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So, im bi and last month I decided to resing from homossexuality and only date woman, but even though I never even dated a guy, I can't help but to feel a pain in my chest every time I see a guy couple together, or see an attractive boy, or hear something that makes me remember that I will never have the experience of dating a guy. And I know that being bi means I can still have a girlfriend and it should be enough, but it still makes me so sad and worried, but it feels like a sacrifice i need to make

Doesn't someday this feeling disappears or I will have to live with it forever? Do you get used to it someday or you just turn into some homophobe that can't be anywhere near gays? Im praying for the Lord to give me strength, but its not helping yet. Any advice?

So, im bi and last month I decided to resing from homossexuality and only date woman, but even though I never even dated a guy, I can't help but to feel a pain in my chest every time I see a guy couple together, or see an attractive boy, or hear something that makes me remember that I will never have the experience of dating a guy. And I know that being bi means I can still have a girlfriend and it should be enough, but it still makes me so sad and worried, but it feels like a sacrifice i need to make

Doesn't someday this feeling disappears or I will have to live with it forever? Do you get used to it someday or you just turn into some homophobe that can't be anywhere near gays? Im praying for the Lord to give me strength, but its not helping yet. Any advice?

So, im bi and last month I decided to resing from homossexuality and only date woman, but even though I never even dated a guy, I can't help but to feel a pain in my chest every time I see a guy couple together, or see an attractive boy, or hear something that makes me remember that I will never have the experience of dating a guy. And I know that being bi means I can still have a girlfriend and it should be enough, but it still makes me so sad and worried, but it feels like a sacrifice i need to make

Doesn't someday this feeling disappears or I will have to live with it forever? Do you get used to it someday or you just turn into some homophobe that can't be anywhere near gays? Im praying for the Lord to give me strength, but its not helping yet. Any advice?

I needed to buy more rings, bracelets, necklaces, but where is the best places to buy it. Online? In clothing stores? In accessories stores? Usually I buy in an specific store, but the designs are sorta basic and its quite expensive since they are made of inoxidable iron. Does the material make a difference? What should I look for in when buying? How often people buy the wrong size when buying online, or get scammed? Am i missing something? Please help

I needed to buy more rings, bracelets, necklaces, but where is the best places to buy it. Online? In clothing stores? In accessories stores? Usually I buy in an specific store, but the designs are sorta basic and its quite expensive since they are made of inoxidable iron. Does the material make a difference? What should I look for in when buying? How often people buy the wrong size when buying online, or get scammed? Am i missing something? Please help

So I realized that I don't really have any strong catholic friendships, and I surely would like to have more catholic friends in general, I would really really like catholic friendship that also feel ssa. Because most of my LGBT friends are like "ew church", so they can't really relate to my experience with being bi and catholic and the sacrifices I have to make, so I can't really talk to them about this things.

I also know that is not easy to know when someone is lgbt in church just by their looks, and it isn't really polite to go randomly asking people their sexuality. So I just pray to eventually find the right friend. But do you guys have any tips? Not only to finding lgbt catholic friends, but more catholic friends in general? I tried my parish youth group, but I couldn't really connect with anyone there. What should I try?

Usually I just see a pretty girl in public, I go up to her and say "hi, I just saw you and thought you were pretty, could I get your Instagram so we can go out someday?"

It never work, what am I doing wrong? Am I being to direct? Should I try to have some small talk before asking for her ig? Please help me guys, I'm terrible at this.

Usually I just see a pretty girl in public, I go up to her and say "hi, I just saw you and thought you were pretty, could I get your Instagram so we can go out someday?"

It never work, what am I doing wrong? Am I being to direct? Should I try to have some small talk before asking for her ig? Please help me guys, I'm terrible at this. I

I know rhat many in this subreddit think that ssa isn't a sin and I don't need to stop it, but please try to understand my pov

I have been thinking a lot lately, researching and praying, and i have come to the conclusion that I must stop seeking being with another man, but I don't know if I can do it.

For some context im a guy in my early 20s, I think im bisexual and have never dated anyone. Lately I have struggling a lot with being single while most people around me are dating(pathetic, I know) and it affected more than I thought it would. So i started praying for a boyfriend/girlfriend, and after sometime I questioned if it was a sin to pray for a boyfriend (I have always thought that having ssa was something natural, That God made us that way, and as long as its a health and serious relationship in God it was alright, that love couldneverbe a sin, and no one should go to hell for loving another person). So I started research and praying and come to the conclusion that God wants me to resing from homossexuality and live a "straight life".

And it should be pretty easy to just resing, I still am atracted to woman(which is more luck than others with ssa have) so i can still fall for a woman and have a wife, I don't have a boyfriend i need to break up with, not even a crush. But I know deep down that I can't keep this promise, that eventually I will fall into temptation again and sin, that the first time a boy that looks at me I will break this promise. And even if I never have anything with a boy, always a part of me will wonder how it would have been and wish I at least kissed someone before doing it.

There is also a lot of gay culture around me, I have a lot of LGBT friends, and like many queer media. And I know that I should move always from this, but I'm scared that if I distance myself from my friend I will end up alone again (im very shy, and struggle making new friends)

Anyway, I know what I have to do but i don't have the strength to do it. Pray for me, thank you

I know that many in this subreddit think that ssa is not a sin and I don't need to negate it to live in Christ, but please listen.

I have been thinking a lot lately, researching and praying, and i have come to the conclusion that I must stop seeking being with another man, but I don't know if I can do it.

