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FYI: Just found out Folate and/or B12 deficiency can cause MCAS-type reactions + fatigue, etc

FYI: Just found out Folate and/or B12 deficiency can cause MCAS-type reactions + fatigue, etc

So I was watching a video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-qrY9ANjujQ&t=1s

Where she talks about how both folate and b12 played a part in her MCAS-type reactions and fatigue. Once she addressed these (quite long-winded, worth a watch) she made a full recovery.

I believe the terms are pernicious anemia - https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/22377-pernicious-anemia

And Cerebral Folate Deficiency - https://rarediseases.org/rare-diseases/cerebral-folate-deficiency/

I'm not saying it is - but it could be as simple as a b-vitamin issue. These aren't always quick to address as you may need specialist forms of the aforementioned type of b vitamins which she talks about in the video.

I'm going to give it a try because I've had good results from Thiamine supplementation but the evidence for folate and b12 issues is quite good for fatigue, breathlessness, neurological issues and even mcas.

You can read about histamine, the MTHFR link and mcas here - https://www.uhhospitals.org/blog/articles/2026/03/understanding-histamine-mthfr-mast-cell-activation-syndrome

u/Komancha — 2 days ago

Breakroom - May 19, 2026 - Happy Birthday to Me! :-)

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u/Gavilon8886 — 2 days ago

Breakroom - May 18, 2026

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u/Gavilon8886 — 3 days ago
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Follow-up: what drains your energy that you didn't expect?

Hi everyone,

I posted here a few weeks ago asking about your experiences with energy crashes. I'm a physician working on a free companion app to help people manage their energy and reduce crashes, and the response to that first post was really helpful. Thank you to everyone who shared.

One thing that keeps coming up in conversations is how personal and unexpected the triggers can be. People are discovering that things like a stressful conversation, small social moment, or even the weather can drain them more than actual physical activity.

I'm curious: have you discovered things that drain or recharge your energy that you didn't expect?

We're continuing to learn as we build this, and if you have 3 minutes, we put together a short questionnaire to better understand crash patterns. Your input would directly shape what we're working on: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSffQkJEye65d0ptoArY19sq2msJnNF8L_mIFg_gxgLJeZpdkg/viewform

No pressure at all. Just grateful for anything you're willing to share.

If you'd like to learn more about what we're working on you can check it here: longcovid.haviohealth.com

Karoline

u/drkarixo — 4 days ago

🌟Weekly Community Challenge: One Thing That Helped Me This Week🌟

Hi, Warriors🤍

It’s time for a new community challenge and this one’s designed to boost connection, give hope, and share real things that helped real people this week. No pressure to write long comments. No pressure to be “doing great.” Just one thing that made your week a tiny bit more manageable.

💬 Question:

What’s ONE thing that helped you this week?

It can be anything:

✨ A supplement.

✨ A symptom hack.

✨ A mindset shift.

✨ A small win.

✨ A food that didn’t cause a flare.

✨ A kind moment.

✨ Something that made you smile.

✨ Or even “I rested and survived the week”

If it helped you, it counts.

💡 Why This Challenge Matters

Sharing these moments helps:

⭐ New people find ideas.

⭐ Everyone feel less alone.

⭐ The community grow stronger.

⭐ You celebrate progress you might’ve overlooked.

You can reply with just one sentence or even one word. Whatever you’ve got today is enough.

❤️ Let’s lift each other up

Drop your “one thing” below. Come back later and support someone else. Even simple comments like “same,” “I needed this,” or an upvote can make someone’s day.

We’re in this together. I can’t wait to read what helped you this week 🌿💚

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u/AutoModerator — 5 days ago

A plea for movement in LC19 research. Intranasal introduction of extracellular vesicles containing anti neuro inflammatory agents in mice succeed in reversing signs of dementia like changes in the brain. Can they function to reduce neuroinflammation of long covid?

Those amazing EVs - extracellular vesicles - are getting into a new scenario no longer in their native circulatory system. Question is whether they can function in a nasal spray to reverse brain fog in LC19 as they purport to do in another brain fog instance. Neurodegeneration shares many commonalities across the span of neuropathology. Nature is invariable in the very basic conduct of chemical reactions and other physical phenomena so one might expect similar activity in similar processes.

