r/teengirlswholikegirls

I have had a crush on a very close friend for the past two years (sigh) and I was wondering if she might like me back? A month or two ago, she made us these matching bracelets of the popular Maxley ship (Max x Bradley from An Extremely Goofy Movie) for both of us to wear. I didn't really wear mine since I'm not a big jewelry person, but then I realized she has been wearing hers the whole time and only that bracelet alone (She's someone who tends to wear lots of jewelry and def has matching bracelets with many other friends). And after looking through her social media, she has made several hints about liking a girl.

I really like her because she's so pretty and she is such an amazing person to have in my life, but I'm afraid to ruin the friendship we have now if I'm wrong about her feelings towards me. I have been wearing the bracelet that she has made me now that I have noticed her wearing it and I am considering making her cute little paper flowers to hint that I like her. Should I make them for her? And if I do, do I give them to her in person or leave it in front of her house like a secret admirer lol.

I'm tired of hiding that I like her; I don't want to wait any longer. I wish there was just a way to know if she feels the same way so I can make a move without making her uncomfortable :(

so. i’m delusional yes. anyway, theres this girl at my school who i’m gonna call owl. she has faded purple hair and shes so pretty and seems really nice. she also likes girls and is single. problem is i have intense social anxiety, and thinking abt her makes me vomit bc i’m so stressed. i wanna get to know her better but im too scared to offer her gum. i’ve only talked to her ONCE. she asked me for gum and did a dance to get it. then a minute later i was arguing with my friend and said “at least im not gay!” and she said “woah am i sensing some homophobia here?” and i pointed to the lesbian flag on my shoe and said “sure…” and she said smth abt scissors that i couldn’t hear. that’s the only time we’ve ever talked. i noticed she glances at me sometimes but i csnt be sure that she has a crush on me. i need her so bad omfg i’ve never been in a relationship before help me

So ive been going on dates with a girl and im pretty sure the next one we'll finally start getting to kissing/maybe making out, but like, how do you do that? 😭 And I dont mean like setting the mood etc, I mean like the mechanics of it i guess??? My only experience with kissing are some very rough make outs with a one month long situationship, but that didnt really help me get experience on actual kissing, especially taking things easier, since it was very 'agressive' and im sort of the bottom in this relationship, so thats like not helpful AT ALL. Any uhhh tips? Instructions maybe?? 😭 Cause i literally dont know how to do it but I cant just stand still doing nothing during it 😭😭

Last night, we stayed up extra late talking about things we were into, and it suddenly got really cute, and we began flirting, I think?! She kept calling me pretty and saying she liked my style (I'm alt and androgynous, leaning towards masc), and she kept saying how she loves talking to me! I kept feeling like I fumbled so bad because I kept saying cheesy lines, but I think she thought it was cute?! Maybe we're actually making progress?! We're calling today, and I'm so excited to hear her voice!

UPDATE: SHE LITERALLY HAS THE CUTEST VOICE IN THE WORLD, IT MAKES ME BLUSH AND WE BOTH KEPT STUTTERING AND GETTING NERVOUS 🥹🥹🥹🥹

(maybe a vent?) I'm a freshman and the girl i like is a senior. Ive kinda accepted that i dont have a chance and that im probably too young for her. (its only like 2 years but still, freshman and senior) I cant stop looking at her prom photos and getting super sad about it : (

She talks to me sometimes but its very brief. we have a fairly similar music taste and her friends have laughed at my jokes!! im probably just a lame freshman to her instesd of cool girlfriend potential ughhhdhgststegwhwkwmwbwbebwbw

Okay, backstory, me (17) and this girl (17) dated and broke up about 2 years ago, and since then we both got into relationships with men. Me and my boyfriend just broke up after a year and a half due to realizing we would be better off as friends. Romantic compatibility just wasn’t there due to reasons on his end, and the fact that I realized I loved him more platonically and am 100% gay. She’s still with her boyfriend and they’ve been together for a little over a year. Her boyfriend sucks though, like, treats her like garbage and cheats on her constantly.

