thoughts on mack and mia?

thoughts on mack and mia?

i might be a little late to this but.... i just heard abt this black lesbian couple that posts content on tiktok through a yt video that i was watching earlier, and i found out that they're ending their 9 year relationship bc they "found jesus."

it doesn't make sense to me, like none of it makes sense. i genuinely feel like there's something much deeper going here especially since the femme in the relationship (mia) was apparently straight before getting with the stud (mack) so like??? also why would you willingly screw up a 9 year relationship for a male deity that barely views women as human beings?? i say this as a person who was raised up in christianity (now agnostic but i still go to church unfortunately), if god is such a loving god and he loves all of his children, wouldn't he love them regardless of their sexuality? why should god's love for his children be conditional?

any thoughts?

u/tirolini โ€” 5 days ago
โ–ฒ 31 r/locs

would 6 months be a reasonable time to grow out my hair and restart?

hi guys! i was in this subreddit for a while posting my locs until i decided to make my leave (quietly) from this community after i cut my locs off... but lately i've been thinking abt getting them back again ๐Ÿ˜… i had a very strong attachment to my locs when i had them (ended up cutting them off due to thinning), and i knew i was going to restart at some point, but the need to restart had gotten a lot stronger lately.

with that being said, would 6 months be a reasonable time for my hair to grow back from a buzzcut? i never really cared abt the length of my hair, just so long as i have enough hair to get my locs back in my head.

u/tirolini โ€” 17 days ago
โ–ฒ 46 r/ACForAdults

I USED TO PRAY FOR TIMES LIKE THIS

okay, so a few months ago i made a post on here abt my disdain for monty (mostly bc he was a fill-in islander and i wasn't able to find a new one in time from when cole had left previously) and i was told to "love bomb" him so that he'll leave sooner... and LO AND BEHOLD AFTER MONTHS OF SUCKING UP TO HIM, HE FINALLY TELLS ME HE WANTS TO GO!! i wasted NO time encouraging him to gtfo my island, plus i found an islander that i ACTUALLY WANTED to replace him!!! :DDD

jfc i don't actually hate monty lol, he's just not my cup of tea ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿพ

u/tirolini โ€” 22 days ago
โ–ฒ 21 r/blackgirls

are black female celebrities less likely to fall victim to skinny culture?

omg bro it's like 2am rn and i had a raging thought.

i came across an uncanny tiktok of a variety of nonblack female celebrities who have had a drastic (or more noticeable) change in their weight over time. like every single one of them went from skinny to skin and fuckin bones (like i can literally count the bones in ariana grande's neck now...), but i don't seem to have noticed that kind of significant change in any of the black female celebrities that are hot now, and it had me wondering:

are black female celebrities less likely to fall victim to skinny culture, or is there less of a desire to be thin in black women than nonblack women?

idk you guys, lmk what yall think. i might delete this in the morning but i really needed to let this one out ๐Ÿ˜…

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u/tirolini โ€” 1 month ago
โ–ฒ 264 r/blackgirls

non-religious black girls

are there any black girls in here that aren't christian/non-religious? like, the older i get, the less i feel inclined to tell people that i'm a christian, because honestly? i'm not even sure if god even exists, nor do i really care about god's existence anymore, and to make matters worse, i recently came to a discovery that i'm sapphic. i don't have any plans to tell my family either, since they're homophobic. i know i'm only 19 and things can definitely change for me in the future, but i've been questioning god's existence for a while now, and have been considering deconstructing my faith.

is anybody else in a similar boat? how was your experience growing up in a religious environment? do you still identify as a christian or a religious person?

