u/zeealiciouss

I'm fluent in English and Urdu speaking, Can work on softwares like Ms Office and PowerPoint etc. I can do video Editing, content writing/creation, I'm good with digital art and illustrations and know the basics of graphic designing also. I can also teach students online.

Pretty much as the title suggests. I'm looking for opportunities to earn money during summer and not just rot in bed whole day. I can't do night shifts but I'm looking for any type of side hustle that's offering at least 10k per month. Any suggestions or someone Hiring? I can work as a staff member in any restaurant or stores. I can also do the data entry work or any call centers also. I'm up for even home tutoring or babysitting if anyone's looking for that. any type of side hustle that'll pay me at least 10k or more per month.

PS: From anything i meant A decent side hustle.

I'm fluent in English and Urdu speaking, Can work on softwares like Ms Office and PowerPoint etc. I can do video Editing, content writing/creation, I'm good with digital art and illustrations and know the basics of graphic designing also. I can also teach students online.

I'm craving fruits of any type. apple, mango, strawberry, banana etc Ever since my father left. i haven't had any fruit. I share a good relation with my Sister we've been managing the household together and we have a strong bond but she's managing expenses and even though we have around 5,00,000 (my father left us) she doesn't let us spend it on food or anything. feels like it's been ages since i had a fruit. A few relatives visited last week and they brought banana and mango. But i didn't get a chance to taste that because my brother and sister had them all in 2 days. my sister doesn't let me turn on the fridge saying the units are at peak from 5:00PM-11:00PM and she randomly turns it off during the day also which most of the times results in no cold water or ice and the food like vegetables, rice etc being spoiled. turning the AC on is out of question according to her because it'll cost drastic amount but it's way too hot here, i end up sweating when sleeping even with fan on. there's no milk at home or eggs or simple veggies like cucumber etc. i wanna cry. my sis never listens to me when i ask her at least bring basic groceries at home or let me turn on the Ac. she says it's way too costly but she's willing to pay for her online shopping and ordering food for herself (with her own money which i know she isn't obliged to spend on me or the household) but i feel bad that I'm suffering here like this and she'd rather suffer too than try to bring home something like even vegetables or milk. and she has reduced my allowance to 4k/month. i don't have any thing now. I'm so stressed. if i talk to her about this instead of understanding she gets aggressive and mean and tells me idk how she's managing expenses to keep us alive. which i know is valid and fair. but seeing her using her money recklessly while telling me we can't even afford an apple or 60Rs milk pack it annoys me and shatters my heart. I'm not asking her to spend her money on me I'm simply asking to use what our father left us to get basic groceries. idk what to do. looking for remote jobs suck. I've been trying for months but there's no luck. I made this banner also about tutoring and pasted it outside our main gate which was silly but it didn't work either. i tried looking for students to tutor online but met with only scammers so i no longer trust those academies. nothing's working out for me even though I'm trying so hard. I'm trying to manage university and household matters and I just.. can't anymore.. I'm tired of arguing and worrying and suffering

So, I'm 21F. I've been trying to lose weight since I was 17-18. So, far I see no progress. I'm exactly the same I was before. I haven't gained but I've continuously failed to lose it. I'm 5'2 and my weight is about 60Kg I'm pretty chubby and most of the fat is stored in my upper body. In the past I've tried all sorts of workouts, diets, fasting but I've always found myself repeating the pattern of inconsistency. I've tried walking for years. But I see no change and all that discourages me. I see my pretty lean friends and my sister with such small body and delicate features while I feel like an elephant wherever I go. I've come to realize I lack motivation but at the same time I'm continuously depressed because of how I look. Not a single day goes by without me thinking of how big I am and how I need to change myself. I want to be the main character in my 20s. We all know pretty, good looking girls get all that glory of having a joyful life, friends, and even love. I want to experience all that but I feel I'll never get it because of how big I am. Lately it's been depressing me a lot. It's my summer vacation rn. I decided to start dieting with consistency this summer but I find myself depressed thinking it's too much and why can't I naturally be pretty. Resenting myself. I try to make a change but these thoughts are depressing and holding me back. Most of the times I feel there's no energy in my body. As if I'm forcing myself to be active. It feels heavy to carry myself and my weight. My muscles feel weak and I feel too lazy almost all the time. Maybe it has something to do with metabolism. I really really want to move towards a healthy lifestyle and become someone marvelous and not someone who spend their whole life yearning for things. Everyday, even after a minor task I can't wait to get my body in my bed and just sleep which is also affecting my health a lot. So, I need genuine advice and some sort of help from people who have been through this or who are experiencing it. How do you accomplish what you want when you're so unmotivated and lazy, lacking energy all the time while thinking of all the negative thoughts. How does one make a real change and not just think about it?