Now can we pull the Long Covid crews out of their silos to set up a course leading to an eventual trial on LC19 patients? I hope these pleas catch the eye of RECOVER dudes that are lagging several generations behind the dementia study folks to get in on the cutting edge of research.

Intranasal Human NSC-Derived EVs Therapy Can Restrain Inflammatory Microglial Transcriptome, and NLRP3 and cGAS-STING Signalling, in Aged Hippocampus doi: 10.1002/jev2.70232 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12884020/

From the ABSTRACT:..."the hippocampus of animals receiving hiPSC-NSC-EVs exhibited reductions in astrocyte hypertrophy, microglial clusters, and oxidative stress, along with elevated expression of antioxidant proteins and genes that maintain mitochondrial respiratory chain integrity. Moreover, hiPSC-NSC-EVs therapy decreased the levels of various proteins involved in the activation of the NLRP3 inflammasome, p38/mitogen-activated protein kinase, cGAS-STING-IFN-1, and Janus kinase and signal transducer and activator of transcription signalling pathways."...

"3.2 Biodistribution of IN-Administered hiPSC-NSC-EVs in the Brain of Late Middle-Aged Mice The biodistribution of IN-administered PKH-26-labeled hiPSC- NSC-EVs was examined in multiple brain regions using markers of neural cells at 6 h post-administration (Figure 1E, F ) in both male and female mice. Such analysis revealed that hiPSC- NSC-EVs permeated virtually all brain regions within 6 h post-administration, as demonstrated in our earlier studies for naïve mice (Upadhya et al. 2020 ) and 5 × Familial AD (5 × FAD) mice (Attaluri et al. 2023 ). In all brain regions, EVs were taken up by microglia and neurons. EVs were also seen interacting with the cell membranes of astrocytes and oligodendrocytes."...

3.6 hiPSC-NSC-EVs Enhanced Mitochondrial Respiratory Chain Gene Expression in the Hippocampus

..." Thus, hiPSC-NSC-EVs treatment in late middle-aged male and female mice enhanced mitochondrial respiratory chain gene expression in the aged hippocampus. "

In plain terms the extracellular vesicles were introduced by the nose and distributed to and taken up by microglia and neurons and interacting with other "supporting cells" in the brain parenchyma. So they circulate in the entire brain. Mitochondrial support genes were activated.

..............................

FYI: the press release for the study emanates from "Texas A&M University Division of Marketing and Communications" so you know their aim is to monetize it and reap profits from the captive public if it makes a hit. There aint no free lunch!

.............................

"Scientists reverse brain aging, with a nasal spray New therapy is turning back the clock in aging brains, healing inflammation, restoring memory and reshaping the future of brain age-related therapies.

April 14, 2026 By Zaid Elayyan, Texas A&M University Division of Marketing and Communications ........................ The above presentation is a result of my speculations following the Alzheimer's literature and Long covid as well.

u/barweis — 5 days ago

Breakroom - May 14, 2026

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u/Gavilon8886 — 7 days ago

Has anyone in Europe managed to get Dr. Bruce Patterson’s incellKINE Long Hauler Index test without leaving the continent?

Hey r/LongCovidWarriors

Dr. Bruce Patterson’s incellKINE Long Hauler Index is a machine-learning cytokine panel that identifies a unique immune signature in Long COVID/PASC and can differentiate it from Chronic Lyme and ME/CFS. Many in the US and Canada have already used it for objective data and better treatment plans.

The cool part: Dr. Patterson came up with a treatment, which could potentially put a long COVID-Patient fully into remission. It's still a mystery to why people call themselfs "experts" on long covid, but no nothing about his Methods.

I’m in Austria and really want to do this test, but the checkout only shows USA/Canada. Has anyone in Europe (Germany, Austria, UK, France etc.) successfully ordered and completed the test without leaving Europe?

  • How did you get the kit?
  • Blood draw?
  • Shipping back?
  • Any tips?

I guess if there is no other option I'll have to visit the USA and get the blood drawn there.

Would love to hear real experiences — this could help so many of us in Europe! 🙏

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u/Paul-Rec — 7 days ago

Need hope. Please anyone help.

