u/unkown_sky

I \[19\] im confused about if my bf\[20M\] actually loves me or his with me just because of how ilove him and how can iknow the difference ? we have been tgtr for a year we went trough alot of problems recently but beyond all of them ikeep getting this feeling that he doesnt actually loves me for me but just because of how ilove him and his just scared too lose that but how can iknow what im feeling if its true or not?\] TLDR

im a bit confused about it ,it would help if yall tell me the difference

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1 year and half me and this guy met we had great chemistry we both fell in love and we started dating,and before we became official in our talking stage me and him were very open about our past relationships ,and he told me about an ex he had they dated and were in love and the girl had to go abroad to study he wanted to stay in the relationship but she chose to break up,and that it was very hard on him to fully move on from it .

yesterday me and him were having a conversation about studying abroad and he got mad when i mentioned that i might go abroad to study like something was triggered in him and it happens every time i mention going abroad even if im not serious about it , i love this person so much but even during our relationship i had a feeling that his not fully over someone he dated not just because of this but also from his other actions ,i confronted him about it many times he says that his over his ex and that im just overthinking,i might be overthinking but can you truly get over someone you loved that the only thing that ended your relationship with them is distance ?

i love him very much but i dont wanna be in a relationship with someone knowing that they might still have feelings about someone from their past, or that their just with me because they couldn’t be with that person.

1 year and half me and this guy met we had great chemistry we both fell in love and we started dating,and before we became official in our talking stage me and him were very open about our past relationships ,and he told me about an ex he had they dated and were in love and the girl had to go abroad to study he wanted to stay in the relationship but she chose to break up,and that it was very hard on him to fully move on from it .

yesterday me and him were having a conversation about studying abroad and he got mad when i mentioned that i might go abroad to study like something was triggered in him and it happens every time i mention going abroad even if im not serious about it , i love this person so much but even during our relationship i had a feeling that his not fully over someone he dated not just because of this but also from his other actions ,i confronted him about it many times he says that his over his ex and that im just overthinking,i might be overthinking but can you truly get over someone you loved that the only thing that ended your relationship with them is distance ?

i love him very much but i dont wanna be in a relationship with someone knowing that they might still have feelings about someone from their past, or that their just with me because they couldn’t be with that person.