u/Actual-Contest1666

So I like this one ISTP and in the past few months it's been like me sending her random reels and it took her like 1-2 weeks to just reply with a sticker. Looking at how long it took her to reply, I decide to not do it anymore.

I meet her once every 2-3 weeks.

She never send me any reels first or chat me. So I find it strange when she suddenly messaged me and said her dog became clingy after I left...

Just why now? Just wanna know the reasoning behind this.

Informing someone about your dog's behavior doesn't feel very istp to me

I really dont have to say anything?
But can i still say anything at all?
like suddenly asking your opinion about existencial philosophy?

Hey hello there! for introduction i am an INTP.

Long storyshort i have ISTP cousin i meet her once every one or two month when i visit my auntie house. When i visit sometime i stayed for maybe around 3-5 days. During those 3-5 days i interacted with my cousin, sometimes she looks cold sometimes she feels warm, sometimes she's silence but overall i feel like the interaction is pleasant (not sure if she think the same, or if i am invading her space) because i am trying to be aware of her needs to be alone and not bugging her every few hours to ask what shes doing (which i probably did at some point).

well anyway our routine recently when i visit usually is eating breakfast while watching TV together, sleep in the couch during the day, some random talk during the night or just watch netflix.

after 3-5 days i leave and the interaction is fun for me so i tried to chat her sometime, like sharing some random topics or just reels.. it took her 4 days to 1 weeks just to reply with simple frog sticker on every messages.

So just wondering is this the thing with ISTP? good in person but ghost you on chat? because to be honest no one go on their day without looking at their phone, so tbh it feels kinda strange to me.

What bug me is the pattern just didnt match...

some random memory, One conversation i remember:
There is one time i barge into her room, just take a seat and do my own stuff, and she also only continue working with her own stuff. I suddenly randomly realized the space is too small for the two of us, so i say "It seems like you need some space, i will leave okay" and she replied with "but you want to stay right?", and i just stayed at my spot in silence.

Just curious!