Post covid 2020 I started having intermittent neurological issues. A flare up pattern that is seemingly triggered by getting sick. For years I feared Parkinson’s or ALS, or MS. Yet scans, tests etc all normal.

Fast forward to the last 2 years. I’ve had flares that get worse and longer each time. Before it was once every 2-3 years.. they typically lasted a month or two. Well this time I’m on 10 months of a “flare”, afraid that maybe now this is permanent.

Of course, all labs and tests seem normal outside of HS-CRP of 7.2 (about 7x normal), which is a general inflammation marker. Autoimmune labs all clear, bloodwork perfect, A1C in the 5’s… so not diabetic related.

I’m starting to lose faith I’ll heal. I’m in a vicious cycle. The symptoms are as follows:

Nerve pain that is often much worse at night. It can range from sharp pains, to numbness, to burning. It’s both sides of the body, upper and lower body. I also get HR spikes that feel like adrenaline surges randomly, but especially when standing up or eating. Luckily I’m on Metoprolol which seems to put a cap on it (before upping dose to 50 mg HR could go to 140-160 briefly, now it caps around 115-120).

Another odd thing I get is full body internal tremors. Normally that lasts a few minutes but last night it was 3-4 hours until I fell asleep. I have facial numbness sometimes, lots of headaches and fatigue. The worst symptom though is it’s nearly impossible for me to hit deep sleep. I only get 30-60 minutes deep sleep and it’s always at the beginning.

I believe due to the bad sleep and nerve stuff… I’m always sore. Full body soreness like I was in a car accident. It’s like my body can’t heal.

I’m willing to fight years if I have to, but I’m just scared if it continues down the progression path… I will end up dying from it somehow. When I plugged all symptoms into every AI they came up with two common answers.

  • Post-viral dysautonomia / hyperadrenergic
  • Long Covid with Small fiber neuropathy

I guess what I’m hoping to find here is people who have beaten this and have tips for me. Or which of these two conditions you guys have seen more commonly here. I would do anything for help.

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u/Ketosisssss — 10 days ago

Experiences with Nattokinase/Serrapeptase & MCAS Protocol?

​Hi everyone! I’m researching a protocol involving Nattokinase, Serrapeptase, Famotidine, Loratadine, EGCG, and Curcumin for microclots and inflammation. If you’ve tried this combo or a similar regimen, I’d love to hear about your experience. Which dosages worked best for you, whose protocol did you follow, and how long did it take to see results? Any insights on what to expect or specific side effects would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for sharing.

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u/LeadershipNice7495 — 10 days ago

Breakroom - May 12, 2026

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u/Gavilon8886 — 9 days ago

Long Covid and hyper fragmented sleep

I’m reaching for help as there is no answer on how to proceed from doctors at this point.

I’m 22 and had Covid in Jan 26, since then i have developed hyperarousal through hyper fragmented sleep which lead to sleeping 15-16 hours a day and being completely exhausted. I wake up and move in my bed 50 times an hour unconsciously and don’t remember anything about any of it when i wake up ( had to film myself to document it ). I did a PSG which confirmed it but was only prescribed trazodone and supplementing magnesium/iron which does not reduce the amount of awakening as of 3 weeks of treatment (following as CBT-I protocol) Early on, i also developed severe allergies and asthma, thought there are being treated and thus not a possible cause of the fragmentation.

I had to stop college, work, lost weight and can barely function because of the lack of real sleep. Has anyone experienced similar symptoms? If that’s the case i would deeply appreciate any advice or shared experience.

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u/Physical_Photo_2578 — 11 days ago

Breakroom - May 13, 2026

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u/Gavilon8886 — 9 days ago
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2000th Day (Again)

Hello all you Extraordinary, Long Hauling Legends.

Last week I shared a milestone with you.  

It was my Two-Thousandth day as a Long Hauler.

Meaning, it was one thousand days ago that I wrote my first ‘Love Letter’ to the Long Haul community as a way to commemorate those first thousand days

That original post was an important moment in my recovery, as that was when I made the choice to continue writing all these silly, optimistic stories about my ongoing love affair with long hauling. 

