I gonna do if I’m not even able to be in a relationship? I guess I’ll just end up to be a crazy cat lady or something like that.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 1 month ago

I’m not sure if it fits into this sub, but recommendations for books with Ace characters in fantasy or science fiction setting

everything is said in the title. I recently read Don’t let the forest in by C.G Drew’s and I really enjoyed it. Do you have any recommendations for other books (or even any other type of media) with Ace characters in a fantasy, science fiction or horror/thriller setting?

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u/monderkiller9999 — 1 month ago

A fear sighted in Berlin

an Italian Restaurant in Berlin turned out to be an avatar of the eye. I felt observed during the length of my stay.

u/monderkiller9999 — 1 month ago

I was desperately searching for a way to meme these four in my head

Gwynplain: the man who laughs by Victor Hugo

Erik: the phantom of the Opera by Gaston Leroux

Quasimodo: the Hunchback of Notre-Dame by Victor Hugo

Frankenstein (actually the creature): Frankenstein by Mary Shelley

u/monderkiller9999 — 1 month ago

Has anybody here listened to “the grinning man” musical? If yes how did you find it?

I absolutely adore the novel and I deeply enjoyed the silent movie from the 1920s. I just saw that there is apparently a musical and I wanted to know how you liked it and if you would recommend it.

u/monderkiller9999 — 2 months ago

Is it possible to be “just” attracted to people?

so l am currently in a very weird position. I found out | was Asexual last year and since then I've come to think a lot about my feelings concerning sex and romance. while I'm very clear on the first one, I am very confused on the second one.

I like men. I like looking at pretty men and thinking about how pretty and attractive they are. Their prettiness makes me happy.

The only person I am somewhat certain to have been in love with was an anime character and I was 14 and very, very lonely. I don't think I will and I don't think I want to feel anything like this again because even a long time after 1 am still deadly ashamed of it.

Since then i've never had a crush again, I'm not even sure I ever had a crush on anybody around me ever. the times I thought I had a crush I was forcing myself to feel something because I was waiting for something to come and panicked.

So I don't feel sexual attraction, i don't have a libido, I can't fall in love but somehow | am still attracted to pretty man.

I am confused as heck and I feel like I know nothing about what exactly I am feeling. Please help me out.

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u/monderkiller9999 — 2 months ago

Just a question

can You only post in sub reddit if you are a member of the subreddi? because Reddit immediately took down to of my pretty harmless, questioning posts and that is really frustrating

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u/monderkiller9999 — 2 months ago