Anybody wanna play badminton?

Got 2 racquets. You bring the cock (shuttle, obviously I'm not asking about the other one). Just don't be cocky about it

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u/AamchurPowder — 20 hours ago

Experience with hostel buddies, splitting costs and preferences

I've been in hostels a few times. New to this culture. What I found out is when I joined these groups of people together. Usually one of the guys tries to dominate and force his preferences to others. Do you feel comfortable?

We planned an outing. Three of us were non-veg but this guy guilt tripped us into spending money on veg food only. He also bought stuff for a taxi driver to show his generosity and expected us to split it.

Sometimes I feel being too nice in these environments gets you ripped off. As in you can't let your guards down at all. They're nice until you are agreeable and accommodating. But their behaviours change when you call them out on these things.

This made me stop joining such groups and go solo. What do you think?

I seriously feel many of these hostel bros are manipulative and the hostel culture of quickly forming bonds is a bit risky. I am new though and looking for advice. Should I avoid hostels and only stick to known friends?

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u/AamchurPowder — 7 days ago
▲ 3 r/drunk

Anybody up for drunk voice chat?

Discord or whatsapp. I'm male. I don't have other intentions so all genders are welcome.

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u/AamchurPowder — 7 days ago

Anybody wants to drink together today? BYOD

Only if you are of legal drinking age.

As a drinking buddy, to give each other company while drinking. Only message if you are adventurous enough to join at night in a public place, which is more or less safe from cops.

Bring Your Own Drink.

u/AamchurPowder — 8 days ago

Anyone fancy a drive to Darjeeling in early September?

Not quite the peak season. So accomodations are cheaper. Crowd is lesser than in peak summer.

My expectations:

Split the fuel costs. We pay for our stays and food separately :)

You can swap seats with me when I'm drowsy. You don't have to drive on the hills so don't worry about that.

I'm planning to stay longer, 2 weeks. Details can be discussed.

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u/AamchurPowder — 9 days ago

Would love to have a mature woman to travel with (end of August)

I'm 27, and fascinated by mature women (max 40s). Feel like they have a different charm. Planning to visit Goa towards the end of August. Would love to have someone travel along with me and do some activities together.

I'm educated and well groomed. Not a bull though! Looking for a nice company and expect the same in return.

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u/AamchurPowder — 10 days ago

Rainwashed Durgapur has a different vibe to it

The roads get waterlogged.

Frogs doing their thing everywhere. Snakes follow them sometimes.

I have missed the proper monsoon season as I was out of India.

Every time I come back to this city during the monsoon, I feel so satisfied.

u/AamchurPowder — 12 days ago

Saturday night drinking session

I am looking for just one person to drink with. If anybody is up let me know. No commitments. If you are up let me know.

Not looking for friendship or anything. Just having a drink with a random person as we do in pubs/bars.

BYOD. Talk anything you feel like.

Today 9-9:30 PM. Time is flexible.

Location: Planning to drink outside somewhere. If you have a safe place let me know.

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u/AamchurPowder — 14 days ago

After 15-16 yrs of friendship, I realised they aren't my best friend at my lowest point

I'm at my lowest point in life. Making questionable decisions and probably taking a lot of risky decisions.

I realised he is not a true friend after all these years. He talks bad behind my back. Well he also doesn't tell me about all his stuff. I was the last to know about his gf. He didn't trust me. Invited him to a drink but he wasn't willing to come.

Worth saying that he did try to come whenever I asked. At some point he wanted to meet me after an incident to make things work. But I feel he disrespected and teased me a lot of times when I was already going through a hard phase in business. Losing clients. I wish I had better friends to support me through.

Came to the hard realisation, he isn't a friend at all. I've known him for 15-16 yrs but he always viewed me as someone not worthy of trust and less of a human? I just realised he isn't my bestie.

That's it. Maybe when you are at the lowest, you realise who is a real friend.

I can't tell him in person. But "Fuck you". I'm done.

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u/AamchurPowder — 14 days ago

Seeking a drinking buddy

I don't like drinking alone. My friends don't drink that often. Moreover, there are no pubs or bars with bustling crowds.

Anyone would like to meet weekly for drinking and talking random stuff over drink?

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u/AamchurPowder — 17 days ago

What nightlife activities are there in Durgapur?

For adults who are no longer teenagers, like not too young nor too old.

Are the pubs any good?

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u/AamchurPowder — 18 days ago

Isolated spots for drinking

I want to drink with a friend. We desperately need an empty spot without moral police or police.

Please suggest us.

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u/AamchurPowder — 18 days ago

I used to hate daily standups now I miss them

Being jobless. I miss how busy and important i used to be. Now I feel worthless. Those daily meetings felt like a drudge. Now I want them so bad.

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u/AamchurPowder — 18 days ago