In the thousand days from then until now, I have told you about my challenges, my victories, my doctors, my therapists, my other therapists,  my other, other therapists… 

(So many different kinds of ‘Therapy’!!)

This week on COVID is Stoopid, I am setting some time aside to consider questions I can’t answer, topics I haven’t processed and ideas with which I yet wrestle. 

I don’t have the energy to be who I was Yesterday.

So, where does that leave me Today?

And what does it mean for Tomorrow?

Spoiler alert- I have no fucking idea.

And that’s OK.

These aren't “things I’m failing at,” or “questions with no answers” so much as they are the “very important, deeply personal research questions in my ongoing experiment called Mateo’s Search for Meaning.”

But even if they weren’t… 

That would be OK too. 

If you have the spoons to listen, I hope you enjoy.

I love you all

I see you all 

I would hug you all if I could

Strength and Health,

COVID is Stoopid

.

u/Individual_Living876 — 10 days ago

Period Cycle & Flair Ups?

To my people with uteruses….do you find flair ups or worsening symptoms around your cycle?
I started a new birth control recently and I’m in a flair up (fever, etc.) but I’m not sure if it’s related and was wondering others experiences

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u/justagirlwithaquill — 11 days ago

🌟Weekly Community Challenge: One Thing That Helped Me This Week🌟

Hi, Warriors🤍

It’s time for a new community challenge and this one’s designed to boost connection, give hope, and share real things that helped real people this week. No pressure to write long comments. No pressure to be “doing great.” Just one thing that made your week a tiny bit more manageable.

💬 Question:

What’s ONE thing that helped you this week?

It can be anything:

✨ A supplement.

✨ A symptom hack.

✨ A mindset shift.

✨ A small win.

✨ A food that didn’t cause a flare.

✨ A kind moment.

✨ Something that made you smile.

✨ Or even “I rested and survived the week”

If it helped you, it counts.

💡 Why This Challenge Matters

Sharing these moments helps:

⭐ New people find ideas.

⭐ Everyone feel less alone.

⭐ The community grow stronger.

⭐ You celebrate progress you might’ve overlooked.

You can reply with just one sentence or even one word. Whatever you’ve got today is enough.

❤️ Let’s lift each other up

Drop your “one thing” below. Come back later and support someone else. Even simple comments like “same,” “I needed this,” or an upvote can make someone’s day.

We’re in this together. I can’t wait to read what helped you this week 🌿💚

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u/AutoModerator — 12 days ago
▲ 31 r/LongCovidWarriors+1 crossposts

Doctor here, asking for honest input on energy and crashes

Hi all. I'm Karoline, a general physician. I'm posting with the mods' permission. 

Writing here because a close friend has been dealing with a post viral chronic condition (not yet diagnosed with Long COVID) for over a year. Watching him navigate it with normal tests, dismissive doctors, money spent on things that didn’t help and frequent energy crashes is what brought us to try to find ways to support people going through the same.

Over the past few months, we’ve been talking with around 200 people across multiple countries living with Long COVID. Whether someone's a few months in or several years into Long COVID, energy is a universal struggle. The constant cycles of ups and downs, pushing through a good day and ending up with several bad days and not knowing if anything you're trying is helping you move forward. 

As we continue learning, I’d love to ask here if people could share how energy shows up in day-to-day life:

  • How do you manage your energy right now? How often do you crash, and can you usually tell what caused it?
  • Have you discovered things that drain or recharge your energy that you didn't expect?

For full transparency: my friend and I are building a free Long COVID companion app focused first on energy, pacing, and helping people see patterns over time. Easy and simple, to support you day to day, and help you see your progress over time. You can learn more here: longcovid.haviohealth.com . If you leave your email there, I'll personally keep you posted on our progress and launch of the free app.

Note: We're not collecting data to publish or sell. The aim is to build something that actually helps people in this community, and to do that we need to learn from the people living with it.

I'll be in the comments today and tomorrow, happy to answer anything. If you prefer DMs, feel free to reach out there too.

u/drkarixo — 15 days ago

Progress: Bedbound to baking and birding

TL; DR:

I’ve recovered from bedbound in the dark at my worst to conservatively 65% function, rounding the corner to 70% shortly. 

