u/AdvantagePuzzled8773

i tried cooking fried rice like several times now, but still not that great, i only use cooked rice a day ago, scrambled eggs, oyster sauce and soy sauce, with sesame oil... im a totally beginner when doing this, and im pretty sure something im doing is wrong... it might be the seasoning, or salt, or using wrong proportion of soy sauce or something not sure...

i experimented last time with rice, i deep fried lefover rice, and they just kinda popped up and floated on the oil... should i do this when doing fried rice?

please help me

edit: i mentioned deep frying the rice because when i cook fried rice, i noticed they are steaming instead of frying

edit 2: when i add lefover rice to hot pan with some oil, i also add soy sauce and oyster sauce and sesame oil, is this wrong? should i leave them till the end?

We have a neighbor man, in his like maybe 60's or so... my mom is in her 50's and my dad is in his 60's also... so in our family we love jesus and pray daily, our neighbor doesent pray even that he is a christian, he is distant... our house is the only house he comes to, he loves my father, it became a daily routine for him to come to our house, he sit with my father and mother... it is tradition in our country to have hospitality as number 1 priority... i talked to him several.times to him about jesus, even my father did, we are not perfect... but things that are annoying me are 2 things, 1st, he brings chocolate bars and chips for my parrents and try to help my father while i am present and i can help him, the problem is: i have seen the same behavior in someone deceptive once, and it spooks me out, they try to win your heart with small gifts especially weak people who are shy to respond, then later on they can do whatever they want and ask what ever they want...

2nd, and this made me spooky about things, he knows that my father sleeps daily at 8pm, amd also he knows that at that hour till like 12 or 1 am my mother like to sit alone on the balcony watching her favorite show on youtube, the balcony is on the gound floor surrounded by curtains so no one can see inside or outside, but the entrance is through a very small gate which can easily be opened, and all our neighbors that wants to visits they just open the gate from outside and enters, it is like a habbit... what made me spooky is that its the 3rd night he is visiting us past visting hours like at 10 and 11pm (in my country visiting hours should be a common sense, unless your a close relative, or at least at least my dad should be known to be awake at this hours, but everyone knows he is asleep at this hour)... those 3 times it happened that i was with my mother, but usually im not with her... my mom is a very kind sweet person, but she is not wise... neither my father is wise... usually at this time my mom wears pijamas with a robe, so it is very decent clothes, but im thinking in the furture when the weather becomes hot, she will be wearing pijamas that is not befitting to be seen by a stranger... plus sometimes at this hour my mom takes a shower, which the wc where she takes shower is next balcony with a small clowdy window, so everything can be heard...

I found this very annoying for him to visit us at this hour especially he knows my father is sleeping at this hour... he have asked about these details before... he may or may not have bad intentions, but lets say he doesent have bad intentions, i dont want this to become a habbit because you can never knows what the devil can stir up minds, he can influence both of them or one of them in a bad way...

All what i care is to protect my parrents, espeially my mother

So the last time he visited i was there, i just didnt talk to him, i pretended doing something on the laptop, i was harsh, he knew there was something wrong, the next day he helped my dad again with something i can help, then when i came outside to help him, he kind of made a snud remark to me that is something wrong with you yesterday did i do someyhing wrong to you because i felt you didnt liked me yesterday...

I trully dont know if he has bad or good intention, he lives with his sister, and he is divorced with his children not talking to him, so he may be longing for a friend to embrace him or love him, or he may have ill intetion

I also tried to teach my parrents to be more aware about this

My question, am i overreacting? Jesus told us to love one another, and if someone walked you a mile go with him 2 miles and similar stuff... im just feel a bit regret about what i did last time, i dont want to sin to jesus, and i dont want to wrongly accuse someone...

Especailly that lately i have discovered a bad side of me, which is me being sooooo over protective, and i try to make other do what i tell them to do which is wrong...

Is my fear legit? And how can i approach the situation in a christian way?

This situation have greatly troubled me, what can i do? Should i be honest with him like we dont like anyone to visit us after past visting hours and stuff?

Sorry for the long explanation