Question About Practice

I’m having really bad lower back pain, it’s something that’s flared up a few times over the years and I know I have stenosis. I kind of know that my recent pain is probably due to dealing with some major events this past year, depression, and lack of care about posture and walking like I usually do. From past experience, I’ve needed an adjustment or two, and then I have exercises I can do at PT or at home.

I went to a new chiropractor yesterday, and I’m just feeling like it’s scammy. They get great reviews, and people seem very happy. But I also noticed that people go for a long time.

They had a first time visit price that included an x ray and two visits. They didn’t do a thing to help me at all on my first visit, even though I was majorly in visible pain. They took an x ray, talked to me about the pain and history, educated me (salesman-like) about the back, even though I already know all of that, and kept talking about they see hundreds of people and can help with their recommendations. They will follow up with their recommendation on the second visit. He said that they don’t want to do any adjustments without looking at the X-ray first. So I’m stuck over the weekend in continued pain.

(I went to a massage therapist right after to hopefully get at least some actual help.)

I realized they operate on people coming back regularly long term. I can’t afford that, and don’t want that. I asked if it was an option to do the exercises at home, and he looked at me like I was crazy, and said they have payment plans, and it may be anywhere between $800 and $8,000, but they were sure I could afford it with a payment plan.

I’m getting all kinds of red flags. But so many people seem to love this place.

Am I being too skeptical? Is this worth the investment, and I’m just being too negative? Is it normal - or even better - for a chiropractor to operate like this?

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u/txdesigner-musician — 12 days ago

Dream About Ex’s Death

So weird, I wanted to write this down while I remembered it. I dreamed that an ex boyfriend of mine had died, and the aftermath was weird.

In the dream, I was visiting friends when I found out he died. They said there was a funeral/memorial thing that I could go to. I felt weird about going, since it didn’t exactly end well, he did some awful things, including cheating, and his friends haven’t been nice to me since. (Even though I didn’t do anything mean to him, or anything wrong in the relationship. Not even in retaliation - most would have.) But my friend encouraged me, said I should go.

I went, it felt weird. Everyone was praising him. (Which is expected after passing - but he’s also very much in a pedestal IRL.) Somehow I ended up living in his house - which was much nicer in the dream than his actual apartment. It felt more like a mansion. I forget how that happened in the dream - if he had wanted that? And there were two young boys age 5 and under that I ended up taking care of, they were very well-behaved, I was taking care of them and helping them cope. (He doesn’t have sons IRL, I have a teenage daughter.) I kept getting entangled in his old life.

The other weird thing, GQ ended up doing a movie about him. I think it was because he was just so good at managing his persona/public opinion, and targeting billionaire divorcees, that he was lifted up to this level of sainthood. Which is not the truth behind the curtains.

The other weird thing was…through it all, I even sort of warmed back up to him. When we were together I loved him deeply, but what he did absolutely shattered the smoke and mirrors. But during this dream I started to fall for it again myself.

So weird. I hadn’t thought about him in forever, it’s been a few years. I don’t know why this popped up, or what it could mean. It was a very long dream, very vivid and real, and I knew halfway through that I was dreaming, I just kept going with it. I kept thinking to myself, “What a weird dream.”

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u/txdesigner-musician — 12 days ago
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Is something going around?

My daughter is sick. At first it seemed mild, but she’s pretty exhausted, sore throat, runny nose, pale, etc. Is something going around?

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u/oldgreyhouse — 1 month ago

Help/Critique, Wedding Shower Invite

Trying to do something unique for a wedding shower invite. The theme is travel, they both love to travel, and they’re a little older, so it’s been a longer journey to find each other, and they’ll continue together. ❤️

Anyway, I’d love some feedback. I wanted to make planes flying into a loopy lettering. I was trying to make the M and K into a heart. I want to add a slight paper texture to the background, and I’m thinking about re-drawing them again by hand. (Started as sketches but moved to computer.)

Do these look nice enough to be wedding shower invites? Do the M and K read well? Is the heart too much? Any suggestions?

u/txdesigner-musician — 2 months ago

Bastille with Sassafras Swing Set

We are celebrating all things France this Wednesday, July 15, at Under the Volcano! ❤️🇫🇷🎺🎶🥖🥂 We’ll be playing live jazz / swing / French music from the 1920’s-1950’s - it’ll be like stepping back into Midnight in Paris. 🥰 They’ll also have French bites and drinks. Would love to see y’all there!

Under the Volcano
Wednesday, July 15
8 pm • $10 cover
Beret not required - but certainly encouraged

u/txdesigner-musician — 3 months ago

Frio River Access Near Garner

We are planning to go to Garner for one of the dances 🥰 There were no more day passes available, so I’m looking for a place nearby where we can enjoy the river before the dance. Anybody know of a good swimming spot with easy access?

