partner is freaked out about birth

to preface this, i agree with him, lol. i am TERRIFIED to give birth. watching videos of it makes me feel absolutely sick. we’re both very sensitive to things like this. he has told me he doesn’t know if he will be able to watch, and i get that and i don’t blame him. its not coming from an “ew that’s gross” place, its more like “this is really intense and i might lose consciousness”.

with that being said, i almost… don’t want him in the room with me lol? i feel like he’s going to pass out or something and it’s just going to add to my stress. i feel like he would get demonized for that, though. i also don’t want ANYONE in the room with me though (besides medical providers). the thought of being exposed like that is extremely uncomfortable for me. i know it’s different when it’s actually happening, but i know myself and i know my boundaries. i would never be able to have my mom or sisters or anyone in the room. has anyone ever gone at it alone? did you regret it?

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u/sockyourknocksoff — 1 day ago

my sibling and i both felt an “evil” feeling/presence at a house when we were younger

i’ve never been able to explain this very well but I’ll try my best. when we were younger we used to get babysat at a family friend’s house. it was out in the country, a very old farmhouse built sometime in the 1800’s. there was nothing wrong with the house other than it was quite cluttered and just very old. we would go there a couple times a week while our parents were at work, i think it was from when i was about 3 years old until about 6 or 7. my sister was a couple years older than me. i remember, even though I was obviously way too young to be able to form this opinion, any time I was there I just felt… scared. terrified. uneasy. I always felt like someone was watching me and the best way I can explain it is, I just felt like I knew in my bones that something bad had happened at that house or on that property. what little kid that young would think that? i was a very sheltered child, religious, not allowed to watch anything remotely scary, I just don’t know why I would have had that feeling. but I did.

fast forward to adulthood, that house got brought up in random conversation, and it turns out my sister also felt that way about it when she was a child too. how is that possible? even thinking about that house now puts my stomach in knots. we no longer speak to this family so I haven’t been back there since my childhood, but yeah. I’ve always been curious to hear opinions on it.

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u/sockyourknocksoff — 1 month ago

why do they share everything…

ok maybe it’s just me bc the thought of sharing dishes/utensils with anyone severely grosses me out. but why are they all eating out of the same bowl, and I’d assume the same fork?

you can tell if you look closely it’s the same bowl of noodles with each cut. it’s so yucky to me ewwwww 🤢🤢🤢

u/sockyourknocksoff — 1 month ago
▲ 5 r/Depop

is it ok to give out my instagram to a happy buyer?

i sold a gorgeousss fairycore dress and have had the best experience with this buyer, she is so sweet! she just got her package today and loves the dress (yay!!) and she wants to send me pics and I’d LOVE to see them 🥹 is it ok to give her my IG so she can show me? i don’t want to get banned but I don’t see why I would. the only thing holding me back rn is the fact that she bought two dresses from me and might want to return one of them (it was a gift for a friend and she’s not sure if it’ll fit her) but I don’t get the vibe AT ALL that she’s trying to be weird about it, we’ve had so many messages back and forth over the last few weeks and she’s genuinely so sweet. and obv im totally ok with a return of the second dress if needed

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u/sockyourknocksoff — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/Depop

when should i partial refund?

sold a skirt tonight and apparently forgot to put in the description that it’s a little see through. luckily I caught it while I was packaging and I let the buyer know immediately! she still wants it, but I don’t feel right keeping all of her money when that’s not really what she paid for. I’m shipping it out tomorrow (using depop shipping) - when should I do a partial refund? wait until she receives the item?