Now that there’s some backstory, she’s been flirting with me like the entire time we were with other people, and she’d make comments like “we should break up with our boyfriends and get back together” and many many other comments like that for over a year now. She also gets extremely touchy with me and like will lay her head on my shoulder and things of that nature, and after talking to a mutual friend it was revealed she only does that with me and no one else. Now that me and my ex boyfriend are no longer together, she’s been making more bold advancements, but I don’t really know what to do because she still has a boyfriend, and on top of that I can’t tell to she genuinely has feelings still or not?? I never got over her and even 2 years later I still really really like her. I feel really crappy for still having feelings for her because she’s taken, and I just don’t know if she’s flirting as a joke, flirting because she still likes me, or flirting because she misses being treated well.

Of course I would never engage in anything romantic with her while she’s taken, but I just really feel lost and hopeless and don’t know what to do. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do in this situation?

So IVE been talking to this girl online for a while now (not on reddit I know better LOL), probably getting close to a year now, she lives in Canada and I’m in Australia, so we were talking and she was just being so sweet and she hits me with: “pretty girl, is it casual that I want to marry you?” AHHH OMG I WAS SO SHOCKED AND HAPPY so of course I was happy and I told her that, we kept talking and now I’m just waiting for her to respond to my messages. She may have fallen asleep though because it’s like 3am where she is LOL BUT WISH ME LUCK GUYS YAYAYA

This happened a few weeks ago at lunch. She was talking to her friends and I wasn’t really paying attention to their conversation because I was talking o someone else and she comes up behind my and gives me a hug from behind and says “guys this is my bf.” Her friends giggled then kinda looked away and moved on with the conversation but like she still kept holding me. Idk if she likes me or if she’s just touchy like that with people but i always catch her staring at me and seemingly finding reasons to talk to me. And when she compliments me it feels so genuine cus it’s things that no one else really notices or mentions. I can be awkward around her so I’m scared I’m not showing her i like her enough. Also i should mention a few months ago she kissed my cheek. I cant really describe the situation but it wasn’t like in a joking it was very casual and sweet. Im not really that close to her so that it caught me off guard and i just smiled at her. Please help me what I do I don’t even know if shes gay or not. Sorry for the grammar

So, when I was in 5th grade, there was an assembly about the LGBTQ+ community at my school. At that point, I thought to myself "Huh. I like girls, and I'm a girl. Does that make me lesbian?" but then I thought "But I have had crushes on guys, so I can't be lesbian. And everyone knows you can only be lesbian (or gay as a man) or straight, so I figured I wanted to "act queer" because it was a minority ig and I wanted to feel special. I also figured that I admired Carmen Sandiego. But, turns out (to the surprise of no one reading this), I like women and men, and I am romantically attracted to Carmen Sandiego!!!

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My (15) crush on my friend is driving me crazy! I think I'm honestly in love with her, but she doesn't like me back. She showed SO many signs that she did. She'd make jokes about kissing me, fake proposed to me, goes out of her way to show that she cares about me, says that she loves me a lot, watches shows because I like them, acts different around me and blushes and stutters and fidgets with her hair a lot around me, moves closer to me even though she hates physical touch, opens up to me about things she doesn't tell anyone else, etc.

My best friend AND her best friend both thought that she liked me, but I confessed to her back in December and she just kind of brushed it off and said she didn't believe me. I didn't want to bring it up again and make her uncomfortable, but I finally mentioned it and all she said was "Oh I thought you stopped liking me lol" so I don't know what to so anymore. She had a crush on a girl who she played basketball with one day, but she'll never see that girl again, but other than her that's the only crush she's ever had and she says she never had a crush before other than her.

I'm trying to move on but literally every time I talk to her I'm still crushing, and it just hurts that I have no chance. What do I even do anymore?

I'm a girl but me and my bestie (other girl) are started to think that we are in love but we are not sure. HELP im feeling a lot of things amd I dont know what I should do