u/Additional-Rule-6073

Ok i’m a 20 year-old guy and I’ve been working at this job for six months now, most of my coworkers love me and a lot of them say I’m the hardest worker there.

Even some of the older coworkers who weren’t particularly a fan of me at first really came around to me and I came around to them.

However there’s this one coworker of mine about mid 20s and around 6’2 who has never particularly been a fan of me.

Ever since my second day of work, he’s been giving me these hot and cold behavior.

And look he’s by no means a mean person he’s nice enough to me and he has charisma. He’s not stoic boring or grumpy and me and him have had our moments( to an extent anyway) but he’s just never really had faith in me always bosses me around when he gets the chance
Treats me like I’m a lower being and just isn’t very polite to me.

And I acknowledge that I’m nowhere in here. Perfect. I’m only human. I’ve made my mistakes but even when I make my mistakes with my other coworkers and ASM‘s at work, they’ve never really been hard on me. They’ve understood most of the time and most importantly, they like me they’re polite they treat me like anyone else.

But with this guy, even when I make the smallest mistakes, he’s so hard on me and rude even one time when one of my other coworkers said it wasn’t a big deal. He just kept being hard on me.

And the weird thing is as far as I know he’s just doing this to me I’ve never seen him. Do this to any of my other coworkers it’s just been me since the second day of work for no reason.

Heck, I’ll give you an example of something that happened this morning. We were loading up I believe a refrigerator in someone’s truck and we were using the dolly to get it outside and I was the one moving it and I was having no problem at all and out of nowhere he just said GIVE ME IT! he didn’t even ask if I had it or if I was all right like what the heck?

I’ve always been professional with him, but he’s never been the same with me so I really don’t know what to do or how to feel. I just feel confused rn, what do I do?

Ok i’m a 20 year-old guy and I’ve been working at this job for six months now, most of my coworkers love me and a lot of them say I’m the hardest worker there.

Even some of the older coworkers who weren’t particularly a fan of me at first really came around to me and I came around to them.

However there’s this one coworker of mine about mid 20s and around 6’2 who has never particularly been a fan of me.

Ever since my second day of work, he’s been giving me these hot and cold behavior.

And look he’s by no means a mean person he’s nice enough to me and he has charisma. He’s not stoic boring or grumpy and me and him have had our moments( to an extent anyway) but he’s just never really had faith in me always bosses me around when he gets the chance
Treats me like I’m a lower being and just isn’t very polite to me.

And I acknowledge that I’m nowhere in here. Perfect. I’m only human. I’ve made my mistakes but even when I make my mistakes with my other coworkers and ASM‘s at work, they’ve never really been hard on me. They’ve understood most of the time and most importantly, they like me they’re polite they treat me like anyone else.

But with this guy, even when I make the smallest mistakes, he’s so hard on me and rude even one time when one of my other coworkers said it wasn’t a big deal. He just kept being hard on me.

And the weird thing is as far as I know he’s just doing this to me I’ve never seen him. Do this to any of my other coworkers it’s just been me since the second day of work for no reason.

Heck, I’ll give you an example of something that happened this morning. We were loading up I believe a refrigerator in someone’s truck and we were using the dolly to get it outside and I was the one moving it and I was having no problem at all and out of nowhere he just said GIVE ME IT! he didn’t even ask if I had it or if I was all right like what the heck?

I’ve always been professional with him, but he’s never been the same with me so I really don’t know what to do or how to feel. I just feel confused rn, what do I do?

I’ve been on my current TikTok account for almost 3 years now I’ve had a few droughts here and there, but I’ve been mostly successful a couple months ago. I had three hit videos in a row, but 99% of video since then have flopped, and barely gotten any views i’ve tried everything but I’m considering throwing in the towel now.

What I mean by that is why are most subreddits so toxic and negative and the people are all the same and very few(like this one) have really nice people.

Everyone on here is always in such a bad mood like when I ask a simple question they always respond in such a rude and disrespectful way and I’m just not tolerating it anymore between this Twitter/X and even TikTok in a way I’m just done.

That’s right I said it, I genuinely hate working, It has nothing to do with being lazy it’s just so miserable to me, My Job is by no means and bad job it’s great and I get paid well,But I just don’t like it, I started my job 5 months ago to get my insurance for my car and you think it would eventually grow on me but no, It’s just the same thing everyday, I have dreams and know where I wanna live and what want to do, But as for my job rn what advice do you have for me?

A couple months ago, my life was a nightmare, but it has improved a lot since then but last night was pretty rough for me, since it was super late, I really didn’t have anybody to talk to. My mom doesn’t care and my dad didn’t really care that much either, so I came on here to vent out my feelings and while most people were pretty helpful there was one person that says why do you think anyone on Reddit will care? We don’t know you, and the sad part is it’s true this place is soulless, So what’s even the point of staying on here?

I’ve never posted on here before, but I’m gonna say this,

Why is it whenever my job or anyone else needs help I’m always there for them, but whenever I need someone to talk to I’m always on my own?

A couple months ago my life was a nightmare and while it has gotten better,

I just don’t find it exciting anymore.

I work a dead job, my mom doesn’t give a shit about me,

my dad does but still,

all my other family members are so hard on me but whenever my two younger cousins make mistakes, they always gloss over it and don’t worry about it too much,

even people on here don’t give two craps about me, they always ignore my post and there will be like thousands of people who see it, I do my best to lean on God but honestly my life is just a soulless mess now I wish I could just get out of here for a while and just exist in my own space and not have to worry about anything.

Why is it whenever my job or anyone else needs help I’m always there for them, but whenever I need someone to talk to I’m always on my own?

A couple months ago my life was a nightmare and while it has gotten better, I just don’t find it exciting anymore. I work a dead job, my mom doesn’t give a shit about me, my dad does but still, all my other family members are so hard on me but whenever my two younger cousins make mistakes, they always gloss over it and don’t worry about it too much, even people on here don’t give two craps about me, they always ignore my post and there will be like thousands of people who see it, I do my best to lean on God, but honestly my life is just a soulless mess now I wish I could just get out of here for a while and just exist in my own space and not have to worry about anything.