u/scaredofbarney

looking for an affordable place to get him all of his vaccinations and whatever else he needs

he was using my phone to record and started going through it. i’m hurt and kind of taken aback. he has my password and can look at my phone any time he wants, but i feel like sneaking and doing it, especially while we’re intimate, is a little fucked up? sex isn’t just no big deal to me and he knows that. i’ve never had sex with someone unless we were in a serious relationship and i’m sensitive about it for personal reasons/things i’ve been through in the past. i just feel like sex is an emotional and vulnerable thing for me and him doing that during it is a little upsetting. aside from that, even if it was just a quick fuck and i wasn’t sensitive about intimacy at all, i think that would still be disrespectful? i don’t know, this is only my second relationship and the second person i’ve slept with so i don’t have much to compare it to. am i making this a bigger deal than it needs to be? just looking for some outside opinions because i’m a little confused.

edit: some more context, kinda tmi but he got soft which has never happened before so i turned around and i could tell he was scrolling/doing something other than recording. i asked him what happened and he said he was just looking through my phone real quick. he apologized. i am just here to ask for opinions on the situation because i’m really upset and even though he apologized he has a very nonchalant attitude about the situation like he didn’t expect me to feel some type of way about it. i don’t know if that makes sense but i feel really weird about it.

i’m throwing a bridal shower and am looking for a restaurant with a private room! preferably an outdoor seating area/patio but i’ll take any & all recommendations! tia!

we’ve been together for 8 months and have said i love you, but sometimes i question if i’m really in love. i don’t know if i’m in love or if it just feeds my ego/makes me feel good about myself to take care of someone/know i’m making their life better. that sounds terrible, but i can’t tell which it is. i think this stems from taking care of everything for everyone in my family and only being acknowledged/rewarded when i did things for them. so i don’t know if i just like feeling needed. i do feel romantic feelings toward him, and i’m definitely attached, but the way some people describe love isn’t how i feel at all. the “i would die without them, i get butterflies every time i see them”, euphoric, all-consuming, romance isn’t what i’m experiencing. is it always like that? my only relationship was from 18-21 with my high school crush (lol) and i did feel that excitement and like i couldn’t live without him. but is that just a first love thing? i’m so confused! is this confusion the answer to my own question? i feel like someone who was really in love would know for sure. help!!!

i’m visiting in a week for a bachelorette trip and am looking for a nice restaurant with a view of the water, ideally one where we can dress up! tia! :)

i’m visiting in two weeks for a bachelorette trip and am looking for a nice restaurant with a view of the water, ideally one where we can dress up! tia! :)

Hi everyone!! I’m short on rent due this Friday. I can adjust the terms to whatever works for you, I just really need help at the moment. I can give more details if needed. Thank you!