Ravi is both wronged and wrong
Believing him entirely, he was abused by his wife. He's definitely the victim there, no doubt. Without ending his marriage, he had a public affair. That's wrong.
But what's more wrong is both Ravi and Aarti using their children as pawns. She is posting emotion "strong woman mama bear tiger cub" type cringe posts with the children. He publicly had an affair with someone who's not the children's mother, openly, so not hiding that from his children.
Neither of them have the children's goodwill in their mind. If they did, they could easily co-parent. They just choose to dramatize everything. Both lack maturity.
You might be miserable and even suicidal, but you need to behave before your children. That's what parenting is, that's what literally so many of us regular people do.
If something untoward happens, the public opinion will be "no one cares about men's mental health", but the truth is - you start caring for yourself.
I have a question I've asked before too - Why no friend, family member - why is there no support from them? No one from his childhood, his work, family? Even if we assume his controlling wife isolated him, now that everything is public, why has no one come forward? He isn't a nobody, he's a really good actor, why isn't even his close family on his side?