Commuting versus moving?

I’m looking for some guidance/perspectives. Currently live in Portland with my parents and this next year will be my last at PCC before I transfer to OSU to complete my BA in Marine Bio.

I’m wondering whether it would be doable to commute from P-town, or if moving to Corvallis would be more sensible. I’m not bothered by the drive, I enjoy driving more than the average person, and my car is fantastic on gas.

Moving would be the most obvious choice, but I’m unemployed currently and the job market is trash so I’m concerned I wouldn’t be able to afford it. I have savings and FAFSA, but they’re both limited resources. Additionally, i have an elderly cat I can’t leave behind, and my parents are both in their 60’s and my dad has very recently had some health complications and I worry about them living alone at this point.

I’m also a first generation student, so I’m not familiar with how the larger universities operate in regard to classes and scheduling, especially for a major such as mine.

TL;DR: Is it feasible to commute from somewhere like Portland? If you’ve done it, what was your experience like?

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u/the_king_lobo — 1 day ago
▲ 45 r/missing

Missing Person - New Orleans, LA

UPDATE: Brandy contacted us this morning and she is safe! Thank you all for your help and for looking out!

My sister lives in New Orleans and myself and the rest of my family are in Portland. We haven’t heard from her in almost 2 months, the most recent post on social media I’ve seen from her was July 13th. This isn’t unusual for her, but there’s other circumstances at play that have us concerned for her safety.

We can’t get a hold of her, her partner has been MIA, and nobody she’s usually in contact with seems to know anything.

Her name is Brandy but she also goes by Mishka or “Sunrise Circuit”. She’s white, rather tall and thin, and her hair is dark at the roots with blonde ends. She takes her dog with her practically everywhere, his name is Panda (he has greyed in the face since these pictures were taken). My sister has 3 piercings in her lower lip, a tattoo of a platypus skeleton on her right forearm, and some miscellaneous tattoos on her legs including infinity symbols. She lives in the Marigny/Bywater area, but we’re not sure of what other areas she frequents.

We just want to know she’s safe. The case number is H-12324-26
If you see her, please contact NOPD.

u/the_king_lobo — 9 days ago
▲ 80 r/AskNOLA

Missing Person

UPDATE: Brandy contacted us this morning and she is safe! Thank you all for your help and for looking out!

Mods, feel free to delete if this is not allowed.

My sister lives in NOLA and myself and the rest of my family are in Portland, which is why I’m coming here. We haven’t heard from her in almost 2 months, the most recent post on social media I’ve seen from her was July 13th. This isn’t unusual for her, but there’s other circumstances at play that have us concerned for her safety.

We can’t get a hold of her, her partner has been MIA and nobody she’s usually in contact with seems to know anything.

Her name is Brandy but she also goes by Mishka or “Sunrise Circuit”. She’s white, rather tall and thin, and her hair is dark at the roots with blonde ends. She takes her dog with her practically everywhere, his name is Panda and he’s black and white spotted like a cow. My sister has 3 piercings in her lower lip, a tattoo of a platypus skeleton on her right forearm, and some miscellaneous tattoos on her legs including infinity symbols.

We just want to know she’s safe. The case number is H-12324-26
If you see her, please contact NOPD.

Edit to add: she lives in Marigny/Bywater. She has some mental health issues so she’s rather “eccentric” to put it simply, and so she doesn’t really share information about where she hangs out or the people she spends time with, even when asked.

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u/the_king_lobo — 9 days ago
▲ 895 r/CATHELP

Why does she bite me??

EDIT: To address some things in a way everyone will more easily see: She is not overstimulated. I know it may look that way, but she does not become easily overstimulated and when she does, she will nip or paw at me to tell me to back off. She came up onto my bed, was laying down, and the first video is maybe 5 minutes into her being up there. She goes directly to biting, and she is biting hard. It’s not a warning or her telling me to back off.

As far as her being in pain: again, she sees her vet regularly and as needed for specific concerns. She’s a senior lady with mobility issues. Her vet is aware of her head tremor - she’s had it for as long as I’ve had her. I don’t pick her up because she hates it, her teeth are very healthy, and she loves being brushed everywhere, including her face. I do not believe pain is a factor with this behavior.

And I am not shoving my fingers/hand in her face to annoy her or to be mean - it is to show the difference in behavior when she’s on my bed versus anywhere else. I posted a second video in the comments - normally when I hold my hand up, she will rub her face against my hand. On my bed, she only bites me.

ORIGINAL: This is Bella, she’s been with me since she was about 12 weeks old, and this November she’ll be turning 14 years old. She’s spayed, has no other history of behavioral issues, sees a vet regularly. We suspect she had a stroke back in 2023, but she recovered well and has been medically fine ever since.

