u/Advanced-Ad-6169

Does anybody has access to some eco survey short notes in English? I tried reading the original one and even tho we aren't supposed to read it line by line, it's still taking so much time. Since i just started preparing, i don't have that kind of time. Of someone cud suggest some short notes for eco survey, it would be really great!

Also pls drop ur tips and tricks to cover larger marks wale topics in shorter time, or drop some high ROI or easier to complete topics. Basically helpppppppppp😭🫶

Is it too late now to start? I have prepared for upsc before to India wala portion thoda bohot pdha hua hai, but rajasthan wala is entirely new for me. Upr se economic survey me to kuch yaad hi nahi hora🥲🥲🥲

Reposting cz i deleted it by mistake 🥲

So I came across a post on one of those Matchmaking subs. A guy posted about wanting to find a partner who is free from physical past and how he is tired of people treating matrimonial sites as another tinder. How he doesn't like the hookup culture and can not be a part of it and wants to save himself for his marriage and is looking for someone similar. Of how he has never come across a girl who does t have emotional baggage from a past sexual relationship.

The guy's profile seemed decent. Same culture, same state, same geographical location, same age, same religion (you get the point, right), a lil shorter than my preference (I want someone 4-5 inches taller thn me, he was just 1 inch taller), but since height is a preference and not a deal breaker, I don't mind if the person otherwise is good.

Now about me, I have been in a relationship and a few talking stages, but never had a physical relationship by choice. I have always made this clear to whoever I was talking to that I will not be going down that way. They were all nice enough to respect that. And that's the kind of partner I wud want for myself tooo.

Which is why I texted him up. (Mistake?)

Now here comes the interesting part. In between our conversation he asked me what my worst fear of marriage is. I listed below honestly in no specific order.

Mar1tal rap3?

Tortured for d0wry?

Murd3r?

Being reduced to a third class outsider

Having my life restricted

Being under constant observation

Being judged on what I wear. What I eat, how I eat, where I go, when I sleep, when I wake up

Having to ask permission from 10 ppl to meet my own birth parents

And being told no

Cheating (Emotional or physical)

Domestic violence

Being with someone who absolutely hates me and actively tries to make my life hell or in such family

Sleeping next to the person knowing he doesn't even think of me as a human deserving basic human decency

Emotional manipulation/torture

Being reduced to a bangmaid Or a maid who also earns for u

In laws wali politics

My jewellery being snatched away for "safe keeping"

Addition: Being married to an emotionally idiot, manchild, Mommy lover who can be easily manipulated and thinks every one is right except his wife.

Being married to someone who thinks all women are gold diggers while asking for Gold from my own parents

Being made a baby machine with no actual shared responsibility because "It's a mother's job. Kids need their mothers more" blabla shit

What makes is even more interesting is his three responses to this list.

1."If ur thinking is like this, to its gonna be really difficult" Umm, sir u wanted my fear to be what if my husband gifts me a luxury car on my bday? What if my MIL loves me and treats me better thn her own son?

2."Are you by any chance from Bihar? These things happen in UP and Bihar"

3." Why don't u try dating apps?" The whole point of the conversation was us being against dating apps. Anyway I asked him, why don't YOU try dating apps? He replies, "Everybody is there just for time pass/hookups" And thn Dear Sir has the audacity to suggest me dating apps in the same line bcs "Girls get more matches".

I told him ki i hold his advice in high regard and I am downloading tinder as we speak. (I didn't, duh) Wished him luck n ewwwwed myself to sleep.

I am genuinely confused of what was this. What did I witness? Was i too upfront too soon? Are they unrealistic fears? Have we not seen atleast few of these things happening in families somewhere? And is it gonna be really difficult finding a partner with such fears and requirements (no physical past)? Have u come across such an instance and how u think i should handle something like this in future?

Edit: To the guys with zero comprehension skills, texting me, asking what's wrong in wanting a v1rg1n wife when is also v1rg1n. Bhai atleast read it fully? If u have trouble understanding English, try giving it to ChatGpt maybe?. I am also a v1rg1n and want a partner with no physical past. That was not the issue, that was not what the post is about.

Kon kon jara aaj?

I don't need a date. I already have company. Pr kon kon jaara h abhi 11 bje?

If anyone ever needed a masterclass in how surreal Indian education governance has become. Look no further than the absolute circus of the last 24 hours.
Here is a quick timeline:
Act I (The PR & Promises): Prime Minister Shri Narendra Modi drops a self-recorded video and tweets promising "more strict action" against paper leaks.
Act II (The Reality Check - Same Day): News breaks that yet another paper has leaked. Veer Madho Singh Bhandari Uttarakhand Technical University (UTU) officially canceled two major semester exams after discovering an external professor casually leaked questions on WhatsApp and the college portal.
Act III (The Punchline): To top it all off, the CBI casually comes out and drops a clean chit for Sanjeev Mukhiya. Hailed as the main mastermind/kingpin behind the massive 2024 NEET paper leak.
What a joke.

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