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ICE is rumored to increase its presence in Queens and around NYC beginning Tuesday, 7/28. Keep your kids at home, as they are racially profiling. Turn off Face ID on your phone, take pictures of your documents, and share your location with loved ones. Be safe and look out for your neighbors!
https://www.newsnationnow.com/us-news/immigration/ice-new-york-city-sources/
I (36F) been with my fiancé (46M) for 6 years, and engaged for 2. When we met, he was newly divorced with no kids.
Since I’ve been with my fiancé, his older brother (49M) has managed to bring up my fiancé’s ex-wife at every family gathering. Every. Single. Time. Thanksgivings, Christmases, and birthdays included. Everyone has a past, so I tried to be polite and just hear out his grievances about her in the beginning. (At first, I admittedly enjoyed getting the tea about why their marriage didn’t work out, but after 6 years of hearing about her, I’d finally had enough.)
I tried to set a boundary and asked future BIL to please not mention my fiancé’s ex-wife around me anymore. After being with his brother for this long, I feel like I’ve earned that respect, but he continues to bring her up. Now, he just prefaces his stories about her with, “I know you don’t want to hear this, but his ex would ____,” or “sorry to mention her again, but _____ would have ____ differently.”
He did it again recently at their mother’s birthday dinner, and I finally had enough. This time, I was so fed up with the repeated disrespect of my boundaries that I walked out of the restaurant (at the tail end of the night) to get some fresh air and cool off. So, AITAH for walking out of my future MIL’s birthday dinner because of this? Should I have stayed and sucked it up? Asked my fiancé to have yet another conversation with his brother about having more respect for me and our relationship?