i’ve called multiple apartment complexes and they all said i have to get a 2 bedroom for me, my husband and a child. i wonder how people with one child or more children are able to get away and get approved for a one bedroom??.. just curious to know.
should i lie and say it will just be me and my husband moving in?..
currently look for a job that can align with daycare hours and it seems nearly impossible.
most day shift jobs want you to work crazy hours that mainly works for people who don’t have kids..
this one job that interviewed me said one day a week i need to be available to work til 7pm when i can’t do that because i have to pick up my child from daycare before they close at 6pm..another job wanted to offer me a position that starts at 6am in the morning.. well daycare don’t open til 6:30 in most places. i’m mentally exhausted, and don’t know what to do.
my husband wants a divorce and he’s also in the military.
we share a child together and recently we temporarily moved to dover for military orders and i have a family member that me and my child is currently staying with while he’s on base working.
we planned to move to our own place after is orders are up and now he’s telling me he wants a divorce and for us to live separately.
i finanacial may can’t afford to live separately and iam currently trying to find a job after not working for while from me being a stay at home mom.
i honestly need advice and i don’t know what to do.
my husband wants to live in the city but i dont.
i got a approved for a rental property and he said he wants to live separately and we also share a child together. the city he wants to live in is an hour away from were i want to live. so most of the child care during the week will be on me. and he said he would see our child during the weekends. would you turn down the rental property and move closer to the city were he’s moving to or would you continue on taking the rental property that you got approved for?
if not, why not.. if yes, why so?
i don’t think anybody understands how devastating and scary it is to not have a job right now in this economy; unless you’re currently going through it as well.. i’am literally drowning, and don’t know what to do anymore.
i think they are laughing at the amount of applications we’re putting in! spending hours each day to apply for jobs that don’t even care to hire people.
people who post their entire lives on social media seriously need a reality check. there’s literal stalkers on these platforms and people who are jealous of everything you have. i realized there’s no benefit in posting/ sharing my life to people who i don’t know; and deleted most of my social media apps.
even the entry level jobs that pay minimum wage are hard to get into nowadays. so when people say “just get a entry level job” or “just work anywhere”.. clearly don’t get the struggles we are facing to try and land a job in the first place.
i was a sahm for a few years and now i need to find a job but it’s been so hard to get one…
interview after interview but still nothing. i’am tired.
the answer i truly want to flat out and say but i never do.
my husband wants a divorce and we share a child together. i just want to know how do you handle the embarrassment if your husband files for divorce? it feels like my life is slowly crumbling in front of my eyes.
they don’t understand the dreadful hours you put in day by day to even get a job. people just see that you’re unemployed and automatically think you’re lazy or that your just living your best life but in reality we’re stressed out because the bills are piling up while we’re unemployed!
this is why i would never choose to be a sahm ever again. because the man wants to leave the picture he will leave you stranded and have you “figure” it out with no financial back up. i don’t have a job and now i have to start over from scratch. being a sahm can break you if your husband leave you.
$20 more to fill my tank smh.
why just why? .. these apartments aren’t worth paying $2,000 a month! they’re also charging up to $1,600 for a one bedroom apartment!
if so why?.. this is a judgement free zone btw..
nowadays you gotta hold on for dear life for the job you probably hate until you land a new one. quitting your job in hopes to find a new one in a short period of time is slim to none.
A. the mom who says hi/greet themselves to other moms.
B. the mom who is too fucking tired to chat to other parents at the park.
C. the mom who seeks other mom friends.
D. the mom who avoids conversation at all cost because they have social anxiety.
E. the mom who only spends 20-30 minutes max at the park!