u/pink0bsessed

Honestly feel like I’m being given no option but to drop my sorority. I decided to audition for a community theatre production, ended up getting a lead part, and am feeling really excited about it. The issue is rehearsals are at the same time as chapter meetings. I thought that this would be okay because the performance is in October; I would only miss 2 months of meetings, not the entire year or semester. It would’ve been my third year in the sorority this year, and I’ve only missed 2 or 3 meetings ever. I thought this would be a valid excuse, and that if absolutely necessary I could go inactive for the semester. I’d be more than willing to not go to any social events until I can go to meetings again too. Turns out the acceptable reasons for inactivity are more strict than I thought, and they would only be willing to accept my absences from meetings if I missed half of my rehearsals or left them early. Because of the rehearsal timing I can’t leave early or show up late, and either way they happen out of town. Additionally, I cannot miss half of my rehearsals in the final month leading up to the show. As a lead character my attendance is super important, and missing would be really disrespectful to the cast. In comparison I have no position in my sorority aside from being an active member, and have been dedicated in this role. I can’t afford to pay fines for missing the meetings right now, and would get points along with these fines that would hurt my ability to participate in the sorority once the show is done. I’m feeling really sad because this decision wasn’t one of carelessness or a lack of commitment to my sorority, I was just excited to engage in both and get back to one of my old hobbies.

I’m sad, but will get over the loss. It was becoming challenging for me to afford it this year, though I was hopeful I could overcome that. What I’m having most difficulty with is the guilt I have associated with telling my little. I don’t want her to be mad at me or think I’m totally ditching her, I still want to be involved in her life and have a positive relationship. I’m not concerned about the opinions others have, I know that my true friends will still like me even if I’m not a member of the sorority anymore. Just need some advice on how to communicate this with my little, and how to proceed with the process of dropping as I don’t even know what to expect

Had a perfect storm of issues that have caused pretty bad hair breakage. Really bad stress from a breakup coupled with unintended weight loss, having a severe cold for 3 months and needing to take antibiotics to cure it, developing vitamin D deficiency, and then finally a box dye disaster over my heavily highlighted hair. Was already experiencing more hair trouble than normal, shouldn’t have ever attempted at home colour 😭

I have since had it colour corrected and it is doing much better, but I’m still dealing with a lot of breakage around the crown of my head. My hairdresser recommended I start using k-18, but I’m wondering if anyone else can recommend changes they’ve made that have helped to heal their hair? Despite having heavy highlights, my hair had seemed very healthy before these other issues began last fall.

Info about my hair/routine:

-I have wavy/curly hair
-I typically shampoo and condition with LUS products but am considering switching to Redken All Soft conditioner as I used it for a bit last year while getting heavy highlights and my hair seemed to like it
-I use Verb hydrating mask once a week
-out of the shower I use the LUS 3 in one for curly hair, Aussie Ultra wonder spray (just added this, started using Milkshake Incredible Milk leave in around the time my breakage would’ve become more significant so am curious to see if it contributed, Tresemne flawless curls mousse, and Aussie instant freeze gel followed by diffusing
-I typically would wash every other day but my hairdresser suggested I do it less due to my breakage, so I’m trying this
-I use satin pillowcases every night

I will take any advice I can get, or even just success stories from others who waited things out. Thank you so much

I’ve been cast as Columbia and need desperate help finding a corset (or tank top) like hers! Rainbow sequins are nowhere to be found right now somehow 😭 if worst comes to worst, how hard would it be to DIY something like this?

I initially recovered from my eating disorder 7 years ago now, and afterwards maintained my weight pretty consistently. I had struggles internally off and on, but stayed within a healthy range that didn’t shift much. Definitely was at my set point. In September of 2025 I had a pretty significant breakup, and this led to unintentional weight loss of about >!10-15 pounds!<. Though I am still in a healthy range, I know this is not where I typically sit and have yet to gain it back. I’m really sad as despite sometimes feeling insecure before, I really liked my old body. I miss it. That being said, I am worried about gaining the weight back as my lifestyle differs a bit from what it was then. My whole life I was a dancer, but now in university I no longer take classes. I worry that because of this, the weight will look different than it had before when I gain it back. I know that this is likely quite irrational realistically, but I am still really worried. I carry the majority of my weight in my legs and am concerned that’ll flip somehow now and all go to my belly. I really could use some advice and reassurance, I know what I need to do but am overwhelmed because I haven’t needed to gain weight back in a long time.

