Is the construction noise at The Setai exaggerated or is it a real issue?

considering booking The Setai in August but the noise concerns have me spooked. alternative would be Faena, 1 Hotel, Delano or The Standard.

The Setai is my clear top choice if not for noise.

thanks!

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u/rwedoomed — 2 days ago

Miami Beach: Setai, Faena, 1 Hotel, The Edition, Delano??

couples trip. 40 years old. not looking to party. more low key, chill at pool and beach. drink good, eat good. maybe a massage.

Setai would be tops for us if it weren't for two things we read: construction nearby and a lackluster spa.

1 Hotel looks great but gets mixed reviews here.

The Edition. seems a lot love it and some don't.

The Delano wasn't on my radar until I read about it's recent renovation.

The Standard just sounds cool...but, eh?

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u/rwedoomed — 5 days ago

Setai, Faena, 1 Hotel, Delano or The Standard?

couples trip. 40 years old. not looking to party. more low key, chill at pool and beach. drink good, eat good. maybe a massage.

Setai would be tops for us if it weren't for two things we read: construction nearby and a lackluster spa.

1 Hotel looks great but gets mixed reviews here.

The Delano wasn't on my radar until I read about it's recent renovation.

The Standard just sounds cool...but, eh?

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u/rwedoomed — 5 days ago

Is it "important" to like where you live?

i ask this because for the last 10+ years i have actively disliked where i live and i wonder if its grinded my down a bit. i feel mentally drained.

it's not like i live in a terrible area either, it just doesn't fit me. but my wife is tied by family here and i have made the sacrifice.

just wondering if these feelings are typical - being stuck somewhere you don't like leading to feeling down.

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u/rwedoomed — 12 days ago

Is it "important" to like where you live?

i ask this because for the last 10+ years i have actively disliked where i live and i wonder if its grinded my down a bit. i feel mentally drained.

it's not like i live in a terrible area either, it just doesn't fit me. but my wife is tied by family here and i have made the sacrifice.

just wondering if these feelings are typical - being stuck somewhere you don't like leading to feeling down.

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u/rwedoomed — 12 days ago

What are you wearing to a "casual" office in the summer?

office is casual but not t shirt and shorts level. think...most guys rock a golf polo. at most a poplin dress shirt tucked into slacks. i prefer to be on the more casual end of the spectrum but am having issues with what exactly to wear that ISN'T a golf polo...maybe just a pique cotton polo? linen shirts? i dk

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u/rwedoomed — 13 days ago

Is anyone stuck somewhere that doesn't suit them due to a spouse or family?

if so, how are you managing that? i am fairly desperate to leave. my wife is desperate to stay. not something i'd blow up my family about so i am trying to figure out how to navigate.

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u/rwedoomed — 19 days ago

How is it living in Westchester County, NY (White Plains area)?

have a job opportunity in White Plains, NY but haven't visited yet - that comes soon. I am curious for those that are from or have lived there for some time what are your thoughts on the city and the county as a whole? is it on the upswing? any COVID impact still being felt? lay it on me.

u/rwedoomed — 19 days ago

Is anyone stuck somewhere that doesn't suit them due to a spouse or family?

if so, how are you managing that? i am fairly desperate to leave. my wife is desperate to stay. not something i'd blow up my family about so i am trying to figure out how to navigate.

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u/rwedoomed — 21 days ago

We have nothing to talk about

my wife and I get along fine. rarely ever fight. we are great parents. still have intimacy BUT we don't have much to talk about on a random Tuesday evening. i mean, sure, we talk about the kids and our days and logistics or about some movie or show we're watching but we hardly ever have any type of deeper conversation.

i am not even sure how to approach that. is this common?

tldr; not glaring issues, really. just a lack of conversation. sometimes feels forced. kind of sad about it.

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u/rwedoomed — 21 days ago

We have nothing to talk about

my wife and I get along fine. rarely ever fight. we are great parents. still have intimacy BUT we don't have much to talk about on a random Tuesday evening. i mean, sure, we talk about the kids and our days and logistics or about some movie or show we're watching but we hardly ever have any type of deeper conversation.

i am not even sure how to approach that. is this common?

