u/whatsupitsike

hey guys i have a question - sorry for the longer explanation
so i recently went through a breakup and nothing bad happened, just that when she moved back home she kinda became a different person than when she was on her own which led to the breakup.
i want her back eventually but i think she and us both need some time alone before we reconnect, and i think and what ive been told is that she needs to miss me to realize what she needs to change (she didn’t realize at the breakup when i told her, so she knows what to change) and that by missing me we will eventually get back together and we could be what we once were at the beginning of our relationship.
however, question is on instagram, she just posted for the first time after the breakup. she’s liked and commented (and deleted since) on some stories of mine afterwards but i haven’t done anything because ive been told that it needs to be zero contact for her to miss me.
but she just posted for the first time and im wondering if keeping no contact will make her miss me or if i should like it.
wondering your guys thoughts on this whole situation.
thanks

TLDR: do you maintain zero contact after a good breakup so she will miss me so she can fix what was wrong because she wants me back?

hey guys this is a strange question but i wondered if anyone has any experience with this.
whenever ive experienced some form of emotional hurt from a girl (getting rejected, seeing a post of my ex for the first time since the breakup (which is what just happened) etc.) i get this strong restless feeling. like all of the sudden everything i do doesn’t seem to be “it”, and it’s not right and i breathe a bit more shallow too.
i don’t know what this is but it’s hard for me to deal with so i hope someone has answers.
thanks guys, i appreciate it.

hey guys this is a strange question but i wondered if anyone has any experience with this.
whenever ive experienced some form of emotional hurt from a girl (getting rejected, seeing a post of my ex for the first time since the breakup (which is what just happened) etc.) i get this strong restless feeling. like all of the sudden everything i do doesn’t seem to be “it”, and it’s not right and i breathe a bit more shallow too.
i don’t know what this is but it’s hard for me to deal with so i hope someone has answers.
thanks guys, i appreciate it.

hey guys this is a strange question but i wondered if anyone has any experience with this.
whenever ive experienced some form of emotional hurt from a girl (getting rejected, seeing a post of my ex for the first time since the breakup (which is what just happened) etc.) i get this strong restless feeling. like all of the sudden everything i do doesn’t seem to be “it”, and it’s not right and i breathe a bit more shallow too.
i don’t know what this is but it’s hard for me to deal with so i hope someone has answers.
thanks guys, i appreciate it.

hey all, i need some help on a weird situation. i just went through a breakup (4 month relationship) about a month ago, and I need some advice for where I'm at in life right now.
My personality and the kinda person I am is I struggle a lot with loneliness and really want to love someone and be loved. That's just who I am and makes being single really difficult for me. So I want to move on and meet someone else but I'm in Indiana right now, and am about to move to Texas in August for four months, so meeting someone locally isn't a great idea. The obvious answer would be
"stay single and focus on your relationship with the Lord" for two months, but for me being single and alone is incredibly difficult on me and my mental state and I really hate being alone.
any advice on what I can do in this season?|

hey all, i need some help on a weird situation. i just went through a breakup (4 month relationship) about a month ago, and I need some advice for where I'm at in life right now.
My personality and the kinda person I am is I struggle a lot with loneliness and really want to love someone and be loved. That's just who I am and makes being single really difficult for me. So I want to move on and meet someone else but I'm in Indiana right now, and am about to move to Texas in August for four months, so meeting someone locally isn't a great idea. The obvious answer would be
"stay single and focus on your relationship with the Lord" for two months, but for me being single and alone is incredibly difficult on me and my mental state and I really hate being alone.
any advice on what I can do in this season?|

hey all, i need some help on a weird situation. i just went through a breakup (4 month relationship) about a month ago, and I need some advice for where I'm at in life right now.
My personality and the kinda person I am is I struggle a lot with loneliness and really want to love someone and be loved. That's just who I am and makes being single really difficult for me. So I want to move on and meet someone else but I'm in Indiana right now, and am about to move to Texas in August for four months, so meeting someone locally isn't a great idea. The obvious answer would be
"stay single and focus on your relationship with the Lord" for two months, but for me being single and alone is incredibly difficult on me and my mental state and I really hate being alone.
any advice on what I can do in this season?
thanks so much