



TCL Flip Bedazzled | My Newest Addition
Very useful purchase indeed. Especially when I need a break from my smartphone.




Very useful purchase indeed. Especially when I need a break from my smartphone.
This year makes it 2 years that I’ve been an active natural. All I can do is my personal best and hope that God willing everything else falls into place. It literally just occurred to me (it sinked in) that I’m a natural and what that means 😇. I’m going to take myself out to dinner 🍽️ to celebrate this milestone. Hopefully this inspires someone to keep going.
Thank you for reading 📚.
Good morning ☀️. I used As I Am Rosemary styling mousse. I haven’t had a perm rod set in a long while. I got new perm rods that are a different size and different colors from the beauty supply store. I just had to use them to exercise my skills 😫. I will only get better 😇. Thank you for reading 📚.
Lip
MAC lipliner Chestnut
Ruby Kisses lipstick Bare Nude
Ruby Kisses Jellicious lipgloss in clear
Eyeshadow
Anastasia Beverly Hills Sultry pallet silver shade
Face
Rare Beauty cream blush Love
e.l.f. Power Grip primer
Miliani 8hr setting spray
Brows
L.A. Girl Brown Pomade
Upon reaching year 30, I made a vow to myself to wear Asha (my hair) out every birthday 🎂🥳 to symbolize that my hair seriously can be worn over and over again in its natural state. That I don’t need extensions to feel special on that day. I do wear extensions sometimes, but my birthday is important to me to wear Asha out in her natural state. This personal new year I went with mini twists. Thank you for reading 📚.
So, like there is the typical half up and half down right? I decided to do that same style with an old braid out for the ponytail and finger coils in the back. It’s not something that usually goes together, but I was like “What the heck? Why not? 🤷🏽♀️” The curls on the sides really made for a nice touch in my opinion. I don’t wear slick backs often and when I do I only wear them for ‘bout 2-3 days.
What hairstyles have you done or tried creatively or that doesn’t usually go together 🤔? Thank you for reading 📚.
On another note, y’all this is the best my twist out has looked in a long while 😭🪮. Okay. Anyway, have a beautiful week everyone.
What l used for my recent twist out. It works out well in my opinion every time and the products are affordable too. 🪮🪮🪮 the Doux Mousse Def and Donna’s Recipe Extra Creamy Hair and Scalp Oil.
As a Black woman and eldest daughter I never felt safe enough to voice that I’m living multiple realities at once and sometimes it gets to me. I’m also working on accepting that I’m different and that it’s okay. Growing up there was an unspoken understanding that I was different and it made me feel alone even if surrounded by people, family etc. That said nowadays I’m embracing community and self love. 🩷 It’s not easy, but I’m trying. Thanks for reading 📚
Talk about a last minute hairstyle under pressure 🫠🥴. I went to a sapphic 🏳️🌈 party and my hair went
well that night. It was my first time wearing it to an event like that and I proved to myself once again that I can wear Asha to a special occasion.
It’s giving winter in the summer time. A new color 🎨 combination I’m happy I tried. I wore this look to my first sapphic party 🎊 🏳️🌈💃🏽and it was a good choice for the night.
Face
Beauty Bakerie Bounce Foundation 3.75
Love the matte look it lasts a good while throughout the night. You can dance the night away and it holds up.
e.l.f. Power Grip Primer
Lip
IZME liquid lipstick in mahogany
Eyes
NYX gray color from petal palette
Brows
L.A. Girl Pomade in brown
It’s not much, but Asha has come a long way and is going even further :) I’m so proud of her. Whatever goals you have, know that you can and will do it 💪🏽. Cheers 🥂 to our natural hair journeys guys 👍🏽. Thank you for reading 📚.
I literally fucking learned: if a stem or a stud gives off the ladies man vibe, spirit or energy to go the OTHER way!!!!!! As a fem presenting woman who’s queer; if they give off the vibes that they’re collecting hearts instead of building one. Baby, just pack it up. The initial feeling is nice, but after a while!? 😭😭😫😫😫 ABSOLUTELY THE FUCK NOT. I needed to rant quickly and get this out damn!
P.S. I understand that not every stud or stem is this way and some women cannot help their vibe. I get that, but those who understand, understand. 💆🏽♀️
As a fine haired, low porosity girlie, this is ultimately life changing. Where on God’s green Earth has this been my entire natural hair journey? I basically have African Pre Poo in my kitchen now. I fear I will not go back to a store bought pre poo for a long periodically time 🤷🏽♀️😇🥰. The definition, the slip, the detangle, just chefs kiss. I’m thinking about trying it to style Asha (my hair) I’ll come back much later with an update..
Have you tried flaxseed gel? How do you use it? How long have you been using it if you do use it. I sort of feel like a fool for just now discovering this 😭😫. The important part is I have it now.
Thank you for reading 📚.
I understand that a side part is not much for some. I was very nervous 😬 about stepping out of my comfort zone with this. Plus, I’ve heard👂🏽that having the same middle part isn’t a good thing sometimes and that it’s good to switch it up ⬆️ . Especially with my braid out!? A new level unlocked 🔓 for me. I’m actually geeked for this oh my gosh 🤭. Asha (the name of my hair) looks beautiful ☺️🥰.
I don’t regret it. Thank you for reading 📚.
Photos 1️⃣ through 3️⃣ with side part.
Photo 4️⃣ without side part.
I am so proud of my curls 🥹. I feel like a proud mother 🥲.
Photo 1️⃣ July 2024 (I cut my hair off at the end of July)
Photo 2️⃣ February 2025
Photo 3️⃣ September 2025
Photos 4️⃣ and 5️⃣April 2026
I seriously was not expecting this difference in appearance or fullness, but here I am 🫣😇. I also have fine hair sooo… despite the rep we get I suppose there is hope after all? Don’t get me wrong, this may not be a significant difference. But, a difference nonetheless?
Thank you for reading 📚.