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u/sockyourknocksoff — 2 months ago
▲ 135 r/Depop

first complaint as a seller :(

guyssss i feel so GUILTY!! I’ve sold 195 items and have 81 reviews, all 5 stars. I’ve never had a complaint until today :(

I sold this cute y2k top and could have SWORN that i put “sheer” in the description but i guess not. this girl sent an offer, I accepted, and then she bought it and I shipped it out next day. great.

well today she sent a message saying she got it but she wants to send it back bc it’s totally see through (it def is) and that if she had known that she would have never bought it. i replied and apologized for forgetting to put that in the description, and let her know she can start the return process with depop. I haven’t heard back yet. im so upset w myself bc i always post super descriptive notes on every single item that i list.

omg i just feel so bad! i hate icky sellers that do things like this to people and i NEVER want to be that person :( so girl if you’re in here I promise im so sorry and plz start the return so i can give your money back ugh💔💔💔

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u/sockyourknocksoff — 2 months ago
▲ 10 r/75HARD

had to restart after making day 38. now on day 39 of my 2nd round, and losing interest

like the title says. I made it to day 38 and got extremely ill, landed in the hospital. ended up missing 4 days because of that so restarted on may 17 which is the first day I felt semi ok. its going fine but I just feel so defeated. my body is over it. i’m in so much pain, im sleeping terribly, have constant headaches and just feeling icky all of the time. idk what im doing wrong. since my initial challenge’s start date (4/06/26) I’ve only lost 13lbs. i dont really see a difference in progress photos. is it normal for it to get THIS difficult?

u/sockyourknocksoff — 2 months ago

im so sick of this pdf making money off of his despicable behavior.

i wish there was some way to raise this to tiktoks attention or literally anyone that could do anything about it. this is fucking disgusting. it’s clear that the *few* supporters they have are supporting them for ONE REASON AND ONE REASON ONLY. absolutely fucking sickening. like can we write a petition to get this man banned forever. he has admitted to everything and tiktok is an accomplice at this point.

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u/sockyourknocksoff — 2 months ago

did people miss what p said about s almost knocking the cup over?

i’ve not been watching the last few nights (I don’t watch their lives directly, btw). but I was just scrolling tt and someone posted a clip where s was trying to sit down and accidentally bumped her Stanley almost knocking it over and p said “watch your big ass” and I haven’t seen it mentioned here ?? i’ll delete if it’s already been talked about

but WHAT THE FVUCKKKK????? even if he wasn’t the disgusting freak we know he is and he was just a NORMAL father, that is so incredibly fucking rude and hurtful??? why would you comment on your daughters body, ever???? esp bc he loves to yell at viewers for body shaming her. but it’s ok for him to do it??? nasty nasty nasty!!!!!

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u/sockyourknocksoff — 2 months ago
▲ 117 r/vinted

vinted is cheaper than in-person thrifting at this point

i just got back home from my regular Saturday thrift trip and boy what a crazy realization this is. I just spent almost $9 on one tshirt at the thrift store and then came home and scrolled on vinted and bought a WAY cuter (and vintage!!!) top for about $6.

can vinted keep this free shipping thing forever plz 🩷

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u/sockyourknocksoff — 2 months ago

PLEASE tell me this is not a cockroach???

my bf just came inside from golfing and was home for a few minutes and then felt this bug crawling on his leg so we’re pretty sure he brought it from outside but omg please put my mind at ease.

u/sockyourknocksoff — 2 months ago

F/29/5’2” [194lbs > 187lbs = 7lbs] (32 days) 75 hard challenge, body is changing like crazy

not even halfway done. so excited to see the final results!

u/sockyourknocksoff — 3 months ago

like the title says, this is my first ever attempt at the 75 day hard challenge and i’m loving it so far. the scale didn’t move at all until day 25 then i lost 4lbs! i had a bunch of people telling me it was because I wasn’t in a deficit and even though I knew I was, it did really get to me and made me question my sanity for a bit. turns out, my body just loves holding onto water as long as it possibly can lol. so glad i didn’t listen to the demons in my head telling me to quit.

last year i lost 50lbs and then gained about 20lbs back after getting comfortable. never again. i’ve officially lost those 20lbs again and have another 39 to go till my goal weight!

u/sockyourknocksoff — 4 months ago

from a local bbq spot, I don’t eat even close to the whole thing but I’m on a strict deficit so trying to plan my day around it lol

u/sockyourknocksoff — 4 months ago