u/Awkward-Wishbone-615

I myself have/had limerance and I'm trying to figure out if a co worker is limerant for me. I've worked with him for years and I went carpooled for a few years. He had a strong crush on me that went borderline creepy, he keep an eye on who I was talking to and he'd go in a mood with that person if it was a guy ect (I could go on for hours about the stuff I've noticed over the years) the only thing that makes me think it isn't limerance is the almost angry possessiveness.

My limerance was never like his and I'd like to get some other feedback from others

Completely new to cups, always been a tampon user. Period came today, folded the cup and inserted and it seems to fit over my cervix but I'm getting a bit of blood when I pee and wipe. It has small holes around the edge I'm guessing so I don't suction cup my uterus out, would that be why I'm getting a bit of blood? I'm 34 and no kids I got the small, should I have gotten the large? Is there any tips or tricks I need to know?

My back is stiff and in pain, I feel like I need to twist and wring it out. It feels like my spine needs a good twist and loosen up. Mid and upper back is the worst areas

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I opened a Lloyds bank to switch to RBS for the £200 I didn't wait for the card or anything I used the information from the app, can anyone shed any light to why they have rejected it and what I can do now? Can I contact rsb and switch from a different bank?

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I'm on a grateful journey lately and I feel like my heart is asking to feel and release so I'm looking for some good heart-led gratitude meditations. I use insightT and YouTube

I've done somatic work for a while now and I think I have a pretty good relationship with my body and how it releases stored trauma. I can normally feel a pull with whatever needs releasing (shoulder, chest ect) lately I've been feeling a pull towards releasing inside my vagina but don't know how to begin attempting it. I know there was childhood sexual trauma and I feel like I'm at a stage where it's ready to be let go. I was looking into yoni massage but I feel that could be a bit risky looking online unless I have someone to personally recommend me.

Another thing I'm wondering is if I can just do it by feeling into the body/energy without touch?

Any advice or personal experiences is greatly welcomed, or another sub if this isn't the right place to ask

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I swear when I shared my link to a friend that it said £5 but now that he's done that I checked again and it says £10 so he's not met the requirements yet, does anyone know the date this new change happened?

I've driven less than 10 times in my new car and my anxiety gets worse when there's loads of traffic. I found it fun to drive when I went out at 5am and did a test run to work (20 mins) but as soon as other cars are around me I get panicky. I drove home on Friday at rush hour and I was shaking after 20 minutes, I tried to go back out an hour later and had to drive home after 2 minutes because I felt too overwhelmed and I panic and make mistakes in that state. The build up in my head before each drive is terrible.

I know physically all I can do is keep trying but does anyone have any words of wisdom or similar issues they got over?

Looking for dual front and rear (not the combined one where the rear camera films the back seat) I'm on a budget I'd like to stick to £70 or less preferably, I don't know where to look there's so many

I'm new to Qigong and want to heighten my senses and develop spiritually. I did the 8 brocades daily for about 4 months and I'm looking for something else but I don't know what, with my working hours I don't have the option of going to a class or finding a master to learn from right now so I use online videos.

The job I'm transitioning into requires me to feel the energy and subtleties of peoples energy field, access and guide that energy with my hands and the better I get the more I can help people in the safest way.

Did I overreact here?

I was talking to a guy on hinge, our first phone call was 3 hours long - 2nd one 5 hours! We seemed to intellectually hit it off and met a few days later. Everything was great, the talk and attraction was still there but there were a few instances where he mentioned things about my appearance. I did feel like he was very attracted to me but wanted to adjust things.

-Mentioned I had masculine energy

-Said he'd like to see me in more feminine clothes

-Said he'd like me to wear my hair down

(There's also a culture difference - he's Indian I'm British)

(A bit of background without my life story is that I'm trying to heal my feminine side due to childhood trauma and this year I'm slowly adjusting at my own pace, I have a hair appointment booked for next month and have been trying to figure out a style I'm comfortable in)

I said I needed to be met where I was while I was on my growth journey and he said all the right things like he'll help me but the things he said when we met really triggered me and I couldn't stop thinking of them.

We were supposed to meet for a cinema date today and he mentioned on the phone a few days before that he wanted me to come with my hair down. I woke up feeling sensitive and with a low battery so said I didn't want to come because I wanted to be able to be in a comfy hoodie and not be judged.

He said I took it all wrong and he didn't mean to make me feel judged so I said ok let's go but he was too offended that I "cancelled" and left it 3 hours before messaging saying no let's leave it. Then a few hours later he ended things.

I felt like I couldn't continue with the trigger hanging over my head because he was touching a wound which I told him about, but because it was all so new and fast maybe I expected too much from him too soon? Obviously I know you're getting this from my perspective and he definitely has his own but would you have handled it any different?

I'm trying to really focus on self love and felt like what I built was being torn down but I do worry that the connection was a good one that I've jumped the gun over.

*Edit He rang me and we spent 3 hours on the phone and I hated every minute of it. It's like the haze disappeared and I could see him, he took no responsibility and blamed the days events on me and then he called my spirituality stupid and I noped out mentally. He thinks we're back together based on the call but I'm going to get my words together for closure for him