u/starss_uni

Comecei a usar esse ano, me fez muito bem e muito mal por conta de alguns seres que conheci aqui

Sinto que é completamente necessário na minha vida (o que é uma grande idiotice), e vejo o Reddit como algo super produtivo e intelectual por eu apenas entrar em comunidades do tipo.

Estou me sabotando muito e sempre à espera da mensagem de uma pessoa aqui…

Me deem motivos para desinstalar por favor kkk

Pra mim é minha rede social preferida agora, e eu queria usar pra sempre, mas não tá me fazendo bem, sei lá

E outros lugares como campo e salas de aula?

It can be any type of app, games and also social applications

I’m a very sensitive person, and I tend to get attached to people really quickly and intensely. A lot of the time, I end up feeling overlooked or unimportant in friendships and relationships in general.

Would it be healthier for me to put most of my emotional energy into hobbies, personal projects, and subjects I enjoy studying instead of investing so much into people?

I’m thinking maybe I should only emotionally invest in my family and a few really close people, while treating everyone else more casually, still being kind and respectful, of course. And if someone genuinely becomes a close friend over time, then I’d open up more.

Is it possible to live like this without constantly getting emotionally attached to people?

Conheço uma pessoa que tem e gostaria de entender melhor

Preciso muito de um círculo social, e aqui não tem hobbies desse estilo, sou mt ruim no xadrez, mas gosto muito e quero melhorar

Vale a pena juntar algumas pessoas? E qual dinâmica de aprendizado vocês recomendam?
Seria um clube gratuito

It may have been through the computer or cell phone, this person had access to both

There was also a threat that after a Wi-Fi exchange the person could see/access something from the other relatives' devices

How to check on the pc and cell phone to know if I haven't been cloned, hacked, if the person is not seeing everything I do?

It could just be a fallacy, I intend to find out

Pode ter sido pelo computador ou celular, essa pessoa teve acesso aos dois

Teve uma ameaça também que após uma troca de Wi-Fi a pessoa conseguia ver/ter acesso a algo dos dispositivos dos demais parentes

Como verificar no pc e celular pra saber se não fui clonada, hackeada, se a pessoa não tá vendo tudo o que eu faço?

Pode ser só falácia, pretendo descobrir

Recently, I met someone I thought I had a real friendship with

In the beginning, he treated me like I was someone special and rare, and said we had a deep connection. But later, he started liking me in a conditional way, treating me with disrespect and insignificance.

He said that what he used to say at the beginning felt true to him at the time, but that he had idealized me too much, even though I told him several times not to do that.

I removed an online friend from the app where we used to talk after he really devalued me, I felt very bad and he knows it, so I unfriended him on Discord and left the group we were both in. But he still has my contact on another app and didn’t message me.

Is this ghosting or not?🫠

I didn’t want to make him feel ignored, I just left on impulse because he made me feel like trash, he used really horrible words against me.

He said he regrets having become my friend but that he would continue for convenience, so I just withdrew in silence

I removed an online friend from the app where we used to talk after he really devalued me, I felt very bad and he knows it, so l unfriended him on Discord and left the group we were both in. But he still has my contact on another app and didn't message me.

Is this ghosting or not?😭

I didn't want to make him feel ignored, I just left on impulse because he made me feel like trash, he used really horrible words against me.

He said he regrets having become my friend but that he would continue for convenience, so I just withdrew in silence

When a man (friend) gives you so many reasons to leave through his actions and behavior, and you just walk away after a heavy conversation where someone you cared about really hurt you, but you don’t explain much because the reason feels obvious, and you don’t tell him everything you felt or all the ways he hurt you, even though it might help him do better with the next person, is that emotional irresponsibility?

“Speak or die,” and I’m honestly scared I’ll choose silence over speaking.

I feel awful keeping everything inside, like there’s a knot in my throat, and the only thing listening is the pages of my journal, and he didn’t even come after me.

Should I go back and express myself, or is staying away a healthier boundary and a form of self respect?

When a man (friend) gives you so many reasons to leave through his actions and behavior, and you just walk away after a heavy conversation where someone you cared about really hurt you, but you don’t explain much because the reason feels obvious, and you don’t tell him everything you felt or all the ways he hurt you, even though it might help him do better with the next person, is that emotional irresponsibility?

“Speak or die,” and I’m honestly scared I’ll choose silence over speaking.

I feel awful keeping everything inside, like there’s a knot in my throat, and the only thing listening is the pages of my journal, and he didn’t even come after me.

Should I go back and express myself, or is staying away a healthier boundary and a form of self respect?