u/Andreea5667

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F25 ani, sunt din Bacău, am terminat facultatea și m am intors in orasul natal. Mi-ar plăcea să cunosc fete cu care să mai ies, să bem o cafea, să povestim, sa facem chestii random:)) putem face si un grup mai mare pe insta/whapp unde sa vorbim, ma simt foarte aloneee. Dacă mai e cineva în aceeași situație, dați-mi un mesaj. Promit ca nu sunt o dubioasa🥺

Vă super multumesc

Bunaaa

Eu și iubitul meu ne dorim să mergem într-o vacanță în România și am avea la dispoziție aproximativ o săptămână. Încă nu ne-am hotărât asupra destinației și ne-ar plăcea să primim câteva recomandări.

Ne dorim un loc unde să avem parte atât de peisaje frumoase, cât și de activități interesante și distractive. Ne puteți recomanda câteva locații care merită vizitate?

Today I am going to my third psychotherapy session, and I am not sure if it is effective for me. I went through a breakup, and I decided to see a psychologist to work on my issues and cope better with the relationship ending.

I don’t feel like it is helping me so far, and I feel like I haven’t received answers to my questions. I don’t know what I will talk about today.

Is it too early to feel this way, considering it is only my third session? I go once a week.

I don't know what to do and I'd really appreciate some advice.

I miss my ex a lot, and I feel like I can't fully move on until I see him and know for sure whether there's any chance left or if he truly doesn't want to get back together and no longer has feelings for me.

I was the one who ended the relationship initially, but I regretted it, and now I'm the one who wants to reconcile. The problem is that he doesn't want that anymore.

I'm not necessarily thinking about trying to convince him or pressure him into getting back together. I just feel the need to see him, talk to him normally, maybe even as friends, and find out whether there's still something between us or if he's completely moved on.

Do you think meeting up with him would be a good idea, or would it just make things harder for me? At the same time, I wonder whether this strong desire to see him and get some clarity will ever go away if I don't meet him.

I feel that, regardless of his answer, at least I would know that I tried and had the chance to talk to him. If he truly doesn't want anything anymore, I'll probably be hurt, but maybe I won't keep holding on to hope that things could change.

Have any of you been in a similar situation? Did having one last conversation help you move on, or did it make things worse?

Has anyone had an ex who was the one to end the relationship come back later and want to get back together?

A month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend, I initiated the breakup. Things hadn't been going well between us for several months, so I moved out of the apartment we were living in together, while he stayed there.

On the day I left, he told me that maybe we would see each other again and that we might get back together once each of us had worked through our own issues. Since that day, I held on to the hope that we would eventually reconcile. During the time we were apart, I spent a lot of time reflecting on our relationship, and somehow I came to believe that some of the behaviors that pushed him away may have been caused by me as well. I have many regrets, and I feel like I may have been looking for a perfect person who simply doesn't exist.

However, about a week later, he told me that he was almost completely over the relationship, that he no longer loved me, and that he never wanted to see me again. I don't know what to think about this. He was quite angry at the time, one moment he would say that he loved me, and the next he would say that he didn't.. I tried quite hard to convince him to give us another chance, but those were the things he kept telling me.

A few days ago, we spoke again, and I told him that I would still like us to spend time together, even if only as friends. He replied that I make him miss me and that I don't allow him to forget me. He asked me whether I might fall in love with him again if we continued seeing each other, and whether spending time together wouldn't bring back feelings of longing, hope, and memories for me.

In a way, he seemed open to the idea, but I still don't know what to think. Somehow, the questions he asked make me feel that he might experience those same emotions if we were to see each other again, and perhaps that is why he is avoiding meeting me. After four years together, it is difficult for me to accept that everything is over, and I keep wondering whether there is still a chance for us to get back together.

Does anyone else wake up in the morning feeling the deepest pain about their ex? Especially when I've had beautiful dreams about him, those really mess me up and make me suffer even more. At night, I go to bet feeling at peace, almost over him.

