My visa might not be accepted because of this :(

Just having a bad day. I've been working on my youth mobility visa (Canada to Spain), and I've done a whole bunch of stuff for it before reading the medical documents carefully. It says a doctor has to confirm I'm not mentally ill.

It's been well managed, and I'm on the lowest dose of lamo. I meet or exceed all the other requirements, and this one feels really prejudiced.

Really frustrated and upset 😞

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u/ournoonsournights — 1 month ago

Mad about drone ads? 2 easy actions you can do in 2 min.

If you were also livid when you saw that ad, here's what you can do in less than 3 minutes.

  1. Email Councillor Dianne Saxe
  2. Submit a complaint to AdStandards

Email your Councillor
https://www.toronto.ca/city-government/council/members-of-council/

Something as simple as "I'm a resident of Toronto, and this is unacceptable, we should not have to deal with this and the precedent it sets".

(Also, I know it feels useless to email people, but I've heard from advocacy groups that even like 7-10 emails about something specific makes it a big deal to local offices. It's worth it, I promise!)

Ad Standards
https://adstandards.ca/complaints/how-to-submit-a-complaint/

The description can be something as simple as "this is an unacceptable format for ads and sets a harmful precendent."

Note - if you want to include a picture (including a screenshot from Reddit), you have to select 'other' as the type of ad, not 'outdoor'

Common councillors:

Toronto Center (dt core): Councillor_Moise@toronto.ca

Spadina-Fort York (all the way to lakeshore, west end): Councillor_Malik@toronto.ca

University - Rosedale (Annex, bloor, christie pits etc): Councillor_Saxe@toronto.ca

u/ournoonsournights — 1 month ago

Has anyone bought a Nomad case on etsy or amazon?

I'm super excited to get my supernote, and I want to keep the screen safe. That being said, it is really expensive if you include shipping to Canada. Ideally I want to save a little on the folio, but I've been having some trouble finding a good third party option.

Would love some help as someone on a budget haha

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u/ournoonsournights — 3 months ago
▲ 715 r/Gouache

my ADHD ass never finishes a painting

I picked up gouache again after years, been having a lot of fun! These are some sketches from the last few months, I'm particularly interested in colour :)

u/ournoonsournights — 3 months ago

Make art with what you've got! Any other artists or creatives here?

My minimalist painting setup!

One of my favourite things about a low-consumption lifestyle is how it keeps things so accessible. Painting is for everyone, and you can bring it anywhere :)

The details:

My notebook was an old one from a friend, I've had the brushes for years, and I repurposed a Tupperware for a palette & water (WHICH if you're an artist is actually the best hack ever bc extends paint life, the humidity keeps it moist) and my paints were about $8 from an independent art store. I like to challenge myself to only use primaries & white (and a burnt sienna for oils).

I'd love to see what other low-consumption artists and creatives are making 🌞

u/ournoonsournights — 3 months ago
▲ 646 r/ultralight_jerk+1 crossposts

I trekked in the Annapurna range wearing the same outfit I'd wear to a cafe!

I've hiked on mountain ranges and volcanoes all over the world in my casual boots, my normal jeans, a crop top, and a mesh clubbing shirt (everyone laughs, but they're amazing for layers!! They don't hold sweat and keep you warm!)

There's no need to buy new outfits for every activity, and it's a reminder that hiking can be very accessible! :)

EDIT - resubmitted bc I used a brand name by accident!

PS- For the people calling me consumerist because I take flights:

Once I'm in a region, I use and travel :) public transit, trains, long haul busses, often 10-20 hours!

I have never owned a car, I don't eat meat, all my belongings fit in a 55L bag, and are thrifted from small local businesses. Respectfully, please keep it to yourself 👍🏽

EDIT 2 - y'all outside of the Himalayas trek, these hikes are like 4-8 hours and extremely populated. I promise you I'm not going to die of hypothermia in my jeans and/or be any more likely than the average person to require emergency helicopter rescue

u/ournoonsournights — 3 months ago
▲ 452 r/ultralight_jerk+1 crossposts

I hike in crop tops SUE ME

Something I'm very proud of is how little I consume. All my belongings fit in a 55L bag, most of it is thrifted and multi-use. Minimalism is fun for me, like a nice puzzle.

I recently posted in the anti-consumption subreddit about how I do a lot of really cool hikes all over the world, wearing the same outfit I would to a cafe: docs, jeans, and a crop top.

It's important to me because I believe that hiking should be accessible! All you need is your legs, no need to buy new clothes or expensive supplies. A lot of people don't think of hiking this way, and it can make them feel like they're not good enough or prepared enough to hike if they don't have the right stuff.

I got such a negative response! About how I was obviously doing something SO dangerous, I didn't know anything about hiking, I'm a bad low-consumerism for taking flights (which, btw, I don't own a car, and once I get to a region I do exclusively land travel -- even if that means a 20hr bus ride). One person even said that I only wear crop tops on hikes for social media likes.

