Book where a character goes from being an introvert to outgoing

As title suggests.

Ideally a guy who starts off shy, lives a boring life, then goes on to lead an adventurous life becoming Charismatic, social adventurous leading an interesting life.

Could be non fiction or fiction or autobiographical

Don’t mind some romance in there

Thanksss 🙏

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u/sean9334 — 3 days ago

Has anyone ever let go of all attachments and lived fully in the present?

I posted this originally in the David Hawkins subreddit, it’s the practice of letting go and has the effect of being totally present eyes open.

I have let go several times. The feeling I can best describe it as completely freeing, like I was totally in the present and accepted everything as is. I was like my best self Charamstic in flow it is a beautiful experience. The first time it happened I had a massage a few hours before then it all just hit me at once. It wore off that morning after unfortunately I tried to do it again but it felt like trying to go back to sleep to go back to a great dream you were enjoying.

It’s happened a few times since, most recently when I read a sentence in “a new Earth” by Eckhart Tolle.
I’ve been trying to get back to this state and make it permanent because my life would be magical if I could live like that 24/7.

Has anyone experienced this? If so have you managed to keep it up?

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u/sean9334 — 9 days ago
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Has anyone let go complety before?

I have let go several times. The feeling I can best describe it as completely freeing, like I was totally in the present and accepted everything as is. I was like my best self Charamstic in flow it is a beautiful experience. The first time it happened I had a massage a few hours before then it all just hit me at once. It wore off that morning after unfortunately I tried to do it again but it felt like trying to go back to sleep to go back to a great dream you were enjoying.

It’s happened a few times since, most recently when I read a sentence in “a new Earth” by Eckhart Tolle.
I’ve been trying to get back to this state and make it permanent because my life would be magical if I could live like that 24/7.

Has anyone experienced this? If so have you managed to keep it up?

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u/sean9334 — 9 days ago

I believe my ego has led me down a career path that is of no interest to me. Im beginning again at 33. Any tips?

I had social anxiety growing up, struggled to express myself and show vulnerability. I also had a complex where i thought i was special, and that i was destined to become a star or a big Youtuber or whatever, i think to was to compensate for my feelings of being small in group dynamics. Because when i came to actually making videos I just did not like any part of the process just would go from idea to idea, i enjoyed writing ideas down thats about it.

But anyway, i took a sales job, and i ended up really enjoying it and loving the ability it gave me to express myself to people. I want to run a business of sorts, and speak with the public, kind of like my friend who has a food pop up business, but im not a foodie. i like the idea of going to supermalls around the country and promoting things but im not sure what... I have no idea in terms of products, i just know i like to interact with the public, building a brand ideally something creative and thats about it..

Any advice on products Id love to hear them.

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u/sean9334 — 16 days ago

I've come to realise everything else is a waste of time. All it is is belief

I have come across so many techniques and methods in order to stave off depression and anxiety. My mind is constantly seeking ways in which to heal itself, some of these methods work for a time, and during that time i believe i am healed, the work is over i can begin to enjoy life normally.

Well it always fades away. I am fed up with it.

Then it dawned on me, that what if the reason these methods worked, is because i believed in them. So i have decided to just put all my energy into belief.

Maybe belief and novelty work together I dont know. Anyway im leaving this group and starting to believe everything is ok and I'm believing in my ability to enjoy life.

CYA

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u/sean9334 — 1 month ago

Your depressed because your identity is not tied to your ideal self.

Your miserable because you know you can be better, have a better life, yet its always out of grasp.

Why?

Because your identity is that of someone who's best self is out of reach. Because you don't believe, you're unsure...

What if you were to stop complaining, stop acknowledging all that is wrong is your world, and curate a feeling and identity of already being that best version of you, already having everything you desire.

What if you could let go of that feeling of being unsure, because you have that core strong feeling of identity within you, that only you know to be true. Keep building on this force of your ideal self. Keep falling back to this belief within. And watch your life play catch up...

Try it, play pretend at first, but believe it, believe you have it now, ignore EVERYTHING ELSE, THE PSYCHICAL PAIN, THE REALITY, THE PEOPLE.

And most importantly try to have fun with it. Because that is the key to life to have fun, what motivates us most is what stimulates us, and without that the motivation to stick to anything falls apart.

What do you have to lose?

Believe

only rely on your new identity

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u/sean9334 — 1 month ago