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u/tirolini โ€” 1 month ago
โ–ฒ 114 r/ACForAdults

kidd is sick of my ass ๐Ÿ’€

i was trying to test the flourish emote on him and failed ๐Ÿ˜ญ still love him tho

u/tirolini โ€” 1 month ago
โ–ฒ 1.2k r/blkgrlbeauty

posting my bald head here ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿฝโ€๐Ÿฆฒ๐Ÿฉท

i never knew this subreddit existed! hi guys!! :D

u/tirolini โ€” 2 months ago

gay awakenings through media

am i the only one that didn't experience a gay awakening through media as a child? like sure, the girls in the media that i consumed as a child made me feel butterflies as i got older, but not in the way that other queer people describe it. honestly, my gay awakening was back in 2019 thru my first online wlw relationship (it lasted 3 days ๐Ÿ˜ญ), but that's about it lol, not sure if it counts as "media" tho. did anyone else have a similar experience?

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u/tirolini โ€” 2 months ago
โ–ฒ 1 r/Stretched

10g septum jewelry suggestions

hey guys! i'm getting my septum pierced at a 10g soon, and i wanted to know where else to shop for jewelry at that size (other than baf, ubj, and etsy). any suggestions?

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u/tirolini โ€” 2 months ago

any advice on how to do my own makeup looks? (photos are for reference)

hello everyone! i'm very new to makeup and i have very little experience with it (other than mascara, eyeliner, and lip combos), and i wanted to come here and look for some advice. i've been wanting to get into makeup since my aunt did this look on me for my senior prom, but i'm not sure where to start. if anyone can provide me with any information on what products to purchase (mostly concealer, foundation, and highlighter) along with which shades would go better with my complexion, that would be really helpful. any other additional suggestions would be greatly appreciated! ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿพ

u/tirolini โ€” 2 months ago
โ–ฒ 267 r/Naturalhair

dyed my hair pink a few days ago ๐Ÿฉท

lwk wasn't feeling it at first but it's growing on me ๐Ÿ™ƒ will def dye my hair pink again in the future

u/tirolini โ€” 2 months ago
โ–ฒ 258 r/tattooadvice

designing a tattoo inspired by henna? can i do this?

hii! i just wanted to know if it's possible for me to design a tattoo based off of a henna design? definitely not like the designs i posted here to avoid copying others but maybe something similar to any of these? would it be offensive in any way? should i do more research before i start designing?

jfc i wanted the tattoo to be a sort of small design on my upper arm since i rarely wear sleeveless shirts, thanks in advance ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ

u/tirolini โ€” 2 months ago
โ–ฒ 1 r/Stretched

need some advice pls

for starters, i have a pretty consistent routine that involves me soaking my plugs in saline solution, removing and drying them completely, then spraying/cleaning my lobes with the same solution, massaging them w jojoba oil for 3-5 mins, then i apply a (very) small amount of oil to the plugs themselves before inserting them back into my ears. i do this daily to prevent smelly ears, but they still don't feel clean enough. sometimes my ears can feel pretty itchy from time to time, and can even start to smell again within hours of cleaning them before. i'm not sure what i'm doing wrong. is it the products? is it my ears? i'm not sure anymore.

need some advice please and thank you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ

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u/tirolini โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 3 r/glasses

smaller frames on a rounder face

i've been looking at some new frames and have been interested in getting thinner/rectangular frames to replace my current ones, but i'm not sure if they'll fit my face shape. i have a pretty round face (imo) and i tend to hide it using bigger frames, but i wanted to try something new for a change.

what do you guys think? is there anyone else with a round face that has frames similar to those in the picture? pls lmk ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ

u/tirolini โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 605 r/Naturalhair

appreciating my cut from last month ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿพ

love love love cutting my hair ๐Ÿฉท it's so much fun

u/tirolini โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 2 r/interviews

hello! i'm scheduled for an interview with walmart on friday for the position of a cashier, and i need some help. this is my second time getting an interview and i'm feeling a bit nervous about it. i already know what kind of attire i need to wear, but i'm afraid my nerves and avoidance of eye contact might ruin my chances of getting this job. can anyone give me advice to help me calm my nerves? anything helps ๐Ÿฅน

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u/tirolini โ€” 4 months ago