She’s a perfect little angel (literally) and always has been. But within the last year or so she’s started biting my hands when I’m petting her, but it specifically happens ONLY in my bed. Absolutely nowhere else does she do this, only in my bed. I can’t figure out why this started. My only thought is that maybe I move too much in my sleep, or I accidentally hit her? Maybe it’s just because she’s getting older so she’s getting more particular about affection? I’m just wondering if anyone else maybe has any possible ideas as to why this started, and any ideas to get her to hopefully stop would be helpful, as well.

She doesn’t sleep with me every night, but I never kick her off the bed either. She usually has free choice between my bed, my desk chair, any of her own beds, and her usual spots on the floor.

u/the_king_lobo — 20 days ago

Horse riding lessons for adults in/around Portland? 🐴

Title is pretty self explanatory. I have some basic experience but I haven’t been around horses in about a decade and I’d just like to be able to be around them again, maybe while gaining some more experience in the saddle.

Not picky about discipline (English, western, whatever works), and I’m not looking to compete or anything. Just want to ride for the fun of it and wondering is anyone knows of any people/places that may be a good option. 🙂

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u/the_king_lobo — 28 days ago

I think we’re becoming cat magnets

Posted a while ago about finding a snowshoe kitten in a park (whom we kept and named Juniper) and I think we’re unintentionally becoming cat magnets.

One neighbor just had a neighborhood cat give birth in his yard two days ago, and then just a couple hours ago a different neighbor was walking their dog and found this box of 5 kittens dumped next to a free pile.
(Four in the box; the boy I’m holding is number 5 and was notably smaller than the others and likely a runt or from another litter)

Unfortunately we couldn’t keep them (we have 3 and just spent $131 on prescription food for my senior girl just today 💀*)* so they went to a local emergency vet. They’ll keep them overnight, then they’ll get transferred to the county shelter in the morning where they’ll go into foster care before getting adopted out.

I’ve always wanted a brown tabby though, so of course it’s just my luck that we find TWO of them just after hitting our limit on cats 😭 But hopefully they find good homes who will take good care of them

Edit: I should say that if you’re in Portland, OR, they should be available for adoption through the Multnomah County shelter once they’re old enough! If by any wild chance someone in this sub adopts one of these kids, I would love to see an update ❤️

u/the_king_lobo — 1 month ago

Looking for Hot Sauce Recipe?

I’m growing Jalapeños for the first time and trying to figure out what to do with them and I thought I’d try to make some hot sauce, so I’m wondering if anyone here has a go-to recipe they really enjoy?

Any other recommendations on what to do with the peppers are also welcome 🙌

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u/the_king_lobo — 1 month ago

S4E22 - THE Bad Episode & body language

Re-watching the series for the umpteenth time and I'm currently on that episode everyone loathes and I've always been aware of this but curious if anyone else has thoughts regarding this.

Obviously Dean follows Rory inside like a lost puppy, and they start to talk, but something I've always noticed in this scene is the body language between the two of them. Rory doesn't look at him, nor does she touch him at first. However, Dean tends to be a little more imposing, not just because of his height, but he is the one who closes the space between Rory and himself, and he's the first one to initiate physical touch.

Rory does ask questions and wonders if it's really over between him and Lindsey - again, without ever looking up at him during this time, she's focused on the floor or their shoes. She's not exactly saying no, but the more I re-watch this scene, the more it feels like she's trying to talk herself out of it but ultimately fails for whatever reason - be it her own desires or Dean's subtle pressuring, both verbally and physically.

I'm curious if anyone has any differing thoughts about whether you think the body language was intentional or coincidental. Do you think it was meant to portray Rory as being apprehensive and Dean being a little more persuasive? Or perhaps it's because Rory tends to appear more passive than anything, and may not be comfortable with saying no?

^((Please know that I am not trying to imply that Dean harrassed/assaulted Rory - I'm simply curious if anyone has any thoughts on this scene. If you think the body language amounts to that, I would absolutely love to hear your thoughts on why! This is meant to be a discussion!))

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u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago

Toasting Update: 5 weeks vs. 10 weeks

He’s growing and toasting so quickly, how do I slow him down? 😭❤️🥺

u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/AskVet

Reaction to FVRCP vaccine?

Species: Cat
Age: 1 and 1/2 years
Sex: Female, spayed
Weight: ~7lbs.

My cat got her last FVRCP vaccine on June 17th, she initially seemed fine the day of. They administered it into her left hind leg.

The following day she was mildly lethargic, and favoring the leg in which she received the vaccine. She was still eating, drinking, and using her litterbox just fine, but wouldn’t jump up onto her cat tree or any of her favorite perches, she was preferring to lay on the floor and wouldn’t let me or anyone else touch her leg.

We called the vet to let them know, they said just to watch and see if it got worse, and to bring her back if it did.