So, I don't have parents. And my elder sister is like 3 years older than me. She manages the whole household expenses and all but I support her. A lot. As much as I can. (None of us are earning at the moment) I help her in managing household chores and managing things, cooking etc. usually she's fine with it and even admits that I'm efficient, sensible and active. She appreciates me when we're alone, we both work together when it comes to managing the household. But the moment someone from our relatives calls or our relatives visit us. She starts doing everything alone, and starting to find flaws in things I do in front of everyone, acting as if I'm dumb and a kid and she's managing it all alone. Making me feel small. Sort of taking all the credit. Usually idc but lately since my father passed it's starting to feel annoying making me wonder what's she trying to gain from this. We're sisters. We're usually good but in front of relatives she changes. This habit of hers was always there ever since our mother passed. But I didn't care bcz my father knew me, he recognized my efforts and that's all that mattered. But now he's not with us so.. it hurts. I keep telling myself it's okay. Hopefully in a year or two she'll be married and won't be able to embarrass me like this in front of everyone but there's a little concern what if she continued even after getting married. Or worse what if she never married? Idk why but I'm concerned a lot. Am I evil?

Don't wanna study aggh. Motivate me peeps. I have exam tomorrow at 1:00 Pm!!

I've been dreaming about my parents for 3 days continuously now and it feels so good makes me not want to Wakeup. It's giving me depression, all I want to do is sleep so I can dream and see my parents. But I can't waste my life like that especially when my exams are just around. It's so depressing and idk how to deal with this. I find it hard to get out of bed, forcing sleep sometimes just so I can dream. I'm tired and restless.

I'm 21F and I'm searching for remote part-time opportunities to be able to support myself financially. I've been applying on indeed and made a LinkedIn profile. I'm in 4th sem and atp I feel this need to be a little independent. So, my question is from those students who are somehow earning something through some remote platform. How you guys managed to achieve that? What skill set is required? I'm skilled in Ms Excel, word, PowerPoint, creative/content writing, content creation, I can make illustrations and do some animation as well, a little video editing too but so far these skills are useless and I find myself stuck for months.

I need some guidance. I'm looking for side hustles. Anything literally. Data entry, call center jobs, social media management, e-commerce. Anything. I feel maybe I don't know where to look..

Do share some knowledge people!

Hi, so I'm 21F. I lost my father 3 months ago, my mother left us almost 4 years ago. We're 3 siblings. I'm the youngest. My relationship with my parents was not great but it was good with my father. We had our conflicts but I genuinely loved him and he loved me. My father acknowledged me, and gave value to my opinions and what I have to say. We'd argue sometimes but other times we shared great memories. He was more like a friend to me, with all the banters and our inside jokes, we both understood each other, late night conversations, advising each other, having early morning or late night tea... Kher..

My relationship with my siblings was never great. We all have anger issues and they increased after my mother left. We all were grieving and it was new for us to live without our mother even tho we weren't minors. It was still hard for us. We'd have arguments over literally nothing and then we won't talk to each other for months. Over the time we all developed huge ego. I remember my brother not speaking to me for more than a year. We spoke first time after a year when my father died.

Well.. given I know my siblings very well. I know their nature. I had predicted already how miserable I was gonna be now that my father is gone.

What people think is a privilege feels like a curse to me. I don't think being the youngest is in any way a privilege. Well, now I'm dependent on my siblings, siblings I know don't really care about me. I knew this already. What I didn't expect was that it will hurt so much. There was a tiny hope still that maybe we'll get along well because now we're by ourselves.. So, ever since we returned home after my father's funeral. I've been Trying my best to not annoy my siblings. To take care of the house, cooking, cleaning, making sure they're eating healthy and not speaking back even if they say something that upsets me. I've trying my best to avoid arguments. The arguments I knew very well will happen. And today.. here I am. None of my siblings talking to me. Or caring. I have no friends either. The people I thought are my friends.. they didn't even bother to check up on me and are celebrating things without me, not even asking me to hangout. Anyway, it's not about friends..

