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EDIT: 🧡 I WANT TO RESPOND TO EVERY COMMENT AND TELL YOU ALL THAT I LOVE YOU & WOULD KISS U ON THE FOREHEAD! THANK YOU SO MUCH & THE SUPPORT IN THIS THREAD HAS BEEN SO UPLIFTING, ALL OF YOU HAVE MADE MY SHITTY WEEK SO MUCH BETTER! 🥰🤭

I mostly see men posting in this thread, but I had a Britney moment yesterday and buzzed my entire head to the scalp.

I went from shoulder length curls to this, and have gotten some pretty visceral/rude reactions from the few people in my life who’ve seen it, to the point where I’ve ordered a wig for work.

i’m honestly remorseful and regretful, it’s made me feel like all of my value as a woman was placed upon my looks. It’s upsetting that people in my life are treating me differently over a haircut, especially while going through the worst year and a half of my life. it’s strange.

Scared to leave the house, but slowly i’ll learn to love myself again and accept my features as they are :)

my chalk markers were clapped by the time i got to the last sign… (2nd pic; left hand sign)

i’ve got an 04’ Legacy Wagon (35th anniversary😎) Southern MN.

my ENTIRE suspension is cooked (one coil literally broken, undriveable .) need to get a quick assembly suspension kit asap as i don’t have the shit to load my own struts and i’m broke asf & can’t physically run it like i usually do. the about of brown underneath my car is two harbors dirt. she’s fucking filthy rn- i swear it’s rusty, but not THAT bad lmfaoooo.

this is my only car…i just need it to drive to & from work for now until i can afford a new one.

all repairs done up until now were OEM & “proper” buti gotta lower my standards- i’ve had horrible luck lately with life. this car is dying and at this point, i can’t invest a ton into it, not worth it.

I saw a FCS kit cheap on rockauto, and the reviews don’t look the best, especially living in Minnesota.

i’d be willing to drop a bit more than that if it means reliability. i don’t have 1k+ to throw on suspension atm. shits fucking tough & i’m about to throw this entire fucking car away.

I know a lot of parts are interchangeable with subarus, but idk what is and isn’t; doing research with minimal help is overwhelming and i don’t have the time or money to experiment and monkey around, and nobody in my area wants to touch this pos so it’s on me. (just had surgery, awaiting on pathology results!! fml)

this is my first subaru (& manual, low mileage- ~102,000 miles)

i’ve got some other gut wrenching costly problems rn. (s/o engine leaking & po420 code that can’t be fixed… still attempting diagnoses on the engine & once my boob is healed i’m ripping that shit out. we’re cooked chat)

this is decidedly going to be the thing i need to cheap out on temporarily. any advice or recommendations would be very helpful !! i’m literally just in a situation where i really need to make sure she holds on until im back on my feet.

tldr; cheap quick assembly full suspension kit recommendations for a 2004 Subaru Legacy Wagon. scared of fcs.

I have been ACHING to find a sheer(?) pullover, like thinner than finger weight yarn, almost lacy, knit & dainty. A simple “spring/fall” sweater.

I really don’t care the brand i just heavily desire this look, I want to be able to wear it with dresses/tanks etc. i’m talking SEE. THROUGH. Nips would be poking through if i was braless, visible to the world.

If anybody has any recommendations, i’d be overjoyed😫🙏😭 I like natural colors, browns, greens, blacks - darker “alternative” tones. Anything goes. I’ve scoured the depths of reseller and online hell, but i don’t think i know the right keywords.

I found this sweater, made by a random brand Meilleur Moments; and it just looks… suspicious and reviews are hard to find. I prefer clothing purchases a buy-it-for life, kinda deal. If anybody has bought one, lemme know what you think & maaaybe make the jump! I just really want true, natural fibers.

link: https://meilleur-moment.com/collections/best-seller/products/womens-cashmere-silk-relaxed-pullover-sweater-5g813217

A lot of people i know have sent me suggestions but they’re always too thick (or shein-quality, ew.)

710 Thumbprint jars bang ‼️

I’ve never had one of these…they’ve been on my plant wishlist for ages, solely because of how my dad grew this beautiful tree.

Luckily for me, he’s moving and I was graciously gifted the plant so they didn’t have to drive across the state with a 5’8 tree.

He didn’t give me care instructions as it’s “a tree that grows. cut it, water it. just take care of it.” He’s the most casual and unconcerned naturalist/outdoorsman i know. everything he grows thrives, i don’t get it!!