I noticed that her leg appeared slightly swollen, but wasn’t positive because she wouldn’t even let me brush my fingers over the fur, leg alone feel her leg. She was still lethargic the next day, but then seemed to be feeling better by Friday the 19th and she’s started running around and jumping up into her favorite spots again.

However, I was finally able to pick her up today (June 20th) and feel her leg, and it definitely feels slightly swollen in comparison to her right (particularly her paw and pads felt clearly different in size), but she’s not super painful and she’s acting like her normal self again.

Is it normal for reactions to take this long to go down, or should we be concerned that it’s taking this long?

*Edited to add: this is the very first time she’s ever had an obvious reaction to any vaccine, we’ve had her since she was about 12 weeks old.

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u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago

Spotted today in Portland

This was the best picture I could get, they turned off the same time the truck did

u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/USPS

Assistant Rural Carrier (ARC) as a college student?

I've been applying to tons of places around me but in the last 2 years, I've only had 2 interviews. Part of the problem is that I can't find anything that is part time and would work with my schedule (I have to be on campus 2-3x a week).

Obviously there are no classes on weekends or major holidays, so I figured this position would be a good fit. Would a position as an ARC be doable as a college student?

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u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago

First try at embroidery 🪡

My mom found me this blank jean jacket and I’m in school for marine biology, so naturally I had to start adding whales to it. 🐋 this is just the first of many more to come, not sure what I’ll be adding to the back panels just yet

I cross stitch so it’s not entirely new to me, but it’s definitely different! Any advice is welcome, especially considering the fabric I’m using.

u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago

Juniper Update

The little boy from the park just got his first vaccines and dewormer on Tuesday and I think it’s made him even more of a tiny little demon

Absolutely full of piss and vinegar at all hours of the day.
Unfortunately they couldn’t do a triple snap test yet (vet worried about a false negative because of his age) so he’s stuck in quarantine until the 30th and still can’t meet his sisters quite yet

u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago
▲ 4 r/PCC

Crows at Cascade

Just to make folks aware, I was walking west on Killingsworth towards Albina about 11:30am and I got swooped by the same crow two times (no contact, just brushed through my hair). I’m assuming it had a nest/fledgling nearby because it left me alone after I crossed Albina.

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u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago

Help determining year?

Long story short: this was my grandpas truck. My cousin got it (we don’t talk), grandpa passed several years ago now, and neither of my parents recall the exact year of the truck

It’s a Chevy Scottsdale but beyond that i don’t know anymore specifics. It’s all still stock as far as I can tell (aside from the wheels, lift, and front bumper).

u/the_king_lobo — 2 months ago

First time snowshoe parent

Welcome Juniper!

He was found alone in a local park and my mom couldn’t resist bringing him home. We’ve never had a cat of this color before, we’ve always been a staunchly brown/grey/black tabby household but this little dude has officially broken that streak.

We already have two other cats, but they’re not allowed to interact until his vet appointment. As seen in the last picture, that doesn’t stop them from staring.

u/the_king_lobo — 3 months ago

Little baby found alone in the park (mine now 😈)

Barely 5 weeks and he was found alone in the park, according to the woman who found him. We just adopted a kitten over a year ago so we weren’t expecting to get another so soon, but my mom is a sucker lol (he was also found on my dad’s birthday).

Looked all over the park yesterday to see if there were any more, but it’s quite a large park and it’s not exactly the best place for kittens (surrounded by natural/wildlife areas and therefore predators) so unfortunately, we didn’t find any others or any sign of a mom. 😕

Super sweet, super cuddly, and currently wrapped in a towel asleep in my lap because he’s in the Poopy Butt stages (see last picture for his feelings on getting his booty washed 3 times a day). Took a few days to decide on a name, but his name is now officially Juniper!

u/the_king_lobo — 3 months ago
▲ 1 r/AskVet

5 week old kitten - proper feeding schedule?

Species: Cat
Sex: Presumed female (intact)
Age: Approximately 5 weeks
Symptoms: Appears quite thin for a 5 week old (ribs & hips protruding noticeably) but seems otherwise healthy
Location: Found alone in a park in Oregon (someone else found her before my mom offered to take her)

Basically the above info is all we know so far, we just brought her home today. We have two other cats, so she is being kept separate until her vet appointment (earliest appt. was June 8th).

She’s alert and wiggly and playful, no discharge or injuries, just seems rather thin for a kitten of her age. We’re currently feeding her small portions of wet kitten food every 4 hours, and I’m just wondering if this is enough? I’ve never cared for a kitten quite this young before, so I want to make sure she’s getting what she needs. She has teeth, can she eat kibble at this age or should we stick with wet food for now?

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u/the_king_lobo — 3 months ago

Little girl found alone in a park, help me name her!

Bonus points go to names that are food or baking related
(I have another kitten who was named Bread at the shelter, and I elongated it to Shortbread)

u/the_king_lobo — 3 months ago