The thing about being the youngest in such situations is. It hurts.. yk? Now my sister is managing everything. And it feels weird especially because she's not a warm or easy person, it's hard to ask her for my basic needs.. to ask her literally anything.. and her expressions oh my god. Those expressions makes me wanna dig a hole and disappear. Whenever I try to ask for something as simple as fare for transport or for groceries or something. It feels so pathetic. I mean, I could ask my father for anything literally and it'll take some convincing but he'll provide everything for me and he'd care for my needs, giving me everything without me having to really ask for it. But now.. I see my siblings ordering meals every other day and not caring about me. I can't say anything to them because they're buying with their own Money.. which is fair and totally fine by me.. but the problem is.. there are no groceries at home. Nothing for me to cook and I don't have any source of income, and I'm literally sitting here and thinking what to eat? My sister gives me 4k allowance per month. And I can't spend that on food because I might need it. I'm a university student. So yeah.. a few days ago I had an argument with my sister on 'rice'

I had returned from university and there was nothing to eat at home so I decided to make some boiled rice because they're easy to make and I was already tired, I could eat boiled rice with daal, Just when I was getting started my sister came in and said I should cook brown rice instead and a bigger portion (mind you, I was already cooking enough for the 3 of us) and I told her I'm tired and starving and I think boiled rice will be fine and then is when she got pissed and really mean and I was surprised. Because I was already very tired and hungry I couldn't tolerate her and for the first time since we returned home from that funeral I told my sister to "NOT BE SO RUDE, I'M TIRED AND I'M SIMPLY TRYING TO COOK, SHE'S OVERREACTING" When I said this, I could see her facial expressions which made me more pissed and brought tears to my eyes and I only said "I'VE BEEN TRYING NOT TO ARGUE BUT YOU GUYS ARE NOT HELPING" that is all I said and she literally got so defensive, yelling at me, commenting negatively on my relationship with my father saying I had no manners and, I never respected him so I'll never respect her and what not. All those cruel words she said just because I tried to make her understand and I realized I shouldn't argue anymore so I simply went to my room and cried myself to sleep wondering what right she has to comment on my relationship with my parents as if she herself never misbehaved with them or had fights? With the grief consuming me I fell asleep and since then she has been treating me worse. Not telling me anything about anything regarding the pension documents, there's no cash at home anymore. I used to take daily fare from my mother's wallet for university but after that fight my mother's wallet was empty... I was speechless. I texted my brother to ask my sister for the fare but he doesn't really care. He never cared about what happens in the household and given I'm the youngest and he's the middle child. He has always sided with my sister even when my parents were here. Even when my father was here, my brother never cared about the household matters, he has his business, his girlfriend and his friends and that's all that matters to him. Other than that he just creates a mess thinking we're the servants to clean up after him. So, yeah when I texted him. He said he'll talk to my sister but he never did ofc. I'm glad it's Eid holidays at the moment or I would've been in a very difficult situation. Anyway, back to my sister. We have not been speaking since that fight. And if I ask her anything, she responds with such a tone and attitude that it makes me not want to talk to her at all. And she's so rude. Idk why she thinks she was a saint with my parents and I was evil and now she has a right to simply throw those taunts and accusations at me knowing it will hurt me and it does hurt. Like a lot especially because I'm grieving also. Ik my siblings are grieving too and everyone grieves differently but I am forced to think what my life will be like from now on. It's been only 3 months and I am surprised by the things I had to face, things I never even thought I'll be dealing with. And i have no one to rant to or to talk to.. I've been looking for jobs for months now but no luck.. I.. no longer know what's happening and what will happen.. I'm surprised where life has brought me? And at whose mercy? Ik Allah is with me and that I should be patient and this will all pass but.. I can't help but question how? And what am I supposed to do in such a situation? Aggh.

So, this was all. Me venting.

Hi, so I'm 21F. I lost my father 3 months ago, my mother left us almost 4 years ago. We're 3 siblings. I'm the youngest. My relationship with my parents was not great but it was good with my father. We had our conflicts but I genuinely loved him and he loved me. My father acknowledged me, and gave value to my opinions and what I have to say. We'd argue sometimes but other times we shared great memories. He was more like a friend to me, with all the banters and our inside jokes, we both understood each other, late night conversations, advising each other, having early morning or late night tea... Kher..

My relationship with my siblings was never great. We all have anger issues and they increased after my mother left. We all were grieving and it was new for us to live without our mother even tho we weren't minors. It was still hard for us. We'd have arguments over literally nothing and then we won't talk to each other for months. Over the time we all developed huge ego. I remember my brother not speaking to me for more than a year. We spoke first time after a year when my father died.