I did a trial lesson with my first ever vocal teacher recently and absolutely loved it! For an hour class, she charges $70. I was wondering if this seems standard to most people? She also offers 45 minutes for $60. Just want to know what’s typical :))

Decided to audition for Columbia in a local production of Rocky Horror pretty last minute, and ended up getting the role! I’ve seen the stage show twice, and will of course be watching the movie too now that I’ll be in the musical myself. Will look for different productions online too to see how portrayal varies!

I feel like I have a decent understanding of Columbia’s character, but am curious if anyone who has played her (or just holds the character very dear to them) has any insights on how to best bring her to life? What do you believe are the most important parts of her character? What are her mannerisms and tone generally like? I know my director will have specific feedback for me to take with her, but sometimes it’s helpful for me to get opinions from others on a character as I’m prepping. I just want to feel I understand her before I get to work too much!

Thank you to anyone who can help :))

Have lots added already but am looking for more! Would love more suggestions for songs that mention the name but aren’t necessarily in the title as I only have a number of these

I’m on my flight home, but wanted to share how amazing the concert and fans were. I saw the band on May 13th and it was such a special night! No Doubt became my favourite band when I was 13 going through a rough hospital stay, and their music has since got me through many more difficult times in my life. Feeling so lucky that 7 years later at 20 I was able to convince my mom to fly from Canada together to go see them live! The band was incredible, but so were all of the fans I met and spoke to. So cool to see everyone walking around and knowing instantly from their outfits where they were going that night. The best!! Dancing in my seat up in the 400s and singing along to all of the songs is something I’ll never forget :))

A couple notes that I think might be helpful for those who haven’t been yet and are curious!:

-I was in 404 row 9, you can definitely stand up and dance, but with the visuals it’s easy to lose balance so it has to be done very carefully. I sat and danced in my chair for most of the show because of this! The person sitting behind me fell on me and spilled their drink on me, I’m glad I was seated because if standing I probably would’ve fallen too. Really great view of the band too even though you’re up high!

-I was at the very end of my row by the aisle so didn’t get any myself, but some oranges dropped above the centre seats in my row! So if you’re in 400 there’s still a chance to catch one :)

-I first went to the fan experience on the 13th around 1pm, and merch was mostly sold out. Only large and extra large sizes were left! Decided to go back yesterday on a whim during the 4:30 time-slot and had MUCH better luck! Lots more stock, more sizes, and even some items that weren’t being sold yet when I was originally there (I got the cutest Return of Saturn t-shirt!!). Thinking maybe they restock in the later afternoon? Definitely worth going back just in case! Regardless, The Sphere had plenty of merch and so I had no issue getting what I wanted there.

Wishing everyone who hasn’t gone yet the best time ever!! Enjoy every second of it, I’d go back again and again if I could :)

Leaving for my flight home to Canada tomorrow morning, and have some extra cash that I didn’t spend so am considering getting one last piece of merch! For those who have been to the ND experience today, how was it? When I went before the show on the 13th they only had large sizes left, how is the stock for small? Don’t want to make another reservation unless I am pretty certain I’ll be able to find something, I want to make sure others are able to snag a spot if not!

Also this is a long shot, but if anyone is able to find the Return of Saturn tank they’re selling there in a size small and is willing to pick it up for me I’d love you forever 😭 I’m in Treasure island but could walk to the Venetian to grab it!

I was at last night’s show and was totally blown away!! Best experience ever. Feeling so lucky to have had the chance to travel from Canada to see my favourite band. Didn’t take much footage as I was focused on just enjoying it all phone-free, so I’m wondering if anyone else has any? Gwen’s vocals were incredible yesterday so I’d love to have anything that I can look back at :))

For those who haven’t gone yet, have the best time! It was absolutely incredible