r/SSAChristian

I just want to get to a point where I don't have to deal with as hard of urges as at my peak of fapping, i guess. I want to be able to go to bed, and not feel urges to look at explicit stuff while i am watching asmr. What I am really asking, I guess is, do the strong urges get lighter?

Something I've learned from my SSA is that I'm longing for a best female friend, which I've never had.

However, I'm very aware that my attractions could muddy the waters and cause me to develop sexual and/or romantic attractions to her.

Does anyone here have a same-sex bestie? Do you struggle with umwanted feelings in your relationship with him/her?