The major pieces of my recovery:

  • Reducing allostatic load 
  • Getting the right diagnoses and starting appropriate treatments 
  • An incredibly supportive partner 
  • A supportive workplace and remote work
  • Financial privilege
  • Taking control of my own recovery 
  • Getting off of doomer subreddits and forums
  • A refusal to stop trying and believing that improvement was possible even if remission wasn’t (I now believe remission is possible and that I’ll get there)
  • Recovery stories
  • Limbic retraining/nervous system work

——————

The (very) long version:

Diagnoses:

  • Long Covid
  • Migraine
  • ME/CFS (yes, including PEM)
  • MCAS
  • POTS
  • Fibromyalgia*
  • Binocular vision dysfunction
  • Graves Disease

*I was diagnosed during a horrible MCAS and ME/CFS flare. I don’t think I actually have fibro, but that the pain caused by MCAS and ME/CFS confounded diagnosis 

Timeline 

  • 2008
    • Mono followed by several months of post-viral fatigue

     

  • 2017/2018
    • The flu, followed by 6+ months of (diagnosed) post-viral fatigue
    • In retrospect, I think this is when I developed ME/CFS that resolved to very mild after about 8 months of stopping all exercise. I would get PEM a few times a year, usually after a big bike ride
  • 2020
    • Covid infection
    • A couple months later, diagnosed with Grave’s disease out of the blue; resolved with medication

     

  • 2021
    • Migraines increasing in frequency and severity but manageable

     

  • 2022
    • Had second booster, this time Moderna after only having Pfizer
    • Sick in bed for a few days 
    • Migraines worsening to about half the days of the month
    • Diagnosed with migraine and started on preventative and acute treatments 
    • Migraine severity and frequency continued to worsen
    • Spend a month on medical leave (I’m not better at the end, I just ran out of sick time)
  • 2023
    • Health gets significantly worse
    • Most of the summer is spent bedbound, in a dark room, unable to tolerate sound or screens 
    • Chronic daily migraine
    • Start Ajovy, severity reduces but frequency not touched
  • 2024
    • Tentatively diagnosed with POTS and start treatment
    • Switch to Qulipta, migraines reduce by about half 
    • Tentatively diagnosed with MCAS and start treatment 
    • Referred to long covid clinic, where I’m diagnosed with long Covid, POTS, MCAS, ME/CFS, fibromyalgia 
    • Have a horrible flare from about Dec 2024-April 2025
    • Stabilize post-flare at about 35% function
      • Have stopped doing almost all chores, cooking is the easiest possible (reheating, basically)
      • Ordering delivery and ready-made meals 
      • Go multiple months without leaving the house

       

    • Migraines start worsening, going from about 15 days a month back to daily and now with eye pain 
    • Diagnosed with binocular vision dysfunction and get prism glasses; migraines go back to baseline of about 15 per month, eye pain resolves 
    • I start exploring nervous system work and see little progress
  • Fall 2025
    • Overnight improvement to about 50%
      • I find the nervous system work that *clicks* for me
      • I use this new exercise (paired with a deep understanding of the neuroscience) to stop a post-shower POTS flare in its tracks, then get an 8/10 migraine to a 0 in minutes, a few days later 
      • Over the next few months my migraines go from 2-3 a week to 1-2 a month (that menstrual migraine just won’t quit), my function and capacity keep improving, I have one mild PEM event that resolved in a day
  • 2026
    • After 6 years, I get Covid again (getting a blood test while masked. Ugh!)
    • I double down on my nervous system work while sick, including choosing to believe in the best possible outcome, and come out of Covid with higher function than I went in
    • I stop monitoring myself so much—take off the smart watch, stop logging symptoms 
    • I make consistent, steady progress

     

  • Now:
    • I just came back from my first trip in years 
    • On the first day of the trip, we went on two birding outings, I prepared our meals, AND I had my first bath in years
      • At various points over the years, any one of those was unthinkable. As recently as a month ago, all of those together was unthinkable
      • I suffer no ill effects

       

    • I’m able to take on most of my old chores, I cook proper meals most days after work, I’m starting to take (short!) walks outside, and I just baked banana bread (I gave up baking for years)
    • At this point I’d say I’m at about 65% heading to 70% of my old functioning

