u/AbiesLow7444

People say that male sex drive dips in 30s while women's spikes in 30s twenties are most sexual relationships I am 22 quite young but I feel like I'm wasting time but not getting into relationships

For the first time I tried to dress something stylish instead of t-shirt and jeans when I went outside, for the fuck sake I got so many stares, from men, women , children , it made me so uncomfortable, I wanted to go home as fast as possible I feel so embarrasing, why can't I just wear something fashionable, and make sure no one looks at me. Oh god I don't want to dress again fashionably

I genuinely think women are beautiful in a way that’s hard to explain properly. Not just physically, but everything about them their smile, their laugh, the way they speak, the little expressions they make without realizing it. Sometimes I’ll just see a girl being herself and completely lose my train of thought for a second.

I honestly get confused by how pretty they are sometimes. Like, why did God make them this beautiful? I’ll talk to a girl and my chest genuinely hurts a little because of how adorable she is. It sounds dramatic, but it’s true.Why can’t they just be uglyl? Why do they have to smile like that or laugh like that and make the entire world feel softer for a moment?

And it’s not always even about attraction in a sexual way. Sometimes it’s just pure admiration. The way a woman’s energy can brighten a room, the comfort in her voice, the warmth in her presence it stays in your mind longer than you expect. Hearing a woman laugh can genuinely make me forget whatever stress I had for a little while.

I think deep down I just love the idea of loving someone fully someday. Making her happy, seeing her eyes light up, holding her close after a long day, listening to her talk about random things, being there for each other through everything. I want the kind of love where you look at someone and feel lucky they exist at all.

because honestly, girls are so unfairly pretty it almost feels unreal. I wish girls were ugly
I don't know about gay men and their attraction, I always found guys to be ugly even the conventionally attractive ones so never found why Women liked Men, I believe Women can be emotionally attracted to men but not physically, I wish Women were ugly then I can happily date them knowing I don't find them physically attractive

I recently opened Instagram. Yeah, I’m kind of late for a 22-year-old. It’s the first non-anonymous social media account I’ve ever created. People used to call me old-fashioned because the only way to reach me was by having my number, but I eventually made an Instagram account because it’s what everyone asks for these days, especially during networking, so it felt necessary.

The thing is, I’ve never really been someone who enjoys going out a lot, especially to expensive places. But after joining Instagram, I keep seeing stories that make me feel like I’m missing out on life. At the same time, whenever I do go on trips or hang out with friends, I genuinely enjoy it, but afterward I feel so mentally exhausted that I usually don’t talk to anyone for days.

What surprised me the most is realizing how often my friends, family members, and other people go out, meet new people, and constantly hang out, while I’m usually just at home, maybe playing a little Pokémon or reading a book that caught my interest.

The more I use Instagram, the more I start asking myself:

>“Am I wasting my time? My youth?” “Am I too comfortable in my comfort zone?” “Will I regret this lifestyle later?”

And the more I think about it, the more anxious I become.

A part of me wants to explore the world, meet lots of people, and experience more things. But another part of me vividly remembers how exhausting traveling or being around groups of people can feel for me.

I used chatgpt for strictly grammer cuz lasted I posted I got heavily criticized for grammer, sorry man english is not my first language

I recently opened Instagram. Yeah, I’m kind of late for a 22-year-old. It’s the first non-anonymous social media account I’ve ever created. People used to call me old-fashioned because the only way to reach me was by having my number, but I eventually made an Instagram account because it’s what everyone asks for these days, especially during networking, so it felt necessary.

The thing is, I’ve never really been someone who enjoys going out a lot, especially to expensive places. But after joining Instagram, I keep seeing stories that make me feel like I’m missing out on life. At the same time, whenever I do go on trips or hang out with friends, I genuinely enjoy it, but afterward I feel so mentally exhausted that I usually don’t talk to anyone for days.

What surprised me the most is realizing how often my friends, family members, and other people go out, meet new people, and constantly hang out, while I’m usually just at home, maybe playing a little Pokémon or reading a book that caught my interest.

The more I use Instagram, the more I start asking myself:

>“Am I wasting my time? My youth?” “Am I too comfortable in my comfort zone?” “Will I regret this lifestyle later?”

And the more I think about it, the more anxious I become.

A part of me wants to explore the world, meet lots of people, and experience more things. But another part of me vividly remembers how exhausting traveling or being around groups of people can feel for me.

Like you can look at r/sexworkers subreddit literally complains about guys falling in love and wanting to spend thounsands of money on them , men spend thousands of dollars for women's just attention some of them are willing to provide a good job for them, some are willing to marry and these are not even like super ugly dudes imagine a women is willing to spend lot of money just for your attention just imagine, you can only imagine

My sister says she doesn’t want to date fit or muscular men, even though most of her celebrity or fictional crushes like some K-pop or BL characters are exactly that type: strong and well-built.

When I asked her why, she said she does find those men attractive, but she assumes that guys who go to the gym, do skincare, or take care of their appearance tend to be narcissistic or toxic.

The confusing part is that she knows men in her own friend circle who are fit and clearly not like that. So it feels like she has a type she’s attracted to, but avoids dating them because of a general assumption.

I feel like she might regret limiting herself this way, especially since she’s still young. Is this kind of mindset normal, and is there anything I can do to help her feel more comfortable dating the kind of people she’s actually attracted to?