u/why_do_i_have_dog

She works very part-time and has a lot of time to watch Netflix. If anyone has recommendations for her based on the list i’d love to hear them (though she may have already seen it with how much she watches lol). List is non-exhaustive.

Sullivan Crossing
The Way Home
The Lodge
Yellowstone/dutton ranch/
I will find you
champagne problems
bridgerton / queen elizabeth

I have a senior (12) aussiedoodle that has panic attacks. He shakes/trembles, often wants to be close to me or my mom, and this can last for hours. It’s normally triggered by noises like a smoke detector needing batteries. I just want to know how to stop the panic attacks while they are happening, like a dog equivalent of “what are 5 things you can see…”

Edit to add: he had been doing this for many years. It’s sporadic so we haven’t put him on anti anxiety medications because of the damage to his liver or something, at least that’s what my mom has said (it’s not about money)

I’m not sure if this is the place to ask

I wanted to start wearing small heels but with PF that doesn’t really sound possible :(

I’m 20F and trying to become more “stylish”

Waiting on custom insoles to come in, but that may not work for a lot of shoes

I (20F) have three adult friends (20F, 21F, 22F) who, when we hang out, do not wear seatbelts in my backseat. This has always irked me but recently after seeing a Tiktok about the dangers of not wearing a seatbelt in the backseat (and checking), this has really reignited the issue for me. I sent a message essentially stating that people in the backseat not wearing a seatbelt makes me uncomfortable and that in the future if they do not wear a seatbelt properly I will ask them to leave my car and find their own way to wear we are going and home.

Logistically, I am the only one who can drive us around.

20F has astigmatism and can't afford glasses, so she can't drive at night. She is also afraid of driving on the highways due to inexperience.

21F does not have her own car and would not always have access to a family car (and I'm not sure if the teenagers can use them for social outings). She is also afraid of driving on the highways due to inexperience.

22F just got her license and is getting more comfortable with driving (on the highways too), but has problems accessing a car. Her family only has one car, which her father needs to get to work once a week, so if the car is severely damaged they are kind of fucked.

With this, I have no problem doing all of the driving. More often than not it is only one person with me because of our busy schedules and sometimes my friends can't get permission (hispanic thing). They have said in the past that not buckling your seatbelt in the backseat is a hispanic thing, but idk.

My brother said that this is a bit controlling, since they are adults and can make their own decisions, and I won't get in trouble in our state for them not having their seatbelts buckled. AITAH?

Edit: wanted to thank everyone for making me feel not crazy and paranoid

I’ve used the CeraVe melting makeup cleanser and it hurts my eye.

Edit: I normally use miceller water but it takes forever and doesn’t always get everything

A stylist + book told me I should only brush my hair when showering when my hair is full of conditioner. Sometimes I go a few too many days in between washes and my hair gets a bit knotted.

Also I have a problem where after it dries after wash my curls are awesome but the day after they lost their shape a bit and are lackluster

just trying to fill out my pokédex. by trade i mean trade and then trade back. I have Nintendo Online.

I encountered 2 Dragonairs and like 4 Dratinis and can’t catch one. I want one really badly just because but I can’t seem to catch them and it’s driving me crazy

I have three good friends at home. At school, I have one friend I don’t see too often, but that’s partially my fault. Otherwise I just go back to my dorm, go on my phone, and do some work. I’ve always been bad at making friends. I may be autistic, who knows. When I was in eighth grade my friend situation was so bad, I quite literally had no friends to the point where nobody outside of my family checked on me when COVID started.

I just don’t really know how to make friends. My friend at school had other friends and I fucked up at a party by getting a little too drunk and a little too physically close to someone I thought was cool and wanted to be friends with, but she thought I was hitting on her. A lot of people got a bad first impression of me.

I’m almost 20, and I’ve never had a boyfriend, have only had one kiss when I was drunk at a mixer with a sorority I wanted to join and embarrassed myself.

Ironically while I have fucked up a few times when I’m drunk I’m a lot more social. Otherwise I generally just wallflower or just don’t go out.

I just never feel like anyone likes me or is interested in being my friend when I interact with them.