Things That Didn’t Help

  • NAC
  • NMN
  • Heal Your Headache Diet
  • Quercetin supplements (with a caveat—see things that helped)
  • Going off caffeine
  • H1

Things That Made Me Worse 

  • Low-dose Abilify (multiple month flare)
  • Amytriptaline (made me a zombie)
  • Red light therapy (caused PEM)
  • CHOP protocol and physiotherapy for POTS (both PEMed me, but I didn’t know I had ME/CFS yet)

Things That Helped Somewhat

  • Propranolol (both migraine and POTS)
  • Green light therapy (for migraines)
  • Sleeping on an incline 
  • H2
  • Ice hats
  • LDN (I’ve been on this for years, predating long Covid, but I assume it helps to some extent)

Things That Helped A Lot 

  • Compression, electrolytes, etc.
  • GABA and glutathione supplementation
  • Sunlight (carefully titrate)
  • Focusing on improving sleep, including circadian rhythm through light therapy
  • Lymphatic massage of face and scalp before bed and in the morning
  • Ketotifen
  • Algonot’s Fibroprotek (a high-quality quercetin and luteolin supplement)
  • Qulipta
  • Ivabradine
  • Lactoferrin (improved sleep significantly and made it no longer physically hurt to wake up in the morning)
  • Pacing 
  • Migraine glasses (specifically Avulux)

Keys to My Recovery

  • Reducing allostatic load 
    • I really firmly believe the majority of people cannot recover from nervous system work alone. If you are in a constant MCAS flare, have uncontrolled POTS, are overwhelmed with stress, and are routinely in PEM, there is such an immense allostatic load that nervous system work can’t overcome it
    • Basically everything that follows, other than the nervous system work itself, was about reducing the allostatic load, which I believe opened up the space for limbic retraining to work once I found the right tools

     

  • Getting the right diagnoses and starting appropriate treatments 
    • Reducing allostatic load, as above
    • Understanding the connection between dysautonomia and blood glucose regulation was really helpful—Shout out to the Long Covid Dietician/Lily Sprechler
  • An incredibly supportive partner
    • He believed me from the very start and never doubted me 
    • He started to recognize patterns and could tell me when I needed to pace better, when a migraine was coming, etc. often before I could 
    • He took on the lion’s share of the domestic work so I could rest and pace 
    • He radically reoriented his life based on my needs and limits
  • A supportive workplace and remote work
    • I’m very lucky to have a very supportive boss and colleagues
    • The ability to work fully remotely with medical accommodations in place, including often from bed lying in the dark, plus generous sick time allowances, are the only things that kept me employed

     

  • Financial privilege
    • I am lucky to make a very good salary. Even over a couple years of being the only one working (which did NOT help with stress), I’m able to live in a safe home, pay for supplements and lifestyle things, and not worry about paying the bills. I know this is not the case for so, so many

     