This was just brought to my home ~45 mins ago and the placement of the plant is privy to how it was set up at his house. (Same orientation to window was well, has it possibly been reaching for more light at his estate?)

I do know I definitely need to give it a lot more support- there’s one 4ft. iron rod in the middle that’s definitely been grown over. Should I possibly trim it? I don’t know how to give a tree a haircut, or even if i should!! (if i choose to, is propagation possible?)

If this was yours, what would you do?! or leave it be?! I want to just leave it be… I’m feeling so many emotions about a plant right now, and I’ve done so much online/blog research, that has just led me to being nervous about fucking it up and scared i’m gonna kill my “heirloom.” Ugh! 😵‍💫

So, I’m here to ask the plant side of reddit, and curious if anybody has first hand experience/knowledge on these plants or even just plants of this size and stature…I’d kiss you on the lips for any tidbits of knowledge! (respectfully, of course.)

TLDR; how the HELL should I ensure this big boy keeps thriving? I have a semi-green thumb, and quite a few other plants. Never a “tree” or ficus. This is the oldest & most sentimental plant i’ve acquired, and I really want to give it the best life possible. Advice?

I live in southern Minnesota- Started these indoors from seed and my dumbass brought them outside WAY too soon, and i decided to just let them chill outdoors (no frost, they have gotten some nasty temp drops which they seemed weirdly unfazed by) i know they’re hardy and can be forgiving, so i decided to be lazy and have now turned my garden this year into an experiment. this is my first time growing veggies at my own house, without help of my green-thumb father.
i’ve only really grown houseplants and herbs. The tomatoes are in the white bin (yellow pear) and the right 2 rows on the tote lid (roma) the rest are 🌶️

Before i put the seedlings into these cups, THAT HAVE DRAINAGE! I’m not that stupid…
they were leggy and sad. after the repotting they began to flourish shortly after. I know i should not have left them outside, they’re like struggling but i have a feeling they’ll pull through? maybe?

coming here to the tomato community to ask… should i just leave them be and keep my experiment going? or is there any actual TLC i should give them? I don’t really care too much, i’m just having fun, but Ideally finding a way to encourage them to thrive after my abuse and bout of careless depression would be kinda neat. I don’t have indoor grow lights, so, there’s that. #lazytomatoer

EDIT: These cups all have drainage holes drilled into them, i’m not that new! haha

This is basically a vent.

I’ve applied to 3-10 jobs a day, mostly on company sites because Indeed is a mess, but sometimes Indeed when piqued.

Since march 26 with the exception of 1-2 days a week. (Mental health) I’ve been curating my CV and cover letters to match each position applied, I’ve landed ONLY these responses back, as well as 2 sales rep positions which i was immediately rejected from. (Shoutout to the no experience insurance rep position for the reject after a 2 hour phone interview!)

Kwik Trip, interviewed for 1.5 hours last friday- they have ghosted me at this point after telling me they’d reach out Monday to let me know whether i was rejected or hired. I had reached out tuesday after no contact…

A liquor store that pays 11$/hr won’t even respond back… after reaching out TO ME!

I’ve been unemployed since march had left previous job due to large pay cut and horrible ownership, i was having panic attacks daily & my nervous system was wrecked, nearly to a point of hospitalization. (Smoke shops can be abusive and exploitative, i just want a stable job I can go home and not have to work off the clock, unpaid holidays, NO OT pay etc… it’s hell.)

At this point, i’m losing my mind. What’s even professionalism anymore? Why do we expect commitment, communication and perfection from applicants when the hiring managers/storeowners can’t even give the same respect back?! This is so humiliating. I’ve done interviews before and some of the ones i’ve been rejected from were abysmal, or wanted to pay 11/hr for 50+ hours & holding three jobs under one title…(exploitation)

I’m about to be 25, I’ve been a general manager for multiple smoke shops for the past 3/4 years, a barista, as well as being an artist/seamstress.

I dunno. i can’t get in ANY entry level or management positions… I’m really to sell my feet. I’m heartbroken, discouraged and to be homeless with debt piling up. I can barely afford to take care of myself anymore. What’s the point? Do i fake my resume? Die?! I’m OVER IT!

I just want to know where i went wrong, im so depressed. Has anybody else been dealing with this? Does anybody have advice? Anything helps, I feel so alone and useless.