u/AvoidanceAlias

Seeing a lot of interesting design roles open this month and just curious whether it is worth applying for them.

Exactly what the title says :)
My GF has beautiful large feet which sometimes upset her, so Im trying to help her find shoes she'd like. Shes super vegan so nothing leather works, so getting custom shoes made where I am isn't much of an option either.
Surely there's Some lovely brand that make comfortably large shoes for women?
help a brother out <3

I need help finding a very specific post graduate course
top colleges are clearly a scam these days and I want ppl to give me real world experiences and advice on how to pick

i hate that arc so much.

”we’re going to London!“

you three and what money?!? based on such a weak lead

FTM here.
After Ive started presenting intensely masc, whenever I pass trans women outside, they smile at me in the MOST warm way and sometimes give me BIG compliments. It's SOOO beautiful. I feel like I got access to new secret and gorgeous club.

also when they smile at me flirty-ly, I always get this feeling like "OH ME?! you think I AM GOOD MAN?" and the validation of being a safe person to a gorgeous doll is so sweet and humbling. Bless you all, hope you are all safe and so loved!

 I had seen an artist make beautiful delicate ornaments on instagram with an open flame / bunsen burner and borosilicate tubes
it was very thin tubes and they were heating and bending them and attaching them to themselves making gorgeous bauble kind of ornaments
please help me find
Serach yt insta and tried claude

I had seen an artist make beautiful delicate ornaments on instagram with an open flame / bunsen burner and borosilicate tubes
it was very thin tubes and they were heating and bending them and attaching them to themselves making gorgeous bauble kind of ornaments
please help me find
Serach yt insta and tried claude

Hey
I'm 34 and since I was 14, I have had a 7 day period. 4 days full on bleeding a lot and then 3 days spotting. Okay I got on top of this with some intense work through cycling syncing and whatnot
the 7 day period is because I have a bicornuated uterus (two chambers with a septum down the middle)

I hit 30 and everything went fucking haywire. It's been so scary.
The hot flashes, the cold sweats, the INTENSE pms that actually makes me suicidal every 25 days, its been SO hard

Turns out its the fibroids
two nice bigs - one inside, one outside the uterus

This requires a surgery but cant be laparoscopic because of the size
gynaec said its an incision

taking them off will only ease the pms possibly?
its doesnt change the 7 day period

I really DO NOT want the IUD for many reasons
Which because of the two chambers would first require a surgery to take remove the septum

I am seriously considering a hysterectomy. Gynaecologist was pretty positive on it- said I would recover quickly as I am 34 and otherwise pretty healthy

I am very certain I do not want to pregnant ever (trauma, finances etc etc)

Please weigh in.
I am doing so much reading, but I am scared I am not thinking it through

I was SA-ed as a minor twice
and I have real trouble letting it all go
I spent a huge part of 20s Obsessing over how to come out about it and it consumed me.

I want out of this loop so bad,
Its seem forgiveness is the only way but I am not there yet

I am looking for some hope, some strength, some peace
Suggest me some books please

please please help me find this article 

it was 2024 or before
written by a man I think

the part I best remember was like

As an adult I know that it is very easy to not hurt someone
as a teenager I thought it must be very hard...

looking for an article written around 2024 about the experience of being a child among people who sexualise you too early

maybe it was account of Epstein stuff but I dont think they specifically mention the people

it stayed with me because of a paragraph that went something like

I did not know this was bad, I just thought I was special and adults were giving me special attention....