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u/rwedoomed — 21 days ago

Scouting trip with two little kids: sell us on North County (or talk us out of it)

Hi all — planning a ~5 day, late-summer trip to San Diego with my wife and two young kids (6 and 4-year-old). Coming from New York, I’ve dreamed about the area for years and we’re using this trip to show the family the best of it, with a possible move down the road, so I’d love to see it through both a “vacation” and a “could we live here” lens.

Mainly looking at the North County coast (Encinitas, Carlsbad) but open to wherever makes sense.

Would love advice on:

• Where to stay — a home base that’s good with little kids and gives us a feel for the area (beach town vs. central?)
• Things to do — the genuine highlights with kids that age, beyond the obvious (we’ll likely hit the zoo / Legoland, but what would you show a family?)
• Food — family-friendly spots, but also the places locals actually love
• Neighborhoods to drive through — if we were imagining everyday life here, which areas are worth a look for families?

Trying to experience a normal few days, not just the tourist circuit. Appreciate any and all tips. Thanks!

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u/rwedoomed — 27 days ago
▲ 3 r/Denim

I have a pair of the Wrangler Cowboy Cut denim that everyone loves but they look...ridiculous?

i mean i feel the quality. and the price, unreal. but they look so silly. they're too wide in the legs and leg opening.

is everyone just rocking these as-is or getting them tailored?

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u/rwedoomed — 28 days ago

I have a pair of the Wrangler Cowboy Cut denim that everyone praises but they look...ridiculous?

i mean i feel the quality. and the price, unreal. but they look so silly. they're too wide in the legs and leg opening.

is everyone just rocking these as-is or getting them tailored?

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u/rwedoomed — 28 days ago

Anyone else have a spouse completely stonewall their desire to relocate?

we live in my wife's hometown. born, raised and works here. i am desperate for change but she almost immediately shuts down any conversation of it. becomes defensive, upset, etc.

has anyone dealt with something similar? i feel like im living in a prison sentence instead of life.

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u/rwedoomed — 1 month ago

Anyone else have a spouse completely stonewall their desire to relocate?

we live in my wife's hometown. born, raised and works here. i am desperate for change but she almost immediately shuts down any conversation of it. becomes defensive, upset, etc.

has anyone dealt with something similar? i feel like im living in a prison sentence instead of life.

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u/rwedoomed — 1 month ago

Special property ~3hrs from NYC to celebrate wife's 40th birthday?

budget: is up to ~$1k/night not including food or other amenities (spa, etc.) and entertainment.

length: 1-2 nights.

timeline: end of May, or anytime in June/July

trying to decide if it's worth traveling somewhere for 1-2 nights or if we should just stay local. looking for a mix of relaxation with other "things to do" - be it restaurants, bars, spas, etc.

we live in Westchester so NYC is the obvious choice but also the hustle, bustle and heat of Manhattan in the late spring/early summer isn't the most relaxing. at any rate, here's a list I've come up with. I am not sold on any of these. thank you!

  • Mayflower (Washington CT)
  • Ocean House (Newport)
  • Castle Hill (Newport)
  • Shepherds Run Inn (South Kingstown)
  • Mill Street Inn (Newport)
  • The Vanderbilt (Newport)
  • The Chanler (Newport)
  • The Brenton (Newport)
  • The Whalers Inn (Mystic)
  • Winvian (CT)
  • Saybrook Point Inn (CT)
  • Greenwich Hotel (NYC)
  • Crosby St Hotel (NYC)
  • Dominick (NYC)
  • Bowery Hotel (NYC)
  • Carlyle (NYC)
  • Surrey (NYC)
  • Mandarin Oriental (NYC)
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u/rwedoomed — 2 months ago

Has anyone lived in White Plains and NOT liked it?

it seems everyone sings White Plains praises but...i don't think it's for me. for reference, we live in a house in one of the more desirable neighborhoods.

i am considering another town in the county - Pleasantville is up near the top of our list. i am wondering if anyone else has hopped around towns and found something as good/better than White Plains without an astronomical increase in housing costs?

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u/rwedoomed — 2 months ago