Well.. given I know my siblings very well. I know their nature. I had predicted already how miserable I was gonna be now that my father is gone.

What people think is a privilege feels like a curse to me. I don't think being the youngest is in any way a privilege. Well, now I'm dependent on my siblings, siblings I know don't really care about me. I knew this already. What I didn't expect was that it will hurt so much. There was a tiny hope still that maybe we'll get along well because now we're by ourselves.. So, ever since we returned home after my father's funeral. I've been Trying my best to not annoy my siblings. To take care of the house, cooking, cleaning, making sure they're eating healthy and not speaking back even if they say something that upsets me. I've trying my best to avoid arguments. The arguments I knew very well will happen. And today.. here I am. None of my siblings talking to me. Or caring. I have no friends either. The people I thought are my friends.. they didn't even bother to check up on me and are celebrating things without me, not even asking me to hangout. Anyway, it's not about friends..

The thing about being the youngest in such situations is. It hurts.. yk? Now my sister is managing everything. And it feels weird especially because she's not a warm or easy person, it's hard to ask her for my basic needs.. to ask her literally anything.. and her expressions oh my god. Those expressions makes me wanna dig a hole and disappear. Whenever I try to ask for something as simple as fare for transport or for groceries or something. It feels so pathetic. I mean, I could ask my father for anything literally and it'll take some convincing but he'll provide everything for me and he'd care for my needs, giving me everything without me having to really ask for it. But now.. I see my siblings ordering meals every other day and not caring about me. I can't say anything to them because they're buying with their own Money.. which is fair and totally fine by me.. but the problem is.. there are no groceries at home. Nothing for me to cook and I don't have any source of income, and I'm literally sitting here and thinking what to eat? My sister gives me 4k allowance per month. And I can't spend that on food because I might need it. I'm a university student. So yeah.. a few days ago I had an argument with my sister on 'rice'

I had returned from university and there was nothing to eat at home so I decided to make some boiled rice because they're easy to make and I was already tired, I could eat boiled rice with daal, Just when I was getting started my sister came in and said I should cook brown rice instead and I bigger portion (mind you, I was already cooking enough for the 3 of us) and I told her I'm tired and starving and I think boiled rice will be fine and then is when she got pissed and really mean and I was surprised. Because I was already very tired and hungry I couldn't tolerate her and for the first time since we returned home from that funeral I told my sister to "NOT BE SO RUDE, I'M TIRED AND I'M SIMPLY TRYING TO COOK, SHE'S OVERREACTING" When I said this, I could see her facial expressions which made me more pissed and brought tears to my eyes and I only said "I'VE TRYING NOT TO ARGUE BUT YOU GUYS ARE NOT HELPING" that is all I said and she literally got so defensive, yelling at me, commenting negatively on my relationship with my father saying I had no manners and, I never respected him so I'll never respect her and what not. All those cruel words that she said and I realized I shouldn't argue anymore so I simply went to my room and cried myself to sleep wondering what right she has to comment on my relationship with my parents as if she herself never misbehaved with them or had fights? With the grief consuming me I fell asleep and since then she has been treating me worse. Not telling me anything about anything regarding the pension documents, there's no cash at home anymore. I used to take daily fare from my mother's wallet for university but after that fight my mother's wallet was empty... I was speechless. I texted my brother to ask my sister for the fare but he doesn't really care. He never cared about what happens in the household and given I'm the youngest and he's the middle child. He has always sided with my sister even when my parents were here. Even when my father was here, my brother never cared about the household matters, he has his business, his girlfriend and his friends and that's all that matters to him. Other than that he just creates a mess thinking we're the servants to clean up after him. So, yeah when I texted him. He said he'll talk to my sister but he never did ofc. I'm glad it's Eid holidays at the moment or I would've been in a very difficult situation. Anyway, back to my sister. We have not been speaking since that fight. And if I ask her anything, she responds with such a tone and attitude that it makes me not want to talk to her at all. And she's so rude. Idk why she thinks she was a saint with my parents and I was evil and now she has a right to simply throw those taunts and accusations at me knowing it will hurt me and it does hurt. Like a lot especially because I'm grieving also. And i have no one to rant to or to talk to.. I've been looking for jobs for months now but no luck.. I.. no longer know what's happening and what will happen.. I'm surprised where life has brought me? And at whose mercy? Ik Allah Is with me and that I should be patient and this will all pass but.. I can't help but question how? And what am I supposed to do in such a situation? Aggh.

So, this was all. Me venting.