For some context im a guy in my early 20s, I think im bisexual and have never dated anyone. Lately I have struggling a lot with being single while most people around me are dating(pathetic, I know) and it affected more than I thought it would. So i started praying for a boyfriend/girlfriend, and after sometime I questioned if it was a sin to pray for a boyfriend (I have always thought that having ssa was something natural, That God made us that way, and as long as its a health and serious relationship in God it was alright, that love couldneverbe a sin, and no one should go to hell for loving another person). So I started research and praying and come to the conclusion that God wants me to resing from homossexuality and live a "straight life".

And it should be pretty easy to just resing, I still am atracted to woman(which is more luck than others with ssa have) so i can still fall for a woman and have a wife, I don't have a boyfriend i need to break up with, not even a crush. But I know deep down that I can't keep this promise, that eventually I will fall into temptation again and sin, that the first time a boy that looks at me I will break this promise. And even if I never have anything with a boy, always a part of me will wonder how it would have been and wish I at least kissed someone before doing it.

There is also a lot of gay culture around me, I have a lot of LGBT friends, and like many queer media. And I know that I should move always from this, but I'm scared that if I distance myself from my friend I will end up alone again (im very shy, and struggle making new friends)

Anyway, I know what I have to do but i don't have the strength to do it. Pray for me, thank you

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I have been thinking a lot lately, researching and praying, and i have come to the conclusion that I must stop seeking being with another man, but I don't know if I can do it.

For some context im a guy in my early 20s, I think im bisexual and have never dated anyone. Lately I have struggling a lot with being single while most people around me are dating(pathetic, I know) and it affected more than I thought it would. So i started praying for a boyfriend/girlfriend, and after sometime I questioned if it was a sin to pray for a boyfriend (I have always thought that having ssa was something natural, That God made us that way, and as long as its a health and serious relationship in God it was alright, that love couldneverbe a sin, and no one should go to hell for loving another person). So I started research and praying and come to the conclusion that God wants me to resing from homossexuality and live a "straight life".

And it should be pretty easy to just resing, I still am atracted to woman(which is more luck than others with ssa have) so i can still fall for a woman and have a wife, I don't have a boyfriend i need to break up with, not even a crush. But I know deep down that I can't keep this promise, that eventually I will fall into temptation again and sin, that the first time a boy that looks at me I will break this promise. And even if I never have anything with a boy, always a part of me will wonder how it would have been and wish I at least kissed someone before doing it.

There is also a lot of gay culture around me, I have a lot of LGBT friends, and like many queer media. And I know that I should move always from this, but I'm scared that if I distance myself from my friend I will end up alone again (im very shy, and struggle making new friends)

Anyway, I know what I have to do but i don't have the strength to do it. Pray for me, thank you

I have been looking for romance movies/series of romance, but most of them are narrated from the girls pov or is very centered in her, or when its focused on the boy the movie is not about the romance(like in some war or whaterver) and end up having some romance. I was just wondering if you guys know any young love movies or series that follow the boy a bit more? Bonus points if it has a happy ending

Im a bi guy, and kinda shy. I tend to like more masculine/straight looking guys(the type that you wouldn't guess is into boys too) but im scared to flirt with them, I don't know if they are straight makes me afraid of getting rejected right away or worse, they freak out cause I flirted with them and do something to me. That's why I tend to flirt with more feminine or "gay looking" guys, but I often find them kinda annoying and we don't have much in common. So do you guys know any technics to flirt with a guy that you don't know, how to approach and get them to like you back, and what do I do if they are straight?

A metade parte dos meus amigos tão namorando, 30% não tão procurando um relacionamento e 10% acabaram de sair de um relacionamento ou tem pelo menos alguma coisa rolando nesse aspecto e 10% são bem feinhos ou tem uma personalidade difícil(tadinhos).

Eu só não sei qual é o problema comigo, muita gente já diz que eu sou bonito (eu sei que eu não sou feio mas também não sou um supermodelo), sou meio introvertido mas ainda consigo falar com as pessoas normalmente e flertar (talvez não flertar bem, mas eu tento). Eu tento conhecer pessoas novas, fazer amizades e me enturmar. Mas ainda assim eu não me apaixono por ninguém, antigamente eu ficava com crush tão fácil, mas hoje em dia parece que só não rola mais.

Eu tô na faculdade, era pra ser fácil conhecer pessoas da minha idade, ir em festas e tudo mais. E pior, eu sou bi, ou seja, era pra ter o dobro das opções, mas na realidade é só o dobro de foras. Os caras na maior parte só querem pegação e sexo (e eu não sou do tipo de beijar alguém sem ter um relacionamento) e as garotas ou me dão um fora na hora ou dizem que tão namorando.

Eu só tô cansado de estar sozinho e ver um monte de coisa de casal, filmes de romance, música de amor, stories com namorada, sem ter ideia de como é viver essas coisas, sem saber o gosto de um beijo. Enfim, no fundo eu só preciso me acalmar e esperar chegar a pessoa certa, eventualmente vai dar tudo certo, mas caramba, que demora.

Pergunta estranha, mas como tem tanto universitário namorando? Tipo como vocês conhecem alguém pra namorar, já falaram pra ir nas festas que é muito fácil conhecer gente. Mas ja ouvi também que normalmente quem vai em festa não ta procurando relacionamento sério, só pegação. Já tentei só chegar e tentar conseguir o Instagram das pessoas no campus, mas também não deu muito certo? O que eu tenho que fazer pra conseguir uma namorada?

Like songs about wanting to be in a relationship, but not with a specific person in mind

When paring a jeans jacket with jeans pants is it better if they look very different? Like grey pants with blue jacket is it different from combining light blue with dark blue? Or if they look similar but not quite the same shade, like 2 dark blue jeans with different colors. What should I consider when combining?

When paring a jeans jacket with jeans pants is it better if they look very different? Like grey pants with blue jacket is it different from combining light blue with dark blue? Or if they look similar but not quite the same shade, like 2 dark blue jeans with different colors. What should I consider when combining?