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I ended a 4-year relationship, during which we lived together for 1.5 years. While we were living together, I felt like I was becoming unhappy in the relationship. I asked for more time together, but I wasn’t given that. I felt like we didn’t share the same hobbies and that he was holding me back from evolving. I was becoming more and more unhappy, and I noticed that his lifestyle wasn’t something I liked either.

I started to not tolerate him anymore (the feeling was mutual). I started to believe I didn’t love him anymore, I was constantly waiting to leave, I cried every night, and I regretted moving in together. I went through a period of a few months like this; we argued very often because I didn’t feel understood or loved, and I reacted very badly — I simply couldn’t stand the situation anymore.

Eventually, I decided to leave and end the relationship permanently. In a way, he also knew for a long time that this was coming. The night before I left, I told him I would go, and we both started crying. He told me he loved me but that we simply don’t fit together, that we had tried many times and it doesn’t work. He admitted it wasn’t only my fault.

I know I was also at fault many times. The day I left, I woke up and found him crying. He had to leave the house that day and he was crying; he kissed me goodbye. When I left, I saw him one last time and he told me maybe we would see each other again, maybe we would solve our problems and get back together — and that created a lot of hope in me.

That day, when I got home and for three days after, we talked and he told me he cares about me a lot, that he is afraid he won’t find someone like me, that he misses me. But he also said we shouldn’t create hope that we will get back together, and that the safest path is to focus on moving on because it’s better for us.

After a week we still talked a bit, mostly me initiating, and he replied slowly and briefly, saying it would be better not to talk anymore. He said he was almost over me, that he doesn’t love me anymore, that he never wants us to get back together, and that now he just needs to get over the habit. He even said that maybe he never loved me and that we had more bad than good in the relationship.

I don’t know what to believe, because he used to tell me he loved me, show it, say he felt something he had never felt before, and that he saw a future with me and was sure he loved me. When I told him this, he said that just because those things happened doesn’t mean someone is in love — he said he was just in a vulnerable period.

Anyway, we didn’t talk for a week. Then I called him to see how he was doing, and he told me about his life, and then asked me what I had been doing because he thought about me daily. He said he still cares about me as someone he was with for 4 years, but again said he doesn’t want us to get back together.

A few days later, when we talked again, he told me he doesn’t love me and that maybe he never did.

I don’t know what to believe. I live with a lot of regret, feeling like his behavior was caused by me, while he says he didn’t do anything wrong and that I am the only one to blame.

Now I have broken no contact completely for 2 days. I know this time it’s final. Deep down I still hope he will text me one day, I still hope for reconciliation, and I’m trying to get rid of this thought. I think about him every day, I dream about him for the past 4 days — dreams where we get back together and everything is beautiful — and these dreams are destroying me.

I don’t know what happened to me. I felt so unhappy for months, and now that I left I feel like I love him so much and that he is the person meant for me. I thought I wouldn’t suffer at all, but now I keep blaming myself constantly.

I ended a 4-year relationship, during which we lived together for 1.5 years. While we were living together, I felt like I was becoming unhappy in the relationship. I asked for more time together, but I wasn’t given that. I felt like we didn’t share the same hobbies and that he was holding me back from evolving. I was becoming more and more unhappy, and I noticed that his lifestyle wasn’t something I liked either.

I started to not tolerate him anymore (the feeling was mutual). I started to believe I didn’t love him anymore, I was constantly waiting to leave, I cried every night, and I regretted moving in together. I went through a period of a few months like this; we argued very often because I didn’t feel understood or loved, and I reacted very badly — I simply couldn’t stand the situation anymore.

Eventually, I decided to leave and end the relationship permanently. In a way, he also knew for a long time that this was coming. The night before I left, I told him I would go, and we both started crying. He told me he loved me but that we simply don’t fit together, that we had tried many times and it doesn’t work. He admitted it wasn’t only my fault.

I know I was also at fault many times. The day I left, I woke up and found him crying. He had to leave the house that day and he was crying; he kissed me goodbye. When I left, I saw him one last time and he told me maybe we would see each other again, maybe we would solve our problems and get back together — and that created a lot of hope in me.

