r/singaporespeaks

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Is it just me, or is expecting a Grab driver to carry all your heavy bags getting a bit out of hand? Let's discuss.

Hey everyone,

I came across an Instagram story recently that really made me think about the current state of service culture and customer entitlement in Malaysia.

In the screenshot, a local business owner/influencer of TUG Gelato, Yong Xin Ying (@h.aileyxy) publicly blasts a Grab driver at KLIA2 because he asked her to load her own 3 bags into the car. When she told him "that’s his job" and complained about paying RM100, the driver simply offered to cancel the ride if she wasn't happy with that. She then took to live chat, claiming the driver was "verbally abusive" just for refusing to carry the bags, and demanded Grab take action.

As far as I know, Grab drivers are paid to transport you safely from Point A to Point B. Loading heavy luggage is a kind gesture/courtesy, not a mandatory requirement under their job scope—especially considering many drivers might have physical limitations, back pain, or simply want to avoid damaging a passenger's property.
It feels incredibly unfair to threaten a grab worker's livelihood and label them "abusive" on live chat just because they didn't offer a 5-star concierge hotel service for a standard ride fare. If someone wants premium white-glove service, they should probably book a premium private limousine service instead of treating a standard driver like a personal porter.

What are your thoughts on this? Should passengers expect drivers to do the heavy lifting, or is this a clear case of main character syndrome?

Lets discuss.

u/PassageOnly7216 — 1 day ago
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StarHub rage-baiting me for sure

Context: I renew my plan. But the bill on my new plan is reflected as $0.00. Thus for the past months bill I thought it was being Giro. Thinking it automatically deducted from my bank. Today I found out, that was not the case.

I told the CS, I think something wrong cause my bill shows $0.00 thus unable to pay. (Quite literally nothing to pay) and he keep sending me the AI answer of the steps to make the payment.

I send me him all the screenshot showing how it’s $0.00. Nothing to pay. But he wouldn’t listen bro.
Then I ask for the pdf bill or any doc really, so I can make whatever payment that’s not reflected on my screen.

And this Ross from StarHub tell me shit like they don’t have such scan to pay?!?!? ITS LITERALLY HOW EVERYONE USE TO PAY. So I freaking show him how I still have the bill pdf for the WiFi. And he decide to insist don’t have the bill pdf.

And I swear to god, the “correct” and the smiley emoji legit smells like rage bait.
Like he cannot be freaking serious.

Pls ah someone, anyone, WTF do I do. I’m not even trying to doge the bill, I try so hard to give them money, but they pull this dog shit.

u/daisukemoisy — 1 day ago

How important is working non-stop?

How important is working non-stop?

From the time when I was young kid, I remembered that I already started doing part-time jobs in retail, sales etc. and earning like $7, then slowly as I grew up, switching part-time jobs and earning slightly more, like $10+.

I studied in university and after finishing my exams, before I even received my results, I was already confirmed and employed by a firm. I have been working non-stop since, never taken a break, never quitted.

I started investing in stocks since I was in University (with my savings from part-time jobs) and after I started working full-time, I also deposited some lump sums into my brokerage and invested more.

Today, I feel that I'm in a very financially comfortable position, ample amount of savings and investments, and I am able buy a house as a single if I liquidate all my investments. Of course, I don't liquidate now because I want to grow my investment portfolio even larger and eventually have passive income paying off my mortgage in the future.

I realize that working non-stop allows your money to have the "compounding" effect and this creates a gap that gets larger over time compared to people that took a very long time to find a job after graduation, or got laid off or resigned and took a long break.

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u/HomeHedgeFund — 1 day ago

My Response To: How to Attract More Girls

Refer to this video https://www.reddit.com/r/singaporespeaks/comments/1um3alz/how_to_attract_more_girls

Here's my take

Notice that the things she mentioned are pertained to the on-the-surface traits?

I'd say it's really more about what her preferences are rather than a universal thing that women want. Being in Singapore, our country is much more materialistic due to the constant competitive pressures. Naturally, people will be drawn to the very traits that shape us.

If you were to exit Singapore, you'd find a whole different kind of girls out there because their society has shaped them differently, such as value for loyalty and nature in other countries.

A personal anecdote - I have a girlfriend but she's not in it for the money. She wanted me because I care for her a lot (as she does) and knows I will be a great future husband and father.

So, for those who have no grounding at the moment, don't buy fully into whatever she's saying. It's not universal.

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u/Expensive_Grape6765 — 4 days ago
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My survey respondents are all 45+ and I need younger Singaporeans to tell me if this food app idea is actually useful

Hey r/asksg,

I'm a Singaporean working professional and I've been building an app on the side called PantrySwipe, the idea is simple: it looks at what's already in your fridge and tells you what you can cook tonight. No more buying ingredients you already have, no more staring at the fridge wondering what to make.

I ran a user survey recently and got 131 responses which is great, but 70% of them were 45 and above. Probably because I shared it through WhatsApp and Facebook like an uncle.

The honest problem: the app is built for people like us. People who are busy, cook occasionally, waste food without realising it, and just want someone to tell them what to make without having to think too hard about it.

So I'm coming directly to Reddit to ask, if you're between 20 and 35, cook at home at least sometimes, and have 3 minutes to spare, I'd really appreciate your honest feedback.

No right or wrong answers. I'm not trying to sell you anything. I just genuinely need to know if this solves a real problem for younger Singaporeans or if I'm building something nobody asked for.

The survey takes about 3 minutes. Completely anonymous.

If you have questions about the app or want to roast my idea, drop it in the comments, I'll reply to everything.

Thanks in advance 🙏

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u/c33_cactus — 4 days ago

Unpopular opinion: Singaporeans are nice people

I did an internship at SGH for 3 months and it has been one of the best experience in my life. Colleagues were so nice with me every single day, we even celebrated my birthday together. Always smiling always helpful, it was like a dream. I couldn’t retain my tears on my last day in SG. Beautiful memories.

I think this experience will remain in my memory for life.

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u/laughing_hyena1234 — 5 days ago
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Girl from Shanghai exposed this shit of a pedophile Amos Yee. (Trigger warning: may contain inappropriate sexual material)

If u read the description attached to this YouTube video u will find 2 links, it really exposes the extent of his predatory crimes:

Link 1: https://whtwnd.com/did:plc:x2cgcyst5h63rh3o2zvjeos7/3mkewwx6qw32y

Link 2: https://claude.ai/share/45be57b3-f284-4334-9ba4-716c741f1d50

Why the fuck is this sex predator Amos Yee still on bail, roaming free in Singapore? He is a DANGER to our children and women! Guys like him should be locked up for life. Worse still never learn lesson, treat US prison like vacation wah. If he's technically still doing this, why isnt the Singapore police revoking his bail? Also why grant him bail in the first place when he has a long history of breaching bail conditions both in Singapore and the US (Especially in the US for sex offences)???

And anyway, kudos to this Chinese girl for showing Amos Yee to the whole world (not that we dont know about him), but see that guys like Amos Yee deserves to rot in hell.

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u/Clean-Temporary7607 — 5 days ago

UK tourist calls Singapore 'worst country he has visited', netizens clap back

err what do you guys think?

he said just because someone said it's "the worst" for him, doesn't mean it's not a good country ... why does this sound like gaslighting to me.

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u/jastorpollux — 4 days ago