I would even pay a little for a day pass, though I’d prefer free access.

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u/txdesigner-musician — 4 months ago

Tonight! (Thursday)

We’ll be stepping back in time with 1920’s-1940’s “Big Easy” music at Houston’s own The Big Easy! Our music is a fun & original mix of Django (Gypsy) Jazz, Dixieland, Trad Jazz, and more, with a little Western Swing and French thrown in. It’s also great to dance to! Come on out to the Rice Village area and support local music. ❤️

8 pm - midnight.

No cover - which, once you hear these guys, you will see what a steal that is! 🤯

u/txdesigner-musician — 4 months ago

Faucet/Metal Colors

I have to replace certain fixtures and not others. I would love to have some champagne gold/bronze fixtures, but I think in the bathtub it might have to stay brushed nickel. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Is it tacky to have silver tone in the shower/tub, and gold tones for the faucet and mirror?

I have a mostly white room, with bright white tiles and white wall paint. I’m trying a wooden vanity, and thought gold would also help warm the space up. I really like Scandinavian/japanese/spa feel.

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u/txdesigner-musician — 5 months ago

Bathroom Paint

I’m going for a clean, cozy, slightly upscale, slightly vintage look in my bathroom. I love Scandinavian styles and Japanese minimalism, and also vintage French design. It’s a small bathroom with no exterior windows.

Two questions!

  1. I’m debating between Swiss Coffee and White Dove for the walls. The shower tiles I chose are bright white, with a “Snow White” grout. Would one of these work better?

  2. Is there a way to get these exact colors cheaper than purchasing the actual brand? But still have the same quality color?

(These images are from the company’s website, to give an idea of swatch colors and tile color)

u/txdesigner-musician — 5 months ago

Bathroom - paint advice

I’m going for a clean, cozy, slightly upscale, slightly vintage look in my bathroom. I love Scandinavian styles and Japanese minimalism, and also vintage French design. It’s a small bathroom with no exterior windows.

Two questions!

  1. I’m debating between Swiss Coffee and White Dove for the walls. The shower tiles I chose are bright white, with a “Snow White” grout. Would one of these work better?

  2. Is there a way to get these exact colors cheaper than purchasing the actual brand? But still have the same quality color?

(These images are from the company’s website, to give an idea of swatch colors and tile color)

u/txdesigner-musician — 5 months ago

Bathroom - paint advice

I’m going for a clean, cozy, slightly upscale, slightly vintage look in my bathroom. I love Scandinavian styles and Japanese minimalism, and also vintage French design. It’s a small bathroom with no exterior windows.

Two questions!

  1. I’m debating between Swiss Coffee and White Dove for the walls. The shower tiles I chose are bright white, with a “Snow White” grout. Would one of these work better?

  2. Is there a way to get these exact colors cheaper than purchasing the actual brand? But still have the same quality color?

u/txdesigner-musician — 5 months ago

Bathroom - paint advice

I’m going for a clean, cozy, slightly upscale, slightly vintage look in my bathroom. I love Scandinavian styles and Japanese minimalism, and also vintage French design. It’s a small bathroom with no exterior windows.

Two questions!

  1. I’m debating between Swiss Coffee and White Dove for the walls. The shower tiles I chose are bright white, with a “Snow White” grout. Would one of these work better?

  2. Is there a way to get these exact colors cheaper than purchasing the actual brand? But still have the same quality color?

u/txdesigner-musician — 5 months ago

Bathroom - paint advice

I’m going for a clean, cozy, slightly upscale, slightly vintage look in my bathroom. I love Scandinavian styles and Japanese minimalism, and also vintage French design. It’s a small bathroom with no exterior windows.

Two questions!

  1. I’m debating between Swiss Coffee and White Dove for the walls. The shower tiles I chose are bright white, with a “Snow White” grout. Would one of these work better?

  2. Is there a way to get these exact colors cheaper than purchasing the actual brand? But still have the same quality color?

u/txdesigner-musician — 5 months ago
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Small Bathroom Subway Tile

Hi! I’m thinking about using white subway tile for my bathroom. It’s technically the “master,” but it’s pretty small. I want it to look nice and classy, and not feel dated quickly.

Im thinking glossy. Should I go for the slightly textured look, or smooth?

Vertical or horizontal?

u/txdesigner-musician — 5 months ago

Sassafras Swing Set this Saturday

Hey y’all! Sassafras Swing Set is playing this Saturday at Shoeshine Charley’s Big Top Lounge, right next to Continental Club. We play 6:30-8:30 pm, $10 cover.

Our music is 1920’s-1940’s favorites, Gypsy jazz meet’s Dixieland meets New Orleans Hot Jazz, with a few Western Swing and French tunes thrown in. With a great dance space for swing dancing! Come check us out! ☺️❤️🪕🎺🎶💃🏻

u/txdesigner-musician — 5 months ago