That day, when I got home and for three days after, we talked and he told me he cares about me a lot, that he is afraid he won’t find someone like me, that he misses me. But he also said we shouldn’t create hope that we will get back together, and that the safest path is to focus on moving on because it’s better for us.

After a week we still talked a bit, mostly me initiating, and he replied slowly and briefly, saying it would be better not to talk anymore. He said he was almost over me, that he doesn’t love me anymore, that he never wants us to get back together, and that now he just needs to get over the habit. He even said that maybe he never loved me and that we had more bad than good in the relationship.

I don’t know what to believe, because he used to tell me he loved me, show it, say he felt something he had never felt before, and that he saw a future with me and was sure he loved me. When I told him this, he said that just because those things happened doesn’t mean someone is in love — he said he was just in a vulnerable period.

Anyway, we didn’t talk for a week. Then I called him to see how he was doing, and he told me about his life, and then asked me what I had been doing because he thought about me daily. He said he still cares about me as someone he was with for 4 years, but again said he doesn’t want us to get back together.

A few days later, when we talked again, he told me he doesn’t love me and that maybe he never did.

I don’t know what to believe. I live with a lot of regret, feeling like his behavior was caused by me, while he says he didn’t do anything wrong and that I am the only one to blame.

Now I have broken no contact completely for 2 days. I know this time it’s final. Deep down I still hope he will text me one day, I still hope for reconciliation, and I’m trying to get rid of this thought. I think about him every day, I dream about him for the past 4 days — dreams where we get back together and everything is beautiful — and these dreams are destroying me.

I don’t know what happened to me. I felt so unhappy for months, and now that I left I feel like I love him so much and that he is the person meant for me. I thought I wouldn’t suffer at all, but now I keep blaming myself constantly.

I am so hurt. My 4-year relationship ended a month ago, and we had lived together for almost 2 years. Even though I felt unhappy in the relationship and cried every night, the relationship had started to become toxic because I felt it wasn't what I truly wanted. Now that we've broken up, I deeply regret it. I've regretted it since the first week after I left, even though I was the one who ended the relationship. I blame myself, thinking that his behavior was caused by me.

I made the big mistake of trying to talk to other guys, and now I realize how good he was for me. He doesn't want me back under any circumstances, and we've completely cut contact. He said that he never wants to get back together with me.

On the day I left, he cried and told me that we would see each other again once we had worked through our problems, and that maybe we would get back together. He said he didn't think he would ever get over me. He also used to tell me that he was afraid he would never find someone like me again. Yet only a week later, he told me that he was almost over me and that he didn't love me anymore. He told me that he doesn't even want to be with someone like me anymore. He said that he now felt freedom and happiness, and that there was no longer anyone stressing him out. He even told me that he didn't think he had ever loved me in the first place.

That hurts so much. I think about him every day, constantly. Even when I'm working or doing different activities, everything seems to remind me of him. I'm going to therapy, so I hope that one day I'll be okay..

Hello everyone, I kindly ask you from the bottom of my heart to pray for me. I am going through a very painful breakup after a long-term relationship, and I feel completely overwhelmed and broken inside.

I am struggling to find peace, strength, and hope, and I am afraid of falling into depression. I truly need God to help me heal my heart, hold me together, and guide me through this pain. I ask for forgiveness, healing, and peace in my soul. My wish is to become a better person through this experience.

If it is God’s will, may our paths meet again for the good of both of us. If not, please pray that I find acceptance, healing, and strength to move forward.

Please also pray for my ex-boyfriend, that he may be healthy, safe, and at peace, as he is also going through health difficulties.

Thank you from my heart.

Hello everyone, I kindly ask you from the bottom of my heart to pray for me. I am going through a very painful breakup after a long-term relationship, and I feel completely overwhelmed and broken inside.

I am struggling to find peace, strength, and hope, and I am afraid of falling into depression. I truly need God to help me heal my heart, hold me together, and guide me through this pain.

