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>!Craig was holding the diamonds when he FaceTime’d Renn. He proposed to her at this time when he was at Smurf’s house.!<

>!We later see Pope burn down the house.!<

>!Then Craig’s last words were “Renn, Nick, diamonds.”!<

>!I don’t think Deran understood nor knew where the diamonds last were.!<

>!What are your thoughts?!<

This show was recommended to my cousin last year in November. He was watching the first episode but fell asleep. Since then, it became one of my top favorite shows ever..

Looking for an app or website that allows you to upload your own meal plan, and it creates a grocery list.

Let’s say I want to shop once a week, or every 2 weeks. You would put that in, and based on your meal plan, it will create a grocery list with the appropriate amount of ingredients needed for 1-2 weeks, for each meal

I’m tired of buying too much and the leftovers go bad quick, or making multiple trips during the week if I forgot something or didn’t buy enough of something

Just really need convenience.

Not all avoidants seek someone this way, and I’m mainly focusing on the non-toxic partners they seek and commit to.

But if this is someone that they prefer, then why make the effort to orbit their ex that they wouldn’t commit to/were in a situationship with? Why put so much effort into watching their life, and why miss them later?

This is what they wanted. They chose this path.

If you are an avoidant (FA or DA) and you’ve done this, can you share your experience?

Saw online that a few states have Costco “outlets.” I know Cargo Largo sells Amazon items but I don’t know if they sell Costco items.

I’m torn between weightlifting, CrossFit, or something like Muy Thai.

About 2 years ago, I was training with my personal trainer and he helped me gain a good amount of muscle. It was hard because I was inconsistent (social anxiety, work, other personal matters I was dealing with). My diet was all over the place but I was still doing pretty good.

I ended my training with my PT back in January because I pulled my back and I needed to rest. I got too comfortable with this and now, it’s been 5 months of no lifting, no gym :(

I fear that I’ve lost a lot of muscle mass, as I look softer and my glutes, muscles all around are not what they used to look like. I feel weaker, more tired, and tight everywhere—especially when I wake up in the mornings.

Definitely want to get back into it, but I’m unsure if that is the route I should go this time. I want something where I can see results quick, become flexible, get stronger fast, etc. Or am I being unrealistic?

I’ve had former trainers that said they provide a meal plan, but then they gave me some generated plan from an app which I was not happy about. The trainer I was with for 2 years gave me a specific meal plan and although I did follow it sometimes, it was hard because of how much eating it consisted of: 1900 calories (bulking), whether I split up the meals or not. It was just so hard and I’d get so full easily, then nauseous.

They are in no order! Just questions or something I’ve noticed based on my observations from the movie:

1. ⁠Nikki was reading a book upside down, indicative that she can’t read. So how was she able to read the Hansel & Gretel piece?
2. ⁠Follow-up question to the previous question, what was written on the Jenga block that prompted her to share that Hansel & Gretel piece?
3. ⁠The scene where she is at the door in a red dress, and it’s dark but her eyes are the only focus in this shot. You can see there is this…strange light that is reflected in her eyes. IMO, it was showing us that the entity was present. I think they focused on her eyes in a few other scenes with the same light in her eyes. Very unsettling!
4. Why was she continuously walking weird? For example, she was hiding in the corner, watching Bear sleep. She did this creepy walk and when Bear asked her to come to bed, she immediately said NO, and moved back to the corner
5. Bear had one shift alone at work. Before he left, he told her to wait at home. When he returned, she was a fucking mess. It looks like she shitted herself (and we also see that she urinated herself) but what could have happened during his time away? There was stuff around her mouth, she looked bloody, and her shirt was ripped.
6. When Nikki became intimate with Bear the first time, she snapped back to reality for a split second and backed away, but then she screamed, as if she saw something when she looked at Bear. It was not like how we see her in the car scene where she snapped into reality after Bear initially made the wish.
7. How was Nikki able to snap back to reality?

I need to rewatch the movie again, and I’ll update my post if I have additional questions.

I found the movie very disturbing! I absolutely loved it. Honestly, I thought it may have been directed by the same director from Smile 2, as there are some similarities.

EDIT: I think what was really unsettling and set the tone early on, was when Bear first called her “Freaky Nikki” in the scar scene, she stood there, no background music, nothing. She stood there for several seconds, which honestly felt longer than that.

EDIT 2: I think each time Nikki snapped into reality, she was trying to kill herself to end the torturous battle with Wish Nikki. I may have mixed a few things up, but that’s what I recall. Again, I will have to watch the movie again.

I know absolutely nothing about ballet but have considered it for a while now. I definitely wanted to as a child, but it wasn’t an option for me at the time.

I’m unsure if this is something I should pursue now or give it another year. I’m currently working full-time (12-hour shifts) and in school part-time. It is two classes a semester but a very heavy load. My work schedule changes weekly.

I’ve also considered Muay Thai. My goal is to become flexible, strong, and more functional. Previously, I was weightlifting for a couple of years, then took a break. I’d like to get back into lifting weights, while also adding something else into my fitness routine. I’m unsure what would not be so costly for me but still enjoyable while reaching my goals. My physique is not at its best right now, and I’d like to change that.

You dated someone briefly but intensely, and after physical intimacy you started pulling away until eventually saying you “lost the spark.” After that, you would re-engage with that person whenever you were single/in between relationships, but cut communication off once you got into a relationship with someone else.