  • Taking control of my own recovery 
    • I work in medicine (non-clinically) and have the clinical knowledge and research skills to be able to read, understand, digest and synthesize research and the credentials and language to be taken seriously by doctors
    • Every single diagnosis other than ME/CFS came from me researching, assessing the diagnostic criteria, and bringing it to my doctors 
    • And every successful treatment came from me refusing to take subpar results as “good enough” and researching other treatments to bring to my care team
  • Getting off of doomer subreddits and forums
    • The ones that claim only 5% of us will get better (that is not backed up by science, it’s way higher), the ones that tell people to accept they will forever have the quality of life of end-stage cancer patients, the ones who claim those who recovered are either lying or never really had ME/CFS in the first place 
    • They made me depressed and hopeless and stopped me from trying things that have turned out to be life changing 
    • Similarly, the book How to Be Sick caused a two-month flare because I was terrified that this was the rest of my life, which was the message I was getting from very well-meaning but (I think) misinformed and hopeless people
    • (I’m aware this may be contentious and derisively quoted in said forums. I understand)
  • A refusal to stop trying, and believing improvement was possible even if remission wasn’t (I now believe remission is possible and that I’ll get there)
    • I just couldn’t accept that this was what life was going to be: constant suffering, incredibly low quality of life, losing more and more things that give life meaning 
    • Whether through scientific advancements or MacGuyvering my own treatment, I had faith that I could improve. Maybe not go into remission, but I could suffer less. I took every tiny win as evidence that I could, in fact, improve
  • Recovery stories 
    • Even in the depths of my hopelessness and resignation, I had this little voice that said “okay, but some small number of people DO get better”
    • And then I started thinking, “These are the ONLY people claiming to recover. I can either stay hopeless and do nothing or I can get on the only train going in the direction I want to go.”
    • Even though I didn’t think it would work for ME, ignoring the only people experiencing recovery just seemed like self-sabotage and I knew I’d never forgive myself for not trying EVERYthing, even if it amounted to nothing 
    • And then I started thinking “well, why NOT me? What’s so special about me that this wouldn’t work for me but would for hundreds or thousands of others?”
  • Limbic retraining/nervous system work
    • I tried a variety of things, read multiple books, tried Primal Trust, did an online course through my long Covid clinic—none of it was getting me anywhere. The books were often too woo-woo, Primal Trust was overwhelming with the sheer volume of information. Nothing was really working for me. Sure, the exercises felt nice, but I wasn’t getting anywhere 
    • I stumbled upon a blog from someone in recovery from ME/CFS through a post comparing different programs and she mentioned she’d worked with a coach, Tessa Malcarne. I liked how she talked about it and I liked Tessa’s website and the quite substantial excerpt from her book I was able to read 
    • So I bought the book (You Only Need You). It’s expensive. I’ll say that up-front. But she has discount codes on her Instagram (go back to posts from May 2025), which made it more affordable (in retrospect, for work that has been life-changing for me and compared to the literal thousands I’ve spent on supplements, appointments, devices, etc. I’d happily pay full price). Note: I have no connection to Tessa Malcarne other than benefitting from her book immensely. She also has a free podcast that I think would get you every thing you need
    • Her work has four key elements:
      • Understanding the science/mechanism at play
      • Simplicity and self-belief. You don’t have to do a course. You don’t have to do an hour of rounds every day. You don’t have to follow some rigid protocol. You just have to learn to speak the language of your nervous system so you can understand what it’s telling you and respond back in a way it understands 
      • Learning to welcome, accept, embrace, and surrender to your symptoms
      • Learning to actually FEEL, process, and digest your emotions, which includes addressing things like perfectionism

The Exercise That Was The Key For Me

I’ve posted this elsewhere, but will post it again here because it has given me my life back and I hope it might help others. 

I start with some slow breaths and self-holding, and then I walk through the following, ideally out loud but in my head is okay too. I’ll use migraine as an example. 

  • Hello migraine. Hello neck pain. Hello sound sensitivity. Welcome. You’re welcome to stay here as long as you need to. 
  • I accept whatever you’re here to tell me and whatever you need me to do. 
  • I surrender to you. I will not fight you. I surrender. We can coexist as long as we need to. I surrender. I will not fight you.

 

During that last one, I consciously release as much tension as possible from my body. Releasing my shoulders, my abs, any bracing. And then I go about my day. Generally in a matter of minutes, the symptom has resolved. 

Looking Ahead

I haven’t had PEM in several months, despite levels of activity that were unthinkable just a few months ago. I get a few headaches a month that resolve in minutes with the above exercise and usually 1-2 actual migraines needing medication. I am increasing my activity quite quickly at this point, after going much slower. My goals are to increase my walking frequency and length, start eventually adding some strength training, and eventually get back on my beloved bike, as well as continuing to improve my sleep. I’m also hoping to start seeing loved ones (masked!) again, after, in many cases, literal years of not seeing them. My sense (having not been here before), is that the major task before me is increasing my stamina and capacity in ways that feel safe for my nervous system, while continuing to address things that send threat signals like perfectionism, overwork, etc., and continuing to respond well to symptoms if and when they arise. 

If you made it to the end, well done! I didn’t mean to write a dissertation, but that’s the reality of what we’re collectively living with. I’m happy to answer any questions, but will not be debating the efficacy of limbic retraining/nervous system work. 

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u/guineapigmedicine — 12 days ago

Breakroom - May 9, 2026

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