I'm so frustrated! I've been on so many crazy hikes, I included pictures, I obviously know what I'm doing! And they said things like they wouldn't wear jeans because of chafing or crop tops bc of but bites -- obviously if that was a problem for me I wouldn't keep doing it??? I just only own crop tops lmao and the whole post was about not buying new things just for hiking!

Only one person was like, let's assume she knows how to hike if she's doing all this hiking?

The post even got removed, and I don't know why.

I'm just annoyed, that was something I was excited to share and I just got completely disregarded and everyone assumed I'm just stupid. I also wonder if I would have gotten that response if I were a man.

Thanks for listening to me vent, it upset me more than I expected 😔

Food is delicious veg curry :)

EDIT - I can't reply to all of you, but thank you sooooooo so much, please know you made me feel so warm and it's so fun to be in a community of fun, feminist, outdoorsy girls!

u/RunWithBluntScissors — 3 months ago

My simple painting setup :)

I trave full time so I live out of a 55L backpack. Everything I own has to be light, portable, and usually multi-function. I thrift most of it as well :)

While I love beautiful, high-quality art supplies I use the cheap stuff just as often. I believe anyone can make art without the fancy equipment if they don't have it. These are gauche paints I got for under $10 CAD, 2 random old paintbrushes, a free notebook, and a small tupperware container that I use as a palette and water bowl. It's simple, everyone has one, and the humidity keeps the gauche fresh too!

Would love to see other simple living artist's setups and processes :)

u/ournoonsournights — 3 months ago

Books with very productive protagonists?

I noticed while reading Yesteryear that I really liked how productive she was lol, even though she was obviously nuts about it. It's something I really struggle with, and as I'm trying to build up my energy again, I found it weirdly helpful. Would love other examples of slightly manic women who get a lot done

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u/ournoonsournights — 3 months ago

I'm feeling nervous about the racism I might encounter in Spain

I'm a Canadian staying for 1-4 years, essentially on a work/travel visa. I'm Caribbean/Italian, but I look Indian. I have to stay in Barcelona for the first year or so for personal reasons, but I hope to move somewhere smaller after that.

I'm pretty worried about the racism. Not even the outright stuff, that's not fun of course, but it's easier for me to shake off compared to the general public opinion of brown people being less than.

For example, I've heard people talk about this feeling within the US -- the southerners will tell you they're racist from the start, but in the West, you figure it out slowly overtime. Not sure if that makes sense to everyone, but I'm sure other POC kind of know what I mean.

Anyways, I'm really worried about always feeling less than or second class all the time.

I've spent a lot of time in Europe, but never in Spain, so I'm not sure what the vibe is. For reference, I had a fine time in European cities like Edinburgh, Peckham district in London, Prague, and Poznan, but a worse time in Warsaw. In other parts of the world, I usually am just assumed to be whatever the local brown people are lol.

PS- my Spanish is okay for basic conversations and transactions, and I'm in Spanish school currently to get better.

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u/ournoonsournights — 3 months ago

I'm pretty used to hanging out in parks topless in Toronto. Will this be an issue in Barcelona?

I'm a woman, so it's less common for us to be topless, but I'm Canada it's perfectly legal. When I'm reading in the park and I get hot, it would be normal for me to just take off my shirt.

What would realistically happen if I was doing this in BCN?

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u/ournoonsournights — 3 months ago
▲ 16 r/askTO

Queer-owned bars for a work event?

Hey! I'm looking for a venue for a small work event, drinks and snacks for 6-8 people.

I'm looking for queer-owned places, but not necessarily queer-exclusive places — not everyone at the work event is queer, and I don't want to invade a space or anything. Just want to keep our money in the community :)

So far Bar Neon looks like the best bet, but I'm not too sure what the other options are.

Thanks :)

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u/ournoonsournights — 4 months ago

Bloated and AI-d up to the point of being unusable

I'm a reader on substack and I'm so annoyed with the notes and having to scroll for ages to find articles.

Also the quality of articles has been decreasing, solo many people cite using AI for sources (AI literally hallucinates links, or cites a credible link that actually just leads to Google . Com). Unless you're going through every source yourself, there's just no way to know it's accurate and I have no way of knowing if the author did that.

One person even said that they ran their article through 2 AI platforms and both agreed with him?? Like obviously, that's what they're build to do??

I used to really enjoy substack but this is so frustrating as a reader. If anyone has recommendations for a different platform, please let me know!

EDIT: Also how is there not a function that saves a highlighted quote!

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u/ournoonsournights — 5 months ago

Help me decide?

Just for fun! I like making invitations to the events I host for my friends, and I'm stuck between these two options. Let me know what you think :)

u/ournoonsournights — 5 months ago

Looking for a sublet for July & Aug. Couple, flexible dates, on the subway line or Mimico

Hello!

My partner and I are coming to visit my family and friends in Toronto, and we're looking for a room/apartment for the summer.

He's finishing his masters in therapy, and I work in marketing. We're quiet, don't smoke or have pets, and we like to cook for people :)

Flexible on the location, but I'm looking for somewhere on the subway line, or near Mimico station.

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u/ournoonsournights — 5 months ago