u/Biden_is_cool

I blocked my ex ldr girlfriend after an argument broke out while trying the mend things and I don't know if it was out of anger but she bragged and laughed about using me and, about sleeping with another man in the bed I paid for.

I'm still so hurt. I blocked her and her family. My last text was "you're a bad person", she saw the message and I quickly blocked her. Two weeks later I'm still sad, healing has been difficult and I haven't been enjoying the things I used to enjoy.

We spoke everyday for two years, so it's been difficult not having someone to talk to. I feel betrayed and like all trust is lost

Was I in the wrong for cutting contact?

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I dropped out of college after 1.5 years, loans in default ~25k debt no degree.

I later took classes for a CNC machine operator certificate, realized it's not something I liked and quit.

Years later I attended a community college, I struggled balancing it with full time work, it was difficult to pay out of pocket, my most recent tuition bill got sent to collections.

I've been working with a staffing agency since 2025 taking on short term jobs - they're mostly clerical or customer service roles.

I want to continue schooling but I can't afford it I'm constantly stressed going from contract job to contract job.

I spent the last two years spending my money into helping my now ex long distance gf, I saw it as an investment for the two of us.

Things did not work out and I lost a lot of money and now I'm full of credit card debt.

I can't blame anyone but myself, I am trying my best to improve my situation but I don't know who to turn to for advice on how I can create a plan to create stability in my life.

How can I plan for a better financial future?

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Recently ended a toxic relationship with a narcissistic person who used me financially and left me dry as a bone and who continued to message me of how she's banging new men. I blocked her again cause it was too much for me and I feel overwhelmed.

I'm thinking of going out to a club alone to forget about the fact that I loved her at one point.

I am renting an apartment in ciudad Juan Bosch and I am the inquilino and my now ex girlfriend is the garante. She is Dominican but I am not.

I stayed there a few months after signing the lease this past spring but left due to my job and I've been unable to return since. My gf stayed there alone but eventually I told her to leave the apartment because she didn't want to help with anything, never got a job and was always wanting me to send her money even though I was covering rent and utilities. I had already supported her financially through out our whole relationship.

As far as I know, the apartment still has a stove, bed, some of my tools, clothing, a washer, air conditioner and a picture of my ex and I.

She's the reason I visited the DR and for which I rented the apartment, we were long distance for the majority of our relationship.

Now I don't know what to do. I can't travel to the DR at this time to empty out the apartment but I also don't want to be paying rent for a place I can't stay in.

Is my only option to just abandon it and take it as a loss? I don't have a reason to return. Could anyone please offer some advice?

Is it creepy to want to hangout with a female coworker (both temp workers by the way) outside of work.

I thought she was cute since day one and she's been very receptive in conversations and I'd like to get to know her better without coming off as a creep. Is a ~10 year age difference too much? What signals should I look out for to help guide my decision?

Ldr GF 2+ years lives in a poorer country, has two kids and has been separated for 5 years. I've visited her many times.

We've discussed marriage, but she needs to first get divorced, the divorce could cost $500 to $1000 USD. That's a lot of money for me.

Is it wrong that I can't pay for her divorce, it was her mistake not mine. When I tell her I can't pay for her divorce she gets upset.

I love her but it shouldn't be my responsibility, money is tight for me at this time. I'm already paying for literally every expense in our relationship.

Last Christmas she had a "surprise" for me. She claimed that she finalized her divorce. I congratulated her and left it at that.

Months later I visited her in person, we went to a church event and the church offered to marry us. My gf then admitted, in front of the church people that she couldn't get married because she was not yet divorced. I was stunned.

So she freaking lied to me for months about getting divorced. I was angry and she then blamed me for not paying for her divorce lol.

I'm starting to think I should look for a local GF instead, that is financially responsible, not married and preferably has no kids.

Am I wrong to feel this way?

Does anyone know where I can find a video or guide for the replacement of a shift cable on a 2003 Toyota highlander

Does anyone know where I can find a video or guide for the replacement of a shift cable on a 2003 Toyota highlander

She says she wants dick and asked if we could open our relationship. Then later played it off, that she was joking. I'm not open to this idea and I was hurt by the fact that she even said it.

She said I could see other women and although it sounds great I don't have female friends while I can only imagine amount of guys that are lining up for her.

She always thinks I'm screwing other women and chatting them up but that couldn't be farther from the truth. I don't even have friends lol 😂. Which sucks because I feel like I've been financially used, I'm now left with no money, no sex, no friends and will soon be without a job until I can get another one lined up so I'm pretty stressed already.

Yeah she might of been joking but I'm not seeing it that way and I can't really trust.