I regret certain things deeply and I ask for forgiveness, healing, and peace in my soul. My wish is to become a better person through this experience.

If it is God’s will, may our paths meet again for the good of both of us. If not, please pray that I find acceptance, healing, and strength to move forward.

Please also pray for my ex-boyfriend, that he may be healthy, safe, and at peace, as he is also going through health difficulties.

Thank you from my heart.

Hello,

A week ago, I deactivated my Instagram account and selected the option that it should not be automatically reactivated. For the past few days, I have been trying to log back in, but it does not work.

I have tried logging in through a browser, incognito mode, and the Instagram app. I cleared the cache, uninstalled and reinstalled the app, but the problem persists.

When I log in through a browser, it appears to sign in, but then I only see a blank white screen. There are no options available, only the ability to log out or switch to another account. My account still exists.

In the Instagram app, I enter my username and password, it shows a loading screen, but after loading it simply returns me to the login page.

When I try to log in through the browser, Instagram asks for my two-factor authentication code. After that, I receive an email saying that someone attempted to access my Instagram account and that I cannot make changes to my account settings for a few days, although I should still be able to use the account from my usual device. I also reset my password and successfully created a new one, but I am still unable to access my account.

Could you please help me understand what is happening and how I can regain access to my account?

Hello,

A week ago, I deactivated my Instagram account and selected the option that it should not be automatically reactivated. For the past few days, I have been trying to log back in, but it does not work.

I have tried logging in through a browser, incognito mode, and the Instagram app. I cleared the cache, uninstalled and reinstalled the app, but the problem persists.

When I log in through a browser, it appears to sign in, but then I only see a blank white screen. There are no options available, only the ability to log out or switch to another account. My account still exists.

In the Instagram app, I enter my username and password, it shows a loading screen, but after loading it simply returns me to the login page.

When I try to log in through the browser, Instagram asks for my two-factor authentication code. After that, I receive an email saying that someone attempted to access my Instagram account and that I cannot make changes to my account settings for a few days, although I should still be able to use the account from my usual device. I also reset my password and successfully created a new one, but I am still unable to access my account.

Could you please help me understand what is happening and how I can regain access to my account?

Hello,

A week ago, I deactivated my Instagram account and selected the option that it should not be automatically reactivated. For the past few days, I have been trying to log back in, but it does not work.

I have tried logging in through a browser, incognito mode, and the Instagram app. I cleared the cache, uninstalled and reinstalled the app, but the problem persists.

When I log in through a browser, it appears to sign in, but then I only see a blank white screen. There are no options available, only the ability to log out or switch to another account. My account still exists.

In the Instagram app, I enter my username and password, it shows a loading screen, but after loading it simply returns me to the login page.

When I try to log in through the browser, Instagram asks for my two-factor authentication code. After that, I receive an email saying that someone attempted to access my Instagram account and that I cannot make changes to my account settings for a few days, although I should still be able to use the account from my usual device. I also reset my password and successfully created a new one, but I am still unable to access my account.

Could you please help me understand what is happening and how I can regain access to my account?

Hello,

A week ago, I deactivated my Instagram account and selected the option that it should not be automatically reactivated. For the past few days, I have been trying to log back in, but it does not work.

I have tried logging in through a browser, incognito mode, and the Instagram app. I cleared the cache, uninstalled and reinstalled the app, but the problem persists.

When I log in through a browser, it appears to sign in, but then I only see a blank white screen. There are no options available, only the ability to log out or switch to another account. My account still exists.

In the Instagram app, I enter my username and password, it shows a loading screen, but after loading it simply returns me to the login page.

When I try to log in through the browser, Instagram asks for my two-factor authentication code. After that, I receive an email saying that someone attempted to access my Instagram account and that I cannot make changes to my account settings for a few days, although I should still be able to use the account from my usual device. I also reset my password and successfully created a new one, but I am still unable to access my account.

Could you please help me understand what is happening and how I can regain access to my account?