▲ 132 r/fijerk+1 crossposts

How Are You Defining "Rich"? Net worth? Passive Income? Market Returns? Demographic Percentile? Other?

For context I am 58(M) middle manager living in Metro Detroit, Michigan. Salary $180K base, AGI ~$210K. $3M in assets, $260K in liabilities so $2.74M in net worth. This puts me in top 10 percentile but I don't feel rich or close to it . $1.3M in 401k; 600k in IRAs, 590K in brokerage, 200k home equity.

To put things in perspective, my index investments have produced over 300K so far this year, net of contributions, and I am up over a million in past 2.5 years due to the MN market and consistent investment. The capital base outweighs contributions 4 to 1.

My daily routines have not changed and capital investments including backdoor Roth are taking on a life of their own.

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u/169partner — 2 months ago

Has anyone in the US gotten their intelligent headlights coded?

I understand that the headlights are the same but the coding is different in Europe to be more “intelligent”. Is this something an Indy euro shop can do?

u/169partner — 2 months ago
▲ 166 r/AMG

I love my car but the 9G-Tronic transmission is so terrible

I’ve had my 2020 GLC 43 for about 8 months now, only 20k miles from the original owner who was a grandpa. I don’t think it’s ever had a transmission service, not sure if previous owner did a TCU update. But as of now, this transmission is surprisingly bad. Some highlights, all in comfort mode:

1.) 3-2 downshift bucks enough that I move forward in my seat

2.) slowing down to a stop sign and then giving it gas confuses it and it stumbles between 1st and 2nd

3.) not sure if related but when lightly giving it gas after slowing for a stop sign to avoid the bucking, it doesn’t really register any throttle. And then I increase throttle and it bucks again lol

4.) driving with the paddles usually alleviates all of these but I don’t really want to paddle shift every time I drive

Otherwise, it’s a wonderful car and it makes me happy. But man is it a bummer expecting my first Mercedes/automatic car to shift smoothly and it doesn’t

u/169partner — 2 months ago

A-Frame clips from the good ol’ days

From around 10yrs ago.. Tribeca skatepark. I’d come here between classes and shred this A-frame for hours. Don’t have the OG videos anymore so I had to rip from IG

u/169partner — 2 months ago

Experience leaving a NYC job in finance for one on LI?

Hey all,

Currently working a nice FP&A job for a great company in Manhattan, 8YOE. Commute isn’t terrible and pay is good but sometimes I wonder what life would be like if I found something closer to home. Obviously the amount of opportunities are fewer here and the network will be smaller but everything has tradeoffs..

So for those who left a finance job in the city for one back home, what was your experience? Was it worth the switch?

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u/169partner — 2 months ago

Dress shirts with higher arm holes? For NYC Subway..

This question is probably worded stupidly but I need a dress shirt that while holding an overhead pole, it won’t come untucked. I’m shorter and always need to get my sleeves tailored so gambling on how a shirt behaves once tailored usually doesn’t pay off for me

All the Charles Tyrwhitt shirts I’ve bought seem to have lower arm holes. My Ralph Lauren shirts are fine and ironically, the shirt that fits the best is the cheapest shirt I have from Uniqlo.

I know there’s more perfect shirts out there, who has them?

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u/169partner — 3 months ago

Playing for 5yrs, 28hcp, wildly inconsistent. Is something in my swing fundamentally flawed?

I’ve been playing on/off for 5yrs.. don’t practice as much as I’d like but I’m ready to put the work in soon. I’ve taken lessons before but I’m not on the same page w him anymore so I’m ready to see someone new.

Before I take the plunge into a new coach, am I that far off? In these clips, I’m consciously trying to keep good tempo, avoid swaying, keeping clubface closed on takeaway and then on the downswing, dropping the club and rotating thru as I shift my weight. It looks like I accomplish 0 of those things and of the 50 balls I hit, about 5 of them made me happy

I feel like I haven’t progressed for a few yrs with my irons and yeah, I’m very over it. Any help is appreciated and if you have a coach you recommend on Long Island, I’m all ears. Thanks

u/169partner — 4 months ago
▲ 935 r/Frugal

FYI: don’t sleep on these cheaper wireless companies

Cricket, Visible, Mint.. they use the exact same towers as the companies like Verizon and T-Mobile. And they’re half the price too. I thought the service would be inferior but after a few months on Visible (same network as Verizon), I see no difference at all. I actually have a faster plan on Visible that I pay less for than whatI had on Verizon

So if you’re skeptical.. do some research and save some money! Theres no need to pay more to essentially subsidize the costs of running a brick & mortar company

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u/169partner — 4 months ago
▲ 61 r/Baruch

Perspective from a 2018 Zicklin graduate

Hi everyone,

I graduated from Baruch back in 2018 with a finance BBA. 4 of the hardest years of my life but everything turned out okay in the end. I’ve established a good career in FP&A and I’m on track to have a very comfortable life. Just some perspective:

- Failure will happen and you will overcome it.. I started as an accounting major and I failed Financial Accounting with a capital F. I think I had the 2nd worst grades in the class. That F stuck on my transcript bc I refused to retake the class.

-Failure is a blessing in disguise. Because I failed ACC 3100 or whatever class it was, I switched my major to Finance which ultimately ended up being the catalyst to success. Switching to finance was the best decision I made

-Networking is really important. I made friends with people in all my classes. Not so much to go to bars and stuff, more to study and vent and have groups for projects. I can think of 3 people that were vital to me passing these classes. Without them, I’m on my own and who knows what could’ve happened

-Finally, your GPA doesn’t define you. I graduated with a 2.5 GPA bc I had 2 Fs and a few Cs. It was really scary.. during my final semester, I was calculating my GPA with hypothetical grades to see which classes I could afford to get a B and which classes I needed an A in order to get a degree. It was close but it happened. And after that, I never thought about GPA again. It didn’t go on my resume. Hiring leaders never asked. It didn’t matter in my career and now I’m doing just fine

So moral of the story is that college sucks, failure happens and then you overcome and move on with your life. And if you have any questions, I’m here for you.

Good luck!

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u/169partner — 5 months ago

Driver swing falls apart from fatigue on the 15th hole

(No recent videos but not doing any better than this swing from 2 months ago)

So frustrating. Usually around the 15th hole, something unravels in my swing. I don’t feel worn out but I either swing over the ball and miss completely, I top it into the dirt 2 inches in front of the tee or I sky the ball off the crown and it goes very high and plops 20yds away

I’ve stopped going to the range before a round, my practice routine now excludes any full swings and I’ve even tried slowing my swing down in general. I admit I don’t practice as much as I should but you would think the looney toon’s swing and miss thing would be behind me after 5yrs

u/169partner — 5 months ago

I was a partner from 2010-2016, AMA

Today is a slow day at my corporate America job and even tho it’s been 10yrs since I worked at Starbucks (16yrs since I started work there), I still to this day tell people it’s the best job I ever had. The people I worked with, the customers I served for years.. I look back so fondly

Honestly, I don’t get Starbucks too often anymore.. the magic is gone and it feels like a shell of what it used to be. Not to mention, my drink is now $7. But it still is nostalgic so whatever

Anyway.. AMA if you please

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u/169partner — 5 months ago
▲ 7 r/AMG

Low coolant in smaller reservoir. Any typical reason? No leaks.. 2020 GLC 43

u/169partner — 5 months ago