Be in a on/off situationship with the person you pulled away from, you’re avoidant with them, hot and cold, indirect messages (reels, songs, etc.) but never any direct communication to them about your feelings towards them.

Then eventually you committed to someone else seriously (even quickly), while still occasionally, and quietly, orbiting the original person through indirect contact/social media/etc.

From your perspective, what was actually happening internally? Did you genuinely care for the original person but feel overwhelmed/conflicted? Why not directly try again or communicate clearly if the feelings were still there in some way?

My senior cat is about 10-12 years old

We have tried feliway plugins and sprays

We’ve tried Natures Miracle and other sprays to “deter” him, but they either don’t help or smell heavily of chemicals and causes respiratory irritation in us hoomans

Yes, he’s has labs done and has shown UTI

We have gotten him medicated for UTIs

We have him on a Hills Diet for his UTIs

Even when he’s cleared of UTI, it still happens

We have several litter boxes

He drinks plenty of water

He is fixed and vaccinated

WE ARE SO STRESSED OUT!!!! He won’t stop.

No, we are NOT rehoming him.

We’ve tried everything.

Is there anything we haven’t tried? A trick that is rarely spoken of? Anything?

Furniture smells like cat urine and the walls, floors, etc.

He still uses the litter box but sprays elsewhere

…because you’re now in a long-term, committed relationship?

What’s your experience with this if so?

When did you notice you began to miss them?

What triggered you to start missing them?

I had an avoidant situationship that was on and off, just never got to that stage of becoming exclusive, but I always felt this pull between us, even when he cycled through other relationships.

He ended up with a woman he seems to really align with. She seems sweet. He got her pregnant four months into dating, which was four months into us in no contact. This was back in 2024.

It’s now 2+ years of no contact. Their kid is now about 1.5 years old. He did orbit me for a year while she was pregnant, on social media. No direct contact, just TikTok friend request, liked all of my TikTok reposts. Then I blocked him on social media. Month later, he “accidentally” reacted to a text from the last time we talked. That text was a year old, several messages up in the thread. I didn’t react to his message, even though I wanted to. Then six months later, his kid is four months old, it’s April 2025, he stalked my TikTok for a day, then turned it off to hide, I guess. I made my profile private after this and since then, it’s been over a year of silence.

I often wonder if he ever realizes it was hurtful when he always chose someone else, when he was rude to me at times. I never told him, only subtly, which I regret not saying anything. Because I feel that he got away with it and will never know. We did not end on bad terms, he slow faded after we had our last meet, which was emotionally charged, vulnerable, and affectionate, but he did a complete 180 the next day. A couple of weeks later after silence, he’s dating her. They’ve been together ever since, one of his longest relationships.

A year ago, I was curious and still hurting. I unblocked him briefly to stalk their profiles. They’re still very much happily together. He expressed his love and gratitude for her in one of his posts, and said that she makes him feel safe in another post. She has a lot of friends and a seemingly healthy family/support system.

Here I am, 3 years later, still single, struggling with dating (let’s be honest, the dating pool is terrible and honestly sad..). I’m jealous and often compare myself to his life. I don’t have friends, just associates. I’m not really close with my family, and I haven’t been on a date in over 3 years—and it has nothing to do with him.

My nervous system continues to seek closure, knowing I’ll never get it. Idk why it continues to seek it. We will never be in each other’s lives again if there was an opportunity, because him choosing to commit to someone and then have a baby, really broke me. Not that we were serious about kids (although we joked, but nowhere near that because of the situationship), but we did talk about that being our vision in our own future.

It reminded me of a past love, a situationship. And I found out that guy was in a relationship with his high school sweetheart. Our mutual friend told me one night when he was drunk, and it really upset me. Our friend also told me his girlfriend is 5 months pregnant.

So, all of this was a bit similar, but this heartbreak with an avoidant was something I’ve never experienced. I’ve moved on fairly easily from past relationships but this took me about 2+ years to get to where I’m at now..

I’m looking for some honest opinions on a recent move I had in Missouri and how to handle it.

I was quoted $617 for up to 3 hours for a 2 mover crew ($150/hr), with a 2 hour minimum and 15 minute billing increments.

When confirming over text, I was initially told it would be 3 movers. I pointed out that my quote showed 2 movers, and I was told that he made a typo and confirmed it will be 2 movers, not 3. So I agreed to the 2 movers at the $617 3 hours.

The move took 2 hours and 45 minutes.

Items moved:

6-piece sectional

TV + TV stand

Large coffee table

Outdoor couch + coffee table (lightweight)

1 wardrobe box

Christmas tree

Lightweight bed frame

The apartments are 5 minutes apart, both with elevator access.

On the day of the move, 3 movers showed up, but no one explained that this would change the hourly rate or asked for my approval.

The final invoice lists 2 movers, but at a rate of $225/hr instead of $150/hr, with a total around $727.

I emailed the company to dispute it, and the company responded saying:

the estimate was non-binding

billing is based on total man hours

I signed agreeing to possible additional movers

They also said they won’t formally review my claim unless I pay the full balance first.

So far, I’ve only been charged the $50 deposit and not the remaining balance.

My main question isn’t about the time, it’s about the rate change. I was never told the hourly rate itself would increase.

Is it normal for moving companies to change the hourly rate like this without explaining it beforehand? And is it standard to require full payment before reviewing a dispute?

I never approved for 3 movers nor did they tell me they were sending someone, did not ask me if